Love-trust-communication...or ego-misundersatnding

It all comes down to love, trust, ego and communication.
First mistake by Gupta family in not communicating the truth about Shyam. There daughter is going to marry into that family. And they just pretend that that deceiver is not part of the family at all. Surely elders should have told elders about it. Now both there girls are going to be affected because of this lack of communication. How could they!
Arnav and Khushi just realised there love for each other. ASR ...Realised and about to express the feelings - a person who does not even believe in love. It must be such a shock to him that such feelings live within him. Realising he can love too. And we can not even imagine the shock, the fall this person will feel when he will see Khushi saying those words to Snake. Could I have loved a person who is really a gold-digger? No, I can't. Am I that foolish. No. Who do I trust my ears or my instincts? The big question is do we trust who we love? Do love and trust walk hand in hand?
The thing is when we are betrayed, our ego takes the biggest hit. Me ASR, a successful person, how could I have fallen for the wrong person. Then the sane mind who would have told him "No, you are wrong. What your eyes saw and what your ears heard was not right. There was something amiss. Khushi the innocent girl who is always helping everyone, who is making sure no one is sad. Khushi in whose eyes I only see love- pure love no aberration." Ego will take over and will not let him listen to that sane voice of his heart.
If only he would have let the voice of his heart win over his ego. If only he would have gone and sat down with the Khushi and told her" No more hiding the truth, tell me the whole story" Only if...Only if...
It all comes down to communicating with one you love, the foundation of a trusting relationship where two become one and egos do not exist. I do not think Arnav and Khushi have reached that stage in their lives, but will they ever.
Thanks for reading my ramblings. Ofcourse we all really affected be this serial and thank you to this forum for letting us an outlet for that.

ha ha! I guess I did not make any sense to any of you guys. I have been reading lots of post on if ASR will hate/trust Khushi or not. I was just giving my pov which is that he will feel betrayed and his ego will win over his heart. Well that is my take anyway.

Thank you for liking. I was beginning to think I am not very good at expressing me feelings. I could do with some lessons.😆

actually u made alot of sense and youv made sum very good points, communication is one of the main foundations of any relationship, which is why it will affect them...i think thats one of the things cvs need to pay attentions to, attraction lust love, they need to now communicate effectively to build the trust

Very nice post!! Will add more later

Originally posted by: mdutta0609

Very nice post!! Will add more later

ok. Thanks. Would love to hear your POV. Going to bed now. will read tomorrow. Goodnight.

@sunenahari: Like your post, but ASR's decision is going to be beyond love or ego; more a gut instinct or basic instinct with which he has survived the harsh realities of life! When and where he had learnt to survive from life's hardest lessons of mistrust, failure of loved ones, cheating etc... if I may say so... My POV!

Originally posted by: shu_cal

@sunenahari: Like your post, but ASR's decision is going to be beyond love or ego; more a gut instinct or basic instinct with which he has survived the harsh realities of life! When and where he had learnt to survive from life's hardest lessons of mistrust, failure of loved ones, cheating etc... if I may say so... My POV!

Thank you for POV. It will be interesting to see what they actually show on 10th.
You maybe right. Our basic instincts revolve around self-preservation. When they come into play we only think of ourselves. Others become immaterial. so I don't think they are much different from ego. When love transcends that barrier of difference between self and beloved it becomes great - immortal. But only a few are capable of that love. Most of us mortals love, get hurt, hate, get low and maybe love again. Anyway sorry for getting all philosphical.
what I am trying to say is he will recoil from what he sees on 10th because he has for the first time in life opened his heart to love. And he will so soon feel betrayed and let down by the one he loved. And he will be so deeply hurt that it will prevent him listening to what his beloved has to say, her side of story. Call it ego or call it self-prservation.
Only thing I do hope is that they show Khushi making an effort to tell her story. It would be not nice if they put her on a mute button in the next few episodes. That would be annoying.

I am so happy to read through most posts on this forum. That love will win. I am so happy to be proved wrong. Lets hope thats what we see in the next few episodes. There love is much deeper and stronger than I thought. and Arnav's character is much mature than I thought. fingers crossed.

What you said is sooo true...