Dear Arnav Singh Raizada - I get you! - Page 13

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Thanks! 😊

Salma -- me too fed up with so much of rona dhona now! I just wish it would stop. I would rather see Shyam - ASR and KKG than watch the family cry now. 😡

@Bold : TO me too! 😳

Originally posted by: sunflower52

I want them to start the Shaym track again, Shaym manhandling Khushi, ASR seeing this and giving a solid punch to him would be fun. Rather then seeing this rhona dhona.

Originally posted by: riti4u

👏 .. Thanks for this post ..very much needed..I didnt know why this time around I feel defending a fictional character so much when so much is against him..but seeing your post..now I know why.. 😛 ..Always had this on my mind..but you put it so b'fully in words..This story to me is about two perspective of people -which are shaped by what world has given to them- One is joy who brings smile and love all around..she is optimistic one..seeing only good in people..only bright side of world..rather living in dream world of her own where every person is b'ful..Other one is pain- the agony..who takes pessimistic approach..feels world is horrible place..harsh realities of life made him hard..for him world is cruel and so he doesnt trust ppl around coz he thinks they have selfish motives..he sees darkness..other sees light..even in darkness..No doubt when Arnav sees her in shyam's arms..he considers worst - not trusting her at all .Its not his fault ..it is what life has taught him..may be ppl close to him betrayed him and now his jija whom he respects like father betrayed him so cruelly..so dont expect him to trust khushi at this point.. but does he know that love is much deeper than he thinks..he will learn ..for sure..😛

Originally posted by: payasa

gud insight in to d character!

as people feel it dat he married khusi as punishment, i have a slighly different pov on dat matter.his decision on marrying khushi was situational. after d confrontation of asr n shyam, shyam made it clear to him dat he is not going to leave khushi n only obstruction was anjali. under the circumstances his priority was to safeguard his pregnant sister.asr might have felt dat marrying was d solution to keep khushi out of the reach of shyam right at dat moment and prevent him from breaking marriage with anjali. he understands dat khushi cud do any thing for her sister. he knew she is going to agree, if he drags her sister in dis whole fiasco. payal was his trump card. he didnt know den dat his decision is going to cost him so much. now he is seeing d repurcations of his actions on himself, on khushi n family members.

i feel the character of arnav cant go to d level of marrying n distroying a girl, just because she cheated on him. rather he wud have left her on her own. i dont know how many people share d same opinion. these r just my thoughts.

i wud prefer to see the action between asr and shyam dan dis family drama. dont know why cv's r concentrating on sufferings of characters more, which in turn is making us suffer.

one reason i can think of is, dis suffering of khushi might push shyam to get in to action, thinking dat khushi is rejected by everyone and he can pull her to his side.( am not gud at prediction)

Originally posted by: prathikri

Anna couldn't help myself from asking this... We all know that kushi is innocent wrt to the terrace scene & once arnie comes to know the truth that shaym was lying to him about their so called affair he will repent & seek forgiveness.

But what about the fact that Kushi & her family are still keeping the Raizada's in the dark about Shyam , do u think he will be able to again forgive her & her family after he comes to know that they have been hiding this from them ?

Originally posted by: bholabear

Totally agree with you

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

So the terminology was different, the point was the same..

Ok so let's imagine another one of these hypothetical situations shall we?

Let's imagine that instead of Shyam there was some other far related family friend and instead of Khushi there was Anjali who was having this discussion. Would Arnav have reacted the same way he did? I really do wish he'd stop jumping to conclusions. I actually like the fact that his character isn't the typical lover boy type image!

All I was trying to say is that no matter how he feels, no matter what he's seen, what he's done, nothing will change the fact that in reality he is WRONG! In the end when he realises just how wrong he is, he will have to repent for it.

But all in all, like I already mentioned..I too get where he's coming from but I don't support his actions. There are ways of displaying your anger - you do all you can verbally to push then down, you give them the cold shoulder, you block them out of your life, not give them a job, fire someone, but somehow making someone sleep outside in the cold just doesn't fit well with me even as a punishment.

I still love ASR, I just wish he'd learn from his mistakes.😊

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

Lol feel free to intrude!

I do agree that Khushi should have exposed Shyam and hey, just look at what a huge price she's had to pay for keeping quiet. But from her point of view she was simply being true to her character where she gives everyone a chance to redeem themselves. (Though I truly believe Mr. ASR doesn't deserve redemption right now.) I do completely understand where all this anger and hatred is coming from but somehow I just can't get myself to agree that a human being can be treated in such a way. (especially when the great Shyam is probably lying on his warm comfy bed snoring! lol) The fact that he let her sleep in her heavy wedding clothes outside on the hard rock floor, in the cold is something that shall always bug me.

What bugs me the most if that if he feels Khushi is really guilty then he is willing to go to the extent of breaking up his brother's marriage just for a punishment to be served. That is completely unnecessary. Save your sister's marriage and break up your brother's marriage? Ladies and gentleman the great Arnav Singh Raizada👏

Other than that I agree with you about them telling each other the truth but quite honestly I didn't think their relationship had yet reached the stage where she would feel comfortable in telling him. Just my personal opinion though.

Originally posted by: Cute.Sadaf

A very sensible and deep post and you've encapsulated it very thoroughly. 👍🏼

Tell me. How can a man could stand when he abruptly got two major earthquakes in his life. Where his life sewed up as a horrible joke ? Tell me. How can he shower empathy on Khushi the time he remembers that worst black nightmare of his life ? Is he God ? Is he an Angel ? No. He is human being who has an ability to sense the things with good and bad angels. One heaviest betrayal , Khushi has deluded him [ by all accounts ] that she is the only culprit behind spoiling his sister's life besides , slapping hard on Arnav's face by loving Shyam. The man who just unwrapped his feelings and desires only to the girl he started loving most has just sent him back to the cage then how'd he react ? Its all get drowned into sea with heavy heart. Okay done! Second betrayal , Shyam has tossed Anjali's life since months and for him it is like a walk on fire that his only Di's life would get hammered by her husband - his Jija ji whom he respected , always remain loyal and worthy - never ever complained or seek for the reason where Shyam actually goes , or whether he does any work or not. He trusted Shyam blindly. Done! Then what ? Is it able to digest two erupting volcano's in mouth ? What can he do in this such state ? What did he obtained by trusting again ? They proved Arnav wrong that this world is indeed , ' unfaithful '. He closed all the doors. Only the axis rotates on the game of , ' Hatred ' by which he has firmly approved to put chains on every issue so that no explanation to be given to anyone. He is trying to hate Khushi because of what she has supposedly done with her sister but his love is still intact even if quiescent. It surfaces time and again where he can't seem to hurt Khushi or have anyone else hurt her either. How else do you explain his restlessness when Khushi was shivering outside in the cold? Or his sympathy when Khushi's amma lynch up on her? Or his pain when Manorma taunted her in the kitchen? He has feelings and he realises that he does. But the after one toss you can't twist the coin easily at one it needs a long time to recuperate and comprehend the depth of it. As far as Anjali's highness is concerned , so ya , blood is always thicker but its not about to crown her - its all hold the meaning that a brother have lost all the bonds from the life and this time he couldn't tolerate ever , if the walls of his life gets shrunken. All he did is just to salvage her life. Lastly , concur with you if Khushi is getting electric shocks then Shyam stands on the same scale to get beaten up and I know someday Arnav will take him on the visit of hell just to throw him away there. Though as for the present , he's bound to take any such crucial steps in order to balance Anjali's existence.

Behind every dark tunnel there's a promise of light. Hopefully , we all see that light soon.