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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have to say this before I burst. There is something horribly, horribly wrong going on here, but the rest of the Forum is just cheering which leaves me to plead to all of you to please, please read this post with an open mind and give its contents some thought.

The interview from Gul Khan shook me and sowed a suspicion in my mind, only to be proved true by Thursday's episode. Here's the most pertinent part of Gul Khan's interview:

The story so far has been romantic when it comes to Arnav and Khushi with sweet and light hearted moments. However from here on you will see a transition from the fun zone to a serious one where Arnav will really hurt Khushi. So when he eventually later whenever that is, finds out how much he has hurt her, the level of passion will obviously go much higher. Things will switch into the pain and angst mode. Right now both of them are in the "I dont believe in Love, but I have fallen in love" phase but when you take it to a level where you have ruined somebodys life, and for no mistake of the other person then you can expect the intensity and extent of the pain and passion that will come into play!

The highlight here is that whatever Arnav has done, whatever terms and conditions he has laid down for this so-called marriage will leave Khushi hurt and completely RUIN HER LIFE. Let's remember this for a second.
Moving on to the actual episode, we do not hear what Arnav says to Khushi but it leaves her totally shattered. Arnav blackmails her with Payal's wedding and Khushi being the ever-sacrificing sister agrees to his terms. Payal's marriage takes place, yet Khushi is still seen lost in her own fate and with dread of what is to come.
At this point of the story, we know that Khushi loves Arnav, and Arnav though he loves her has buried those feelings deep within hiimself only for hate to surface for this girl. How far will this hate for the girl who is ruining his sister's life go? Of what we see, when angry, ASR locks up his mind and jumps to conclusions. We've seen him be wrong and take wrong decisions in anger many times. His anger is hell - and he will go to any, ANY limits to prove his point.
At this point, there is absolutely no way that Arnav Singh Raizada is tolerating Khushi Kumari Gupta under his roof. KKG has it tough, because ASR knowing her biggest weaknesses has asked her to do the one thing he knows she will never do - agree to a live-in relationship under the guise of marriage. Just think - why would ASR marry her anyway? He HATES her! She is the girl shattering his world. No, he is only punishing her with every tactic he can think of. He knows she will break down under a live in relationship, it is the worst case scenario for her here.
On the other hand, why would KKG be upset over a forced marriage proposal? She loves Arnav, right? Being married to him would not "ruin her life" as Gul Khan has said. A marriage, even if the guy does not love you back can NEVER ruin anyone's life. Even divorces never ruin anyone's life.
But for KKG, a live in relationship under the guise of marriage would mean the end of everything, and isn't that what Zee_News said in one of her spoilers - that Khushi loses everything? Just think, whenever the news is out that Khushi Kumari Gupta has been living in the same room as Arnav Singh Raizada, only pretending to be married, it will be the end of her character, her honour, her reputation, her dignity, her life. Much worse than what Arnav's first punshment to her was by leaking out her fashion show fiasco to the media world. She will be shunned and rebuked by not only her own family, the RM members but everyone else who she thenceforth meets. It will show her as a character-less, character dheela girl.
And so this is the Zabardast Twist never seen on Indian Telly before - it's not a marriage at all. The hero and heroine of the lead SP show are pretending to be married, while they are only living in together and shamming it. And once the terms are over, Khushi will be leaving RM. And what girl would want to continue staying under this insult anyway? I will not be blaming her for forever wanting to cut off ties with ASR forever.
But there are loopholes, you say. Why would Khushi STAY in the sham when she could leave earlier, when nothing is binding her? Because Arnav has probably blackmailed her with the other ace up his sleeve. He and Khushi have no way of knowing that the truth of Payal's previous failed marriage is out and already discussed at his house. There was a reason why we were shown that Anjali and Akash agree to not tell Arnav about what happened regarding Payal, and on the other side, Buaji tells Garima they will never tell Khushi about this as she already has so much responsibility. But Arnav and Khushi don't know this - and Arnav's trump card is that he will unveil this hidden truth to Mami and then Payal's marriage will break. And knowing Mami's unforgiving nature, and the already rickety relationship she has with Payal, Khushi will begin her shattered life under an empty threat of a harmless piece of news being revealed.
I am sorry. As much as I love ASR, he has crossed the line here. There are a few things in life which one does not play with - and a girl's reputation and honour are one of them. Even Lavanya never faced this - she was always a guest of RM, and living in separate rooms. And dare I say it, even Shyam Manohar Jha, the perpetual villain, never stooped so low as to completely shatter the life of KKG. But ASR has done something unforgivable, IF this is a live-in relationship. May woe betide him when he finds out how utterly wrong he was, and how he has completely ruined the life of a decent, respectable girl.
Khushi should have told him the truth long ago, or even now: Yes, I agree. But that tiny little fault does not vouch for this huge of a punishment. I've myself seen many weddings on the verge of breakup, but which settle down again when a child is born. Khushi just thought along those lines, but they in no way merit what ASR is dishing her out. ASR will have to redeem himself very much to win back Khushi's heart.
I do hope people have read this, even if it turned out too long. Your thoughts please?
EDIT: OH MY GOD, I'M SO HAPPY THEY ARE REALLY MARRIED AND NOT LIVING IN. THANK THE CV'S, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME, I WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE TO TOLERATE THE CRUELTY FROM ARNAV FOR A LIVE-IN.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you. I too think ASR has crossed the thin line of boundary between wrong and right by blackmailing Khushi. For me if he has to redeem himself he has to really really do big things to even think of becoming eligible for Khushi. Even a murderer gets a fair trail but here Arnav decided, decided that Khushi was the culprit and lo behold gave her the punishment. I so wish to see the day when Khushi proves her innocent and gives a slap on ASR's face saying she now thinks he is not worthy of him and leaves. Let's see what are the terms and conditions of the so called shaadi.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi there!
This is exactly what I have been writing on other people's posts. Seeing the way Khushi looked shattered and the way they muted the conversation, plus Gul Khan's interview...all of this points to a live-in agreement.
Why else would Gul mention "ruin someone's life"?

I am afraid this is where the story is leading...I was hoping I am wrong.
I also remembered the episode in which Khushi admonishes Arnav and tells him that if a man proposed something like a live in to her, it would be her biggest humiliation.

What else would be her biggest punishment, meted out by that very man who is looking to exact revenge for her supposed betrayal?


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lovely!!!beautifully writtn...makes sense...khushi iz deeply hurt 4 the fact tht ASR hz stooped 2 the level of making hr fall dwn 4m hr own principles...hr morales,hr values,ideologies...

Posted: 14 years ago
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How cud arnav do it yaar??
I mean just think, arnav knows khushi very well, knows everything, even her bangle size...didn't he even care to ask khushi why she did dis or wat she wanted? widout saying anything he took out the conclusion...this is wrong..
He willl marry khushi, take out his revenge n throw out of the house wen d deal is over..
yes, it's true dey hv a deal to save deir sisters
But i m saying, wat i think is before throwing khushi he will definitely start loving her...
Gosh!! i hv neva seen a person like asr. even if someone hd offered me lots of money to play sucha ruthless character, i cud hv neva dun it
hw dos barun do it??
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Really loved the way you penned down your thoughts. Enjoyed reading it. I agree with you. I feel the same way no doubt, however, I don't think Arnav really cares about anyone other than his Di atm. Khushi isn't his priority- his sister is. And to protect her, if it means doing what he has to do- he will do it. He's shown to be that type of guy from the beginning of the show. If he wants something, he will go to any means to get it. Saying that, I'm not holding anything against Khushi or Arnav. Both I feel are just mushed into this complex web of a mess and both are being forced: Arnav by his responsibility to protect his sis, and Khushi by the responsibility to protect her family's honor.

To be honest, I didn't realize till today after watching the episode the pain ASR must be in. YET he's composing himself, when deep down he's hurt and betrayed. What would you do if you were in his shoes? Of course, if this is a live in sham, then ASR will deeply regret every single bit and will have to do something to win Khushi's trust back!

Khushi's not wrong either. I feel they both are right in their own ways. They are keeping true to their characters. ASR had mellowed down a bit, but he's back to being ASR!

Lovely post :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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You have put a lot of thought in this and I really applaud you for putting your points across with some undeniable evidence. 👏

I had completely forgotten about Payal's first rishta. It makes sense why THEY were not told. I literally shrieked when I read that sentence.

I feel all the more bad for Kushi now I just feel like hiding under my blanket and asking someone to tell me when its over

With everything you have provided, I finally am beginning to see why chances are so high for this marriage to be just a live-in condition. When I read the interview, those very lines stood out to me too and the only question that spurred was how will he face her again? But I thought, ruining someone's life meant he would take away those beautiful dreams of a perfect wedding, and groom from her and torture her mentally such that she would loose her chirpy self. But, Omg! This is really scaring me😭

I have some hope left It's one of those things that I will have to see to believe and until then I will only hope and pray that the CVs do not take away such beautiful sketched out characters from us for the sake of some TRP's.

This was an excellent post👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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live in has many loop holes for khushi to it...if payal is happily married to akash and akash supports her...why would khushi be scared of her' marriage to be broken...how long can asr blackmail her on payal's marriage for a time period of 1 month...or 2 month?? i mean if it's a live in khushi can inform shyam anytime...if khushi feels that her sister is safe... lets not forget shyam is a lawyer...if khushi is not bond by a contract , its easy for khushi to continue her affair with shyam once payal is safe... a contract will bind khushi from all sides...and as she has willingly singned in it shyam cant do anything abt it...
khushi is sad abt the fact that asr has used her sister's marriage as a pawn...
if they show a live in it would question asr 's intelligence and his ruthless cold minded business attitude...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Now looking at where the theme is headed- hate marriage, etc, I hope they don't show him using her for assuaging his passions and then push her away. she give should give him tit for tat.

In one of the critical episodes where Khushi and Arnav had a bandagement in the temple, she mentions that "the day you realise that DM was holding your hands and writing your destiny, I won't be there with you".

If this situation continues, i wish that where she won't be there for him to even tell sorry when he realizes his mistake. Now he has shed tears with his "Maaa.." scream. May be he should not have tears, but blood .. when he screams "Khushi..."
Edited by PrasRas - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Completely agree with you.. If this is indeed a live in marriage, ASR has totally crossed the line.. Khushi is also someone's sister and someone's daughter.. Having a sister himself, ASR must realize that dishonouring a girl is one of the gravest acts a man can commit.. I am a big fan of their relationship, but to me, the CVs destroyed any LOGICAL chance of redemption by adopting this approach.. He gives Shyam a chance to explain, but Khushi, the person he was about to express his love for, not only is given no trial, she is given no reason for this madness that ASR is inflicting upon her.. He has shattered her dreams and her life.. I totally agree that this makes his acts even more cringe-worthy than Shyam..

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