wrong philosophy of Sweety-no sports for the kid!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I hate mothers who do not let their kids play sport..due to homework..bad philosophy..without activity..excercise it is hard to even concentrate in studies! and the kid seems like a prisoner who is only restricted to studying!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know especially since there are more and more studies showing, that if you do music, sports, something else, your studies can improve.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with u guys on this point, though sweety is correct when their children's studies are concerned because this is the highest priority for any parents, to give a good education to their children so that they dont face any difficulties in future

however, extra curricular activities is something which parents shud encourage as well but definitely not at the cost of studies, now in this case if it is football for rocky or singing for Ginni

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priyank.

I agree with u guys on this point, though sweety is correct when their children's studies are concerned because this is the highest priority for any parents, to give a good education to their children so that they dont face any difficulties in future

however, extra curricular activities is something which parents shud encourage as well but definitely not at the cost of studies, now in this case if it is football for rocky or singing for Ginni

This is my POV

exactly not saying let them do all the activities in the world..but one or two activities will only rejuvinate their mind and make them study better! unfortunately a lot of parents do not understand it!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well yeah kinda right ! 1 hr or 2 hrs of break from studies actually help the kids to have more concentration towards studies..
But I think Sweety is not allowing Rocky to play for three reasons..
1. For Rocky, football is not an ordinary sport.. It's his passion..
2. Last time he hid the fact that he is gonna play for a club and all.. This time again he might neglect studies and secretly play .. Sweety wont even come to know..
3. He might again get injured.. Physically.. So it's better to avoid that as of now.. After exam, he can play 😃
Indoor games like Chess or cards or carom they should play 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Well yeah kinda right ! 1 hr or 2 hrs of break from studies actually help the kids to have more concentration towards studies..

But I think Sweety is not allowing Rocky to play for three reasons..
1. For Rocky, football is not an ordinary sport.. It's his passion..
2. Last time he hid the fact that he is gonna play for a club and all.. This time again he might neglect studies and secretly play .. Sweety wont even come to know..
3. He might again get injured.. Physically.. So it's better to avoid that as of now.. After exam, he can play 😃
Indoor games like Chess or cards or carom they should play 😆

it is his passion so he should defo not be disallowed to play it! a mother should let their kids live their life! I know u r a sweety fan..but please the philosophy is not right
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I faced the same kinda situation in my life cuz of my mom, and I dont regret that and I am happy she didnt allow me to get addicted to my addiction.. Addiction hampers studies..

I see Sweety ji doing something which every neighbour aunty and my own mom do.. And I am not gonna criticize them or think that their philosophy is bad..
So if you think I am not accepting the logic of Sweety for not allowing Rocky to play football at 10th standard, cuz i am a Sweety fan, your wish 😃 But the fact is, in reality nobody would let 😃 Students cant afford to break their hands before examz.. 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

I faced the same kinda situation in my life cuz of my mom, and I dont regret that and I am happy she didnt allow me to get addicted to my addiction.. Addiction hampers studies..

I see Sweety ji doing something which every neighbour aunty and my own mom do.. And I am not gonna criticize them or think that their philosophy is bad..
So if you think I am not accepting the logic of Sweety for not allowing Rocky to play football at 10th standard, cuz i am a Sweety fan, your wish 😃 But the fact is, in reality nobody would let 😃 Students cant afford to break their hands before examz.. 😃

sports..is no addiction..can u please for once be unbiased?? all my friends who r sports players..continued to play sports till the very end of their schooling...and got a percentage of 98/99/100 so there!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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SweetyG should let Rocky play football but she should also set a time limit for Rocky. He should not be playing football the whole day. She should understand Rocky's situation and give him 2-3hours off from studies to play football. I am sure like this Rocky will understand that alongwith football his studies too are important. He can go out and play football and whateva for like 2 hours daily. It can be refreshing for him and a break from the hectic studies. It will help him in de-stressing. Hope sweetyG sets a time table for him where he can play for like 2 hours after school or in the evening n then he can just study.

And yes Rocky needs to be careful since this is 10th(boards). He can't just come back home and say "mum i broke my hand"
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

I faced the same kinda situation in my life cuz of my mom, and I dont regret that and I am happy she didnt allow me to get addicted to my addiction.. Addiction hampers studies..

I see Sweety ji doing something which every neighbour aunty and my own mom do.. And I am not gonna criticize them or think that their philosophy is bad..
So if you think I am not accepting the logic of Sweety for not allowing Rocky to play football at 10th standard, cuz i am a Sweety fan, your wish 😃 But the fact is, in reality nobody would let 😃 Students cant afford to break their hands before examz.. 😃


I agree with you partially. SweetyG scared because Rocky broke his hand the last time so yes she is more worried this time. Earlier she would not react like this whenever Rocky went for football practices. So yes her fear is more after the hand fracture incident. And ofcourse sweety has every right to stop him from playing football till his exams are over but i still tink sweetyG should set a time limit for Rocky where he can go n practise n play football(without breaking his bones ofcourse) for like 2-3 hours.

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