Oye Ahem Dikra...selective speaking... - Page 2

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Yes Munni, I posted this on a another thread also. First of all, it was okay to give him silent treatment for a day, but Rashi pulled the string until it broke, now he is not going to attempt to talk to Gopi, because he feels he has hurt her deeply so he is going to give her space.

If Gopi had started talking to him again, he would have confided in her, he has told her everything up to the point of the party and anger, and things would have smoothed out if he had been allowed to apologize.

So yeah, lack of communication is going cause them lot of pain and heartache.

At the end of this, they will both have realized what kind of consequences could take place if they don't talk to each other. This is one element that has been missing in their new relationship recently.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Munni I do not think he will explain. He never does because he believes there is nothing to explain.. 😕 Wrong, I agree but he does not mean something when he says something..

He told Gopi that he wanted this over with. He meant that. He stopped the marriage to avoid Anitha having the same fate as Gopi had in the first year of their marriage but this is again a sensitive issue.

I think this is what it is...

1. He does not want to bring the past like this thinking that it would hurt Gopi. Stupid Ahem, I know but that would have been a driver. He does not know that Gopi is already battling their past.

2. Anitha confessed to him as a friend. How do you tell this to all? It is difficult to betray her in his mind.. Stupid again but he does not know that Anitha is lyiing.

3. He believes that his family believes and trusts him not to do anything wrong. Except for Gopi going out, he actually has never given them anything to complain about or mistrust him about.. They believed him through the Anitha thing and he believes they will believe him through this too..

Stupid again.. But comes with the pride..

So yeah.. Both Ahem and Gopi will finally realize the importance of communication and words and this will make their relationship better. But to do that they have another field of fire to cross.

This may be Koki/Gopi Vs. Anitha but this is actually Ahem's battle.. He will have to work and come up to speed.. He will have to😊

Originally posted by: dipsy80

ok please dont throw rotten tomatoes or chappals..actually chappals are fine provided they are size 5 and thrown in pair 😊...not trying to defend ahem or koki here but just trying to understand from their point of view...

both have a lot of pride..actually ego...and that is the way their character is...keeping that in mind now when anita will show her cards to koki i am sure she will say that ahem is with gopi only to keep koki happy and that he still loves her...koki could easily tell ahem everything and he will obviously say that he wants to be with gopi but the fact remains that he chose to be with gopi over anita even when he was in love with anita...just to keep his mom happy...and that is exactly the point that anita is trying to make...and that is why koki wont tell anything to ahem because she wants to prove to anita that gopi is perfect for ahem and they are happy together..

its another thing now that ahem loves gopi...and that is a fact that anita is determined to overlook..he has already told anita that he is lucky to have gopi as his wife...going by his character he is not the kind of man to declare his love for his wife in public...he has not yet told his own wife ...so what he meant here was that he loves her now and is happy with his life and thats why he said its not the same thing when anita tried to compare her lie about her suitor with ahem's marriage...

for ahem there is no confusion...right now his only concern is to get things back on track with his wife...he didnt show much interest or concern when koki took his opinion on selecting a groom for anita..the only reason he intervened today was again as a friend because anita very cunningly got him involved...and the reason why he didnt give an explanation to koki today was probably because he didnt think his mom would take that as a valid reason for saying no..she didnt think it was valid enough reason for her son!..but ahem knows the pain he and gopi went through because gopi was not his choice and it was only because of gopi's patience and love that their marriage survived..that's what ahem meant when he said he was lucky to have gopi...

i just hope that ahem explains everything to gopi but thanks to raashi now they are not on talking terms so i am not sure about that ...

oh dear that was a long rant!!!😲

Originally posted by: sbp1971

I am sorry to say I have no rotten eggs or tomatoes to throw at you nor size 5 chappals.

Just picture some flowers coming your way. I think you have hit the nail on the head, this makes perfect sense.👏

If Koki tells him everything, it will not solve the problem, but if Koki shows to Anita and then reveal it, it will have more impact.

Originally posted by: dipsy80

ok please dont throw rotten tomatoes or chappals..actually chappals are fine provided they are size 5 and thrown in pair 😊...not trying to defend ahem or koki here but just trying to understand from their point of view...

both have a lot of pride..actually ego...and that is the way their character is...keeping that in mind now when anita will show her cards to koki i am sure she will say that ahem is with gopi only to keep koki happy and that he still loves her...koki could easily tell ahem everything and he will obviously say that he wants to be with gopi but the fact remains that he chose to be with gopi over anita even when he was in love with anita...just to keep his mom happy...and that is exactly the point that anita is trying to make...and that is why koki wont tell anything to ahem because she wants to prove to anita that gopi is perfect for ahem and they are happy together..

its another thing now that ahem loves gopi...and that is a fact that anita is determined to overlook..he has already told anita that he is lucky to have gopi as his wife...going by his character he is not the kind of man to declare his love for his wife in public...he has not yet told his own wife ...so what he meant here was that he loves her now and is happy with his life and thats why he said its not the same thing when anita tried to compare her lie about her suitor with ahem's marriage...

for ahem there is no confusion...right now his only concern is to get things back on track with his wife...he didnt show much interest or concern when koki took his opinion on selecting a groom for anita..the only reason he intervened today was again as a friend because anita very cunningly got him involved...and the reason why he didnt give an explanation to koki today was probably because he didnt think his mom would take that as a valid reason for saying no..she didnt think it was valid enough reason for her son!..but ahem knows the pain he and gopi went through because gopi was not his choice and it was only because of gopi's patience and love that their marriage survived..that's what ahem meant when he said he was lucky to have gopi...

i just hope that ahem explains everything to gopi but thanks to raashi now they are not on talking terms so i am not sure about that ...

oh dear that was a long rant!!!😲

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

deepu ... as shilpa said only flowers coming your way 👏⭐️

beautiful and very well said...👏⭐️