Doormate vs Faminism

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Posted: 14 years ago
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There is a lot of talk abt Gouri is a Brand ambessdor of faminism and Anandi is same for Doormate😆😆 Now i m confused abt wht is doormate and wht is faminism. ye forum bhi na sourse of confusion😆😆 always confuse me. even in the matter, where i was dead sure, after reading logic of forum, get confused😆😆😆

So wht is is Faminism?? i was sure tht faminism means fighting for equalit of women, having self respect and achieve something on ur own. but now i m confused tht may be faminism means, shouting on everyone😆😆. the higher ur pitch, the bigger u faminist😆😆😆 being insecure, Imposing urself on other and force thm to accept u😆 poking ur nose in otherlife and if they dont react, create drama😆😆 portraying urself always as victim and blame whole world for tht. indulge in relationship with a cheater knowingly and thn spend whole life feeling insecure😆😆 create a illusive world, in which all r cheater but ur cheater husband, who is just bhola bhala and cant understand how everybody is using him😆😆 Love to those who did wrong with u, but hate those who anonymously helped u, becoz its hurt ur Big Faminist Self Respect😆 dont pay back, but dont forget to shout😆😆 Challange for everything but not to pay back the charity which hurt u so hard😆😆 Plan and plot to win ur stupid chalange. Taunt people for their root, forgetting ur own root😆😆 so for me this forum hs opened my eyes to look FAMINISM in different way, thnx to Pizza madam, being brand ambassdor for such faminism.

Now wht is doormate: again i believed tht doormate is those who hs not their own identity, always ruled by other and not dare to go against any odd happening around thm, anyone can just clean their feet and run over it😡. but again forum changed my thinking portraying Anandi as brand ambassdor of Doormate😉 now i realised tht a doormate is those who always fight for other. ya sometime do adjustment and compromise for the sake of family. being selfless, not running after a cheater husbands, not replying to a psycho, earning their own identity and becoming Sarpanch of the village. fighting against the evil of society on their own, going against the whole society.😆😆 even dare to go against family for the justice. ya may be sometime become weak for the sake of family😉

BTW i m also confused wht the brandambassdor of Faminism done to fight for the equality, rit and welfare of women, except shouting and blaming the whole world for her own fualts. on the otherhand a doormate is fighting against BV, against a rapist, for the education of people including woman, against sociel evil like natha pratha. A doormate hs guts to slap the son of a powerfull politician to defend a girl👏👏

Now i again confused, wht to choose - a doormate or a faminist😉😉 if the forum definition of doormate and faminst is currect, thn i wd choose anytime a doormate over a faminist😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I just knew as soon as you saw my post you would make a topic about my comments. But before wanting to mock any other statement of mine just wanted to let you know its feminism with an e 😉

Feminism - a woman stands up for herself and her rights. Feminism means that you dont bear every zulm a man puts on you and keep quiet about it. You stand up for yourself. You make it known that you are not inferior to him. The rest shouting screaming etc etc is exactly what Jogia deserves. I just wish she wouldnt use it on the family. In fact I wont be surprised if someday Gauri will be standing in Anandi's position going on to Jogia's next poor wife about how she was once in her position and Jogia refused to acknowledge her😆 Anandi is being a doormat because she let him get away with everything and rarely told him off and always bachaoed him from punishment. So he thought he could take advantage of her. Anandi is too good for her own good. She needs to start standing up for herself too.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Fantastic post!
Fight of rights... And gauri! 1st of all where and what r her rights! ...
Knowing all she is saying koi manne ya na mane main ish ghar ki bahu hoon!
Kab hui !?
She is shouting and insulting herself only...

And anandi , she is not a perfect person, has flaws also!
But her stand is very clear in recent developments ... She is not trying j back... And directly or indirectly told j... Stop doing that with gauri what he did to her...
She is doing what she can do for society...
I don't find it like doormat anyway!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I just knew as soon as you saw my post you would make a topic about my comments. But before wanting to mock any other statement of mine just wanted to let you know its feminism with an e 😉

Feminism - standing up for what is right. Feminism means that you dont bear every zulm a man puts on you and keep quiet about it. You stand up for your rights. You make it known that you are not inferior to him. The rest shouting screaming etc etc is exactly what Jogia deserves. I just wish she wouldnt use it on the family. In fact I wont be surprised if someday Gauri will be standing in Anandi's position going on to Jogia's next poor wife about how she was once in her position and Jogia refused to acknowledge her😆 Anandi is being a doormat because she let him get away with everything and rarely told him off and always bachaoed him from punishment. So he thought he could take advantage of her. Anandi is too good for her own good. She needs to start standing up for herself too.

And i knew as soon as u see my thread u will be the first one to comment here😉😉 BTW thanx for thinking abt me after posting ur comments and waiting my post😉

So ur Gouri is standing for wht is right after doing all the wrong😆😆😆 who is doing Julm on her??? for which rit she is fighting??? tht which she dosnt hv??? who is suffering from inferier complex herself?? Jogia deserve shouting, so she is doing sociel welafare by giving Jogia wht he deserve😆😆😆

so u mean not forcing a cheater husband to stick with u is called doormate???😆😆 not fighting for a useless person is also called doormate???
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Another reason to laugh today! Great post Ankit👏

BY the way you made it sound like famine rather than femine. Famine means drought, starvation, disaster. Anyways it's one or the other way correct😉

A woman has so many roles to do in a society. Equality achieved or not achieved varies widely. Standing up for your rights stomping several's hearts is not feminism in anyway. No female will be called a feminist until and unless she practices the basic humanity codes. She literally oppresses the people who are in the her way of so called happiness
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit111

And i knew as soon as u see my thread u will be the first one to comment here😉😉 BTW thanx for thinking abt me after posting ur comments and waiting my post😉

So ur Gouri is standing for wht is right after doing all the wrong😆😆😆 who is doing Julm on her??? for which rit she is fighting??? tht which she dosnt hv??? who is suffering from inferier complex herself?? Jogia deserve shouting, so she is doing sociel welafare by giving Jogia wht he deserve😆😆😆

so u mean not forcing a cheater husband to stick with u is called doormate???😆😆 not fighting for a useless person is also called doormate???



She always bachaoed this Jogia and kept quiet from childhood only. She hardly ever stands up for herself. And didnt Jogia make promises to Gauri when he married her? When he took saat phere? They didnt know then they were doing an illegal marriage. Gauri has every right to scream on him for breaking those promises. He never considers her feelings at all! He gets bharkofied if one man even praises her or looks at her! But never thought how she feels that he talks to Anandi day and night. He tore off to Jetsar and stayed for weeks. Why? Did he never consider he had a hugely pregnant wife back home who was waiting for him? He never thought of her once! Eyelocks with Anandi. Such a besharam guy🤢 In this I support Gauri completely. If he has done something wrong she lets her displeasure be known. I would be thoroughly disgusted with any woman who bore such mental torture and stayed quiet about it. KYUN??? How many men stay quiet if injustice is done to them? Gauri stands up for herself and doesnt put up with Jogia's disgusting deeds. True she is blinded in love and forgives him easily but at least she doesnt stay quiet. Whatever happened in that house no REAL (not tv serial) wife I know would keep quiet after that whether it be to Jogia or to the family.
Edited by SRKLuvr - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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jub doosre pe baat aati hai to anandi faminism ban jaati hai pur jub apne pe baat aati hai to anandi doormate ban jaati hai par gauri khud ke liye faminism to hai pur doosre ke liye nahi btw this is not feminism ise self centre kehte hain pur gauri doormate nahi hai
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Posted: 14 years ago
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No one is having problem when g shouts at j... But her all blamings come directly on anandi immediately ... All family and anandi r at fault and her jagat is complete bhola bhala...
That's the prob!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr



She always bachaoed this Jogia and kept quiet from childhood only. She hardly ever stands up for herself. And didnt Jogia make promises to Gauri when he married her? When he took saat phere? They didnt know then they were doing an illegal marriage. Gauri has every right to scream on him for breaking those promises. He never considers her feelings at all! He gets bharkofied if one man even praises her or looks at her! But never thought how she feels that he talks to Anandi day and night. He tore off to Jetsar and stayed for weeks. Why? Did he never consider he had a hugely pregnant wife back home who was waiting for him? He never thought of her once! Eyelocks with Anandi. Such a besharam guy🤢 In this I support Gauri completely. If he has done something wrong she lets her displeasure be known. I would be thoroughly disgusted with any woman who bore such mental torture and stayed quiet about it. KYUN??? How many men stay quiet if injustice is done to them? Gauri stands up for herself and doesnt put up with Jogia's disgusting deeds. True she is blinded in love and forgives him easily but at least she doesnt stay quiet. Whatever happened in that house no REAL (not tv serial) wife I know would keep quiet after that whether it be to Jogia or to the family.

SRK jii, here u r counting the mistake of Jogia to prove how ur Pizza madam is Great Faminist😆 but u r forgetting tht ur Pizza madam is bearing all Jogia cheating, which is against even ur definition of Faminism. she is shouting on not Jogia but to everyone other thn jogia and proving tht her GREAT husband is just Bhola Bhala (if u watched the episode properly). she is protecting the Same Jogia, who is ur newly founded cheater (for us he was always a cheater)😉 she is only shouting and doing nothing against him. she is tolerating him. after each shouting session, she start seducing session of same Jogia,( if u watched properly all the episode😆😆) proving Jogia a devil, and still sticking with him cant prove ur Pizza madam big faminist. she is humuliating herself, without sef respect😆

BTW i know u can only understand a criminal psychology, but sometime try to also understand the psychology of innocent village child girl, a victim of BV and how its difficult for her to take a stand. even after tht she did wht not 99% girls in such position dared to think👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

jub doosre pe baat aati hai to anandi faminism ban jaati hai pur jub apne pe baat aati hai to anandi doormate ban jaati hai par gauri khud ke liye faminism to hai pur doosre ke liye nahi btw this is not feminism ise self centre kehte hain pur gauri doormate nahi hai


Anandi is not doormate even whn it concern to herself. she just do adjustment for family, which is part of marriage life. yes may be sometime she do it more thn necessary, but ofcourse its not doormate quality, but its her way, by which she hs earned love and respect from the Singh family even after facing so much odd initially and now she hs such position tht for her Singh family and even DS is ready to disown their LADALA.

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