Ahem and love: her strength

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahem found himself in the most mortitying situation ever that know matter what he would have said would never have any winning effect at all.
He felt guilt-ridden, embarrassed, ashamed and humiliated. This look could not be missed on his face and in his eyes.
As the events unfolded two things needs to be raised:
1. At his mother's insistence Gopi stayed behind with Ahem at the hospital. Gopi in turned gave him immense unspoken strength. This he had observed as she took care of the people around and even calmed his mother on the phone. He was amazed at her ability to be in calm control of the situation whilst he was breaking inside. He was grateful for this and expressed his thanks to her.
2. The resounding words by Anita - what kind of husband would leave his wife on the first night of marriage? Will Ahem think back to his wedding night and the treatment he had given to Gopi when he came into the room?
Whilst Gopi took care of Ahem's personal material needs, she continues to take care of him but this time it is his emotional needs. She is gradually enveloping him completely.
Like he had told Gopi when he helped her up the escalator, mein tumhara saath saath rahonga ... mein hoon na, so too is she doing the same. With this the way forward is clear. Ahem will free his past and present encounters with Anita and move on with his life with Gopi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Another fantastic take Swasthi.

As I watched I realized he thought he was going to be free of this guilt soon, but instead not only does he get more guilt on top of that there is humiliation and shame. His mind shut down and he couldn't talk even if he wanted to. When the marriage broke and Nilesh and his father were leaving he was only able to shake his head no.

Favors in Ahemji's point today. He may not have acknowledge Gopi with a look but he is well aware who resides in his heart.

When Gopi was injured and he carried her he was besides himself, and even when he brought her home and carried her up his feeling were overwhelming, but today when he carried Anita part of him was detached. He wasn't thinking I am carrying the person I love or still have lingering feelings for. He was not beside the stretcher when she was rolled into the hospital, he wasn't holding her hand nor did he try to wake her. All he wanted was for her to checked on quickly.

Then of course there is more to come, Anita doesn't have anywhere to go, and now the shock is so great she cannot remember the fact that the marriage was called off, and thinks the marriage took place and is now asking for her husband.

All through this emotional roller coaster he did acknowledge Gopi and thanked her for being there for him. He knows that his Gopi trusts him completely, only thing he does not know is that Gopi does not trust his feelings for her because he has not voiced them out loud.

This is a good thing what is happening now. He will now help Anita with Gopi supporting him to get back with Nilesh. This will free him of his guilt for hurting her in the past and present also.

Let's see what next week brings us, but I know one thing Gopi will not misunderstand him and will stand by him, but after Anita is gone, her doubts will have to be dealt by him.
Edited by sbp1971 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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loved your post 👏...i was relieved at watching today's episode...i cant pinpoint any particular scene or reaction to explain this but i am quite certain that whatever ahem is doing for anita is only out of a feeling of immense guilt and responsibility since he is directly and indirectly responsible for her being in this mess...infact in the precap ahem looked almost desperate to set things right..didnt look like a man in love with his ex..
but the sad part is gopi does not know this...she will misunderstand his actions towards anita and we will see lots of rona dhona from gopi 😭...i m sure koki will intervene and come up with some unique way of making ahem realize his feelings for gopi and confess..she does have a way with punishments...so am going to try to tolerate this as i see a light at the end of this dark tunnel 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Terrific Analysis! 👏 His expressions today reflected a man who was filled with horror and shock over what just occurred and the only thing in his mind that was running through it was how was he going to fix this?

With Gopi by his side, he felt her silent support and that she had faith in him that he had done nothing wrong whatsoever. His simple thank you to her for being there for him indicated that he would not have wanted anyone else besides her with him.

The episode today showed the growing understanding between Gopi and Ahem and no matter what they were always going to be there for each other. Gopi portrayed today what a perfect saathiya she is, making sure her husband was fine, and trying to ease the burden that he is now enduring.

Ahem taking care of Anita to the hospital was very clinical done, no emotional attachment involved, he was just putting himself through the motions, as if he were just someone trying to be of help today.

Gopi is a rare kind of human being showing care and providing comfort to Anita. Not many women would be that selfless, she has shown what humanity really is.
With regard to the precap, I don't believe Gopi will think wrong of Ahem, she has a lot of faith that whatever her husband is doing is rectifying his past mistakes and moving forward henceforth.
Just a PoV again.😳
Thank you Swasthi for this beautiful post! 🤗



Edited by doc4ever - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post Swasthi. One wishes that he remembers what he said to her on the escalator and will hold do it. He may be breaking inside but has he seen his little china doll that is Gopi. She has broken time and time again. If she is to be his strength then he needs to look beyond his pain to put her together again. Only then will she feel the need to stand by him. Just my thoughts. Total waffle as usual.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

Ahem found himself in the most moritying situation ever that know matter what he would have said would never have any winning effect at all.

He felt guilt-ridden, embarrassed, ashamed and humiliated. This look could not be missed on his face and in his eyes.
As the events unfolded two things needs to be raised:
1. At his mother's insistence Gopi stayed behind with Ahem at the hospital. Gopi in turned gave him immense unspoken strength. This he had observed as she took care of the people around and even calmed his mother on the phone. He was amazed at her ability to be in calm control of the situation whilst he was breaking inside. He was grateful for this and expressed his thanks to her.
2. The resounding words by Anita - what kind of husband would leave his wife on the first night of marriage? Will Ahem think back to his wedding night and the treatment he had given to Gopi when he came into the room?
Whilst Gopi took care of Ahem's personal material needs, she continues to take care of him but this time it is his emotional needs. She is gradually enveloping him completely.
Like he had told Gopi when he helped her up the escalator, mein tumhara saath saath rahonga ... mein hoon na, so too is she doing the same. With this the way forward is clear. Ahem will free his past and present encounters with Anita and move on with his life with Gopi.

Wishful thinking. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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love your analysis perfect today a broken ahem a strong gopi supporting her husband n family
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Posted: 13 years ago
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beautifully written and profoundly insightful!!Thanks so much!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent analysis again Swasthi ⭐️ 👏
I wish I could add more but yourself and everyone else has given such great responses, I have no more to say 😛
Edited by -neela- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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again beautiful analysis swasthi.👏..!i really felt sad for gopi today...!she was💔..!eventhough she is standing beside him in his tough times..!i love you gopi👍🏼

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