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hararnav

@hararnav

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#41

ASR is not the one to be blamed, but i guess the raizadas are over reacting , they r literally blaming khushi which is also fair enuf.

But where is all this when ASR had a livein relationship with a girl and dumped her suddenly on the day of their engagement. even though its a mutual understanding between asr and la, nobody in the family knows tht they dont love each other. Just like that they accepted his decision . And now he married a girl and they are reacting so much..

Isn't marrying someone better than having a livein relation for some days

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--Anna--

@--Anna--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Shastradhari
One Q:

Why u want Khushi to speak???

U think poor girl in chock of sudden marriage, threaten by ASR to break payal's wedding..suddenly rushing to temple and telling those bad dialogues..u think her mental status will be so powerful to answer?????

FEEL THE PAIN BUDDY..19-year-old..within 30 minutes her life is broken..u want her to fight ..what???

She herself does not know the reason of amrriage..what she scould have saud to families..that asr blackmail her and got amrried..families will object her..why u did not come to us???? there is no point of arguing at this point..

If you can feel Khushi's pain then why cant you feel Arnav's!? Has he gone through less in a matter of 3-4 hours!? He has seen his sister die, he was going to confess love and he saw that his jijaji and the girl he loved hugging, add to that his jijaji confesses of an affair and that he has been cheating on his wifes back -- he goes to say the truth, his sister becomes pregnant, his jijaji smirks at him rather ridiculously and you expect him to come and support Khushi!? Really!?

I felt Khushi's pain --- but if one expects Arnav to support Khushi after having gone through so much then one should also -- expect that Khushi could have stood up for herself.

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Aisha

@asha...

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: --Anna--

@Bold : but he did that! Just before he left he clearly told them that he dint know why a big deal was being made out of it -- and he married -- whats done is done. He said his piece and left!

Now about Khushi -- she does not know the reason behind the marriage but did she know that she had been blackmailed!? Even that piece of info was enough to suffice everything!

I dont want Arnav to be blamed for something when he was not at fault.

Yes he did say it...but not with an authority enough for them to let go of the situation...or to take the situation in hand...Im not blaming Arnav at all... I can understand why he walked away...why he got married to Khushi the way he did...why he didn't save Khushi from the situation HER FAMILY was creating...

As for Khushi...how could she say that...wouldn't that create more difficulties for both families...she's not that type of person..its not in her nature..and she won't burden other people with her problems...😊

Both of them have reasons for what they have done..be it right or wrong then..or not justifiable

Edited by asha... - 14 years ago

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381490

Hibernated

Posted: 14 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Kiss me! :* 😆😆

I so dont understand ya why people dont understand ASR! Why do they want him to turn into something he is not!? They just dont get Arnav -- do they!? 😕

U are welcome! 😳

*smooches you right on the cheek* 😆

No clue, yaar. Honestly. Maybe people want him to be perfect (the perfect male hero who does everything right, sacrifices himself for his lady lover, sweeps in to save her, puts his own family aside for her, etc.). What's the fun in having a perfect man when he isn't real? Here you have a flawed male character whom you can relate to. Someone who hurts you but knows how to apologize and redeem himself. Someone who'll throw himself in your arms when he's vulnerable. Someone who'll race out to a dilapidating building to save you, even when he's the one who sent you out there.

That's a flawed prince on his horse right there. I'll take him! 😆 I'll take the real deal and everyone else can have the illusion of a perfect man.

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--Anna--

@--Anna--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: hararnav
ASR is not the one to be blamed, but i guess the raizadas are over reacting , they r literally blaming khushi which is also fair enuf.
But where is all this when ASR had a livein relationship with a girl and dumped her suddenly on the day of their engagement. even though its a mutual understanding between asr and la, nobody in the family knows tht they dont love each other. Just like that they accepted his decision . And now he married a girl and they are reacting so much..
Isn't marrying someone better than having a livein relation for some days

Hahaha -- good point!! Atleast he thought of marrying her -- with sindoor and stuff -- otherwise knowing ASR he could have blackmailed her with anything!!

No one questioned Arnav when La was dumped -- they did and he dint answer. Today he just left and people are upset that he dint support Khushi! 😕

I too thought -- Anjali and Nani were over reacting than much needed. Dint they want the marriage to happen -- why create such a big tamasha~!? And to think they have no idea the marriage is supposed to be of 6 months! Tab kya hoga jab ye pata chalega 😆😆

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Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#46

I just love your post. 👏

Majority of them do not get ASR at all and what he is made off. So it is no surprise that they will blame all of this mess on ASR that is happening because Khushi did not open her mouth at the right time.

Right now ASR is letting his anger get better of him. When he starts to live with her and get's to know her, he will realize how wrong he was.

Give that guy some time to get over the fact that his jeeja is betraying his sister.

That is one of the reason's why I love ASR because he is real and a human, who makes mistakes and repents.

I have always hated those hero's who are all goody goody and to perfect.

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--Anna--

@--Anna--

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: asha...

Yes he did say it...but not with an authority enough for them to let go of the situation...or to take the situation in hand...Im not blaming Arnav at all... I can understand why he walked away...why he got married to Khushi the way he did...why he didn't save Khushi from the situation HER FAMILY was creating...

As for Khushi...how could she say that...wouldn't that create more difficulties for both families...she's not that type of person..its not in her nature..and she won't burden other people with her problems...😊

Both of them have reasons for what they have done..be it right or wrong then..or not justifiable

My only concern is why hate Arnav alone -- rest I know they have their own reasons to do what they did -- Arnav did what he thought was right -- but so did Khushi - the only thing that pisses me off is the expectation that people are having for Arnav to stand up for Khushi when he hates / or likes to think he hates her.

Otherwise I love both of them and I would rather love both than hate one! 😊

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#48

🤗fab post and i agree with u on every word yaar👏👏

arnav had no choice really, he had to outsmart shyam and this was the only option

i feel sad for both of them right now

though khush has been extremely stupid in this shyam fiasco, but still she does not deserve this

i hope they talk and talk fast and clear all the matters

and pls remember arnav is angry with khushi , so how can anyone expect him to save her

he thinks she wanted to have a relation with a married man

Edited by intruderfast - 14 years ago

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--Anna--

@--Anna--

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Elysia

*smooches you right on the cheek* 😆

No clue, yaar. Honestly. Maybe people want him to be perfect (the perfect male hero who does everything right, sacrifices himself for his lady lover, sweeps in to save her, puts his own family aside for her, etc.). What's the fun in having a perfect man when he isn't real? Here you have a flawed male character whom you can relate to. Someone who hurts you but knows how to apologize and redeem himself. Someone who'll throw himself in your arms when he's vulnerable. Someone who'll race out to a dilapidating building to save you, even when he's the one who sent you out there.

That's a flawed prince on his horse right there. I'll take him! 😆 I'll take the real deal and everyone else can have the illusion of a perfect man.

*smooches you on the left one* :* 😆

@Bold : love these lines!! 😍😍 -- I am so glad Arnav is not like the stereo type male characters of Indian television who would be sacrificing, gentle and etc. etc. 😆 He is flawed and that is what makes him real to me!

@Black : Beautiful! 👏 👏 And you could not have defined Arnav better. 😉

*another smooch on the right cheek* :*

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hararnav

@hararnav

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Hahaha -- good point!! Atleast he thought of marrying her -- with sindoor and stuff -- otherwise knowing ASR he could have blackmailed her with anything!!

No one questioned Arnav when La was dumped -- they did and he dint answer. Today he just left and people are upset that he dint support Khushi! 😕

I too thought -- Anjali and Nani were over reacting than much needed. Dint they want the marriage to happen -- why create such a big tamasha~!? And to think they have no idea the marriage is supposed to be of 6 months! Tab kya hoga jab ye pata chalega 😆😆

Thanks for backing my opinion.. Evan when he dumped La he said just one line and they r ok with it, but whats wrong now. Maybe Anjali's behaviour might be due to her pregnancy mood swings:-))😉 and Nani due to too much stress for marraige preparations and her old age.

I was expecting all these bashings from Buaji and Mamiji but not from Anji and Nani