Please take a note::
Khushi & Gupta family started it with manipulating and deceiving Raizada's over Shyam (sounds rude but true). Khushi's intentions were good (cant say the same about Gupta's though ..their thinking was selfish..all they cared for was Payal's wedding and in process they messed up Khushi's life) , but since we are talking about real life impact and all..consider this for reality that hiding such a big truth from Raizada's was and is unpardonable. It was and is a question of a "Woman's" life (read Anjali here)...and to think of it..it's this mistake of their's that had almost costed Anjali her life...and she is still living in this danger because of them...for they only know the truth... Khushi was and is naive in her approach and very emotional as well, she does not understand how world operates, she is too young to know that but what happened to Gupta's..were they not supposed to handle this at a mature and higher level then letting Khushi deal with it and on the top of it they took this nonsense from Khushi that Anjali will not be able to take it. Did all elders die ...why they couldn't speak to Arnav or for that matter Nani after all it's a question of someone's life. This time it's started by Khushi (though unknowingly) and she is bearing the brunt of it now...ASR will bear the fruit for what he is sowing now...She is still being stupid to overlook Shyam's advances and his psycho mind. She thinks she can handle everything alone and Gupta's are dumb!! and thats her biggest mistake and misfortune.
I still believe what Arnav has done is nothing when you compare it with what Khushi and Gupta's are doing to Anjali. Spending one night out in cold and spending nights with a psycho who is out to kill you and for that matter now probably thinking to kill ur child and brother as well...decide which situation is grave?? and this sleeping out business is not as bad as is been projected here...consider this ..Holi is approaching that means it is now not as cold as we are thinking...for what i know of from living my life in india..it is a pleasant cool time...She is not sleeping on hard floor if you notice she has a mattress to sleep on.
Sorry for this rant, but had to..
Now, again to put it clearly I am not justifying ASR's move of letting her sleep out...I am just throwing another perspective of story which is darker then what is going on between Arnav and Khushi.
Also contrary to what some/most people believe, I do not think ASR is giving Shyam any chance. He just said that to buy time ..he will brutally destroy Shyam once this 6 months are over (i do not quite get the 6 months logic though). He is just not doing anything to Shyam because that will clearly defeat his purpose to safeguard Anjali for now. He married Khushi not to torture her but to put himself in the line of fire from Shyam (before Anjali and unknowingly Khushi too) and that too because Shyam said the only thing between him and khushi is Anjali.
All I am trying to say is, let's not make it into a preachy, slogan raising kind of forum. Let's enjoy, debate, give whatever feedback we want to give (positive/negative) but let's avoid the tendency to look out for social message in everything. Women's issues and problems in real life are much much more serious and a lot of courage and efforts are required from everyone in the society.
Ok...removed the word "Basher" from my post for want of better word. I do not meant it for the people who are giving negative comments. That is something I also do sometimes. If read the updated part, hopefully it will be a bit clearer.
Another point from story's perspective is that if we dont consider it as only fiction then as far as ASR manhandling Khushi from day one is considered (which he does and again I not saying that he is doing good and that he should continue), but isnt in real life we will never want to be anywhere in vicinity of such a person. No one will take up a job in his office or home...whatever be the reason. These are creative liberties taken to move the story forward...
PS---I am not in the category of bashers for either Arnav or Khushi. I purely take them as characters, love both of them, drool over Barun, like sanaya and most importantly I leave it at that.
Edited by b.sarika2 - 14 years ago