Originally posted by: bips
Seriously how can anyone say that kokila is not dominating ? Lots of people lol
... i think my jaw dropped from shock when i heard her banning ahem from going to office ... WTH ????? ... is he 5 year old ? ... Does he need mummy's permission for everything ? ... Gopi and ahem had to give her thousand assurances for her to finally "allow" ahem to go to work ... How is this behaviour acceptable
Once again, Kokila is not perfect. She did not know Ahem's side of the story and I can't remember how much of an effort Ahem made to get her to listen. She freaked out thinking that her son was getting lazy. It's a legitimate reaction in her case due to her insecurities over her husband and all the work she put into Ahem to make sure he is not like him.
As for the idea that koki is training her kids for a better future, let me ask you - Who is the more balanced out of the three - ahem, kinjal or jigar ... Jigar trumps the rude and inconsiderate kinjal anyday ... and he definitely better than the ass ahem was and wuss he is ... who raised jigar ? ... Hetal
This is an interesting question only because there are different answers to this. Each of the Modi children are ok in my opinion. All three are extremely different and have their own pros and cons. Kinjal was extremely immature in the beginning but has adjusted pretty well at her in laws and was very independent. Despite having a spoiled rich girl image, she is a better daughter in law than Rashi. Ahem is a hard worker and an introvert, but he has evolved for the better as well. I don't know how he was a wuss. Jigar is a sweetheart but honestly, he is not good at handling Rashi or anyone like her. Out of Ahem and Jigar, Ahem would have handled Rashi properly and put her, and kept her, in her place.
Koki is not training her kids for a better future ... she only cares to train them to jump at her command ... God forbid ahem ever disagrees with her ... gold help poor gopi when she does anything that doesn't meet koki's approval ... For all those who are defending koki, just wait till ahem ever sides with gopi against koki ... then we will see all hell breaking loose ... All this "my gopi vahu is the besht" will be forgotten as gopi becomes enemy number 1.
How is this different from any other mother in law who is self conscious that she is going to lose her son over her daughter in law? Once again, Kokila is not perfect and she'll need time to know that her son is not just her son anymore but someone's husband. Hetal would be extremely upset if Jigar sided with Rashi if there was a disagreement. Kokila would actually speak up though whereas Hetal would hold it in and suffocate until she exploded.
As for hetal not doing any work ... ummm! when does hetal sit on a crown and eat grapes and order her harem around ? ... She is always working alongside with everybody else ... her only fault is that she never tried to enforce her "jethaani" status with koki ... and koki loved that ... she hated that her husband was not an important figure in the office, so she compensated by taking over the home ... There are a lot of times she completely pushes hetal aside or shrugs aside her ideas or opinions ... Just because hetal ceded authority doesn't mean that she has no ability to run the house ... There is not one "right" way of running the house ... one person can do it by picking on every small mistake and the other person can choose to do so with kindness and understanding ... Different people different leadership styles
No one said she didn't do any work. But when it comes to making decisions, Kokila as just as much of a say (or more) as Hetal. Hetal doesn't take initiative but that was never a problem. Different households have different ways of running a house.
... i am not defending rashi here ... or what she and her mom have planned ... i hate the fact that they are benefiting from it ... but hetal finding her own voice and koki backing off and giving everybody a breathing space in not necessarily a bad thing ... Hetal having her own voice is a good thing. The problem is that she is not directly addressing her concerns to Kokila and is acting like a passive aggressive teenager. She can easily tell Kokila that she wants things to run differently, and because Hetal is the older one, Kokila will not dispute it even if she feels bad. But blaming Kokila for this is not fair either.
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