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Posted: 14 years ago
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he has been falling for her from day one& its been 7 months..u still think its been rushed??i mean c'mon till last week we were cribbing for their romance to start and now its started still u complain!!even the dance was shown not just as a dance but a realisation & acceptance of everything between them by both of them...i want this romance to continue without anything coming between them !!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes...i agree vt u.

earlier they showed his feelings for khushi whenever he hurt her or missed her...this time nothing.its like hez on some mission

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ankita.M

He has started to respect her, earlier he would feel respect but couldn't express it, and to see that he was changing for someone, something that never happened with him, he shouted and bottled his emotions again. But over the time he realized that his words and actions were hurting Khushi and causing her tears for no fault of hers, and since he already feels for her, he has softened towards her for the same reason. If something triggers him, he might get angry or not, but as of now, I feel the dance got them closer, and her tender and innocent self forced him to go easy on her.

But they haven't really shown this to us. Why are we just left to assume things? The CVs are the ones telling the story, and they should do it properly so we don't have to keep guessing or making our own explanation..no?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Logically they have been dancing around each other and with each other for a fair time now. The dance personified the emphasis on their togetherness and closeness inspite and despite Arnav's initial reservations. This dance had them in each other's arms , close, totally aware of how at ease they are with each other and allowed them to recognise their intimacy which was natural in its very essence. Physical intimacy I think brought to the forefront his feelings for her but she as usual gets scared and ends up in floundering around in deep waters. ASR/Arnav always goes aftr what he wants ... h wants Khushi!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Arnav has not changed drastically. After la's exit n Khushi's engagement called off, he had toned down n though he would not admit openly, he knew he has fallen for her. He tried to b ASR but failed miserably in front of her. The sangeet was a catalyst though. He danced with her coz he couldn't see her sad n down n once he went on stage for her, he has never looked bak. It's like hd gas finally confessed to himself n admit that he is in love. This guy is no ordinary guy. Once he gets out of his denial mode n confront his feelings, there is no looking bak. This is how he put a stop to his engagement with La n this is how hd has started his chase. Kuddos to him!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Prinsesse.Suvi

But they haven't really shown this to us. Why are we just left to assume things? The CVs are the ones telling the story, and they should do it properly so we don't have to keep guessing or making our own explanation..no?


Well they have sketched a character in a particular way, and they are following it. Arnav isn't a man whose ever believed in love and relations, except for the one he shares with his sister. But he is unknowingly falling in love and accepting Khushi as a part of his life. If he confesses to himself right away, what will be left to show in the story, and how will this show be any different to the others. And I think it's been proved too many times that he does love her. He cares for her, can't see her in tears, he is always there to help her out, he feels jealous on seeing her with someone else. So we're not really assuming things, they're quite clear for us to see.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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in my opinion it wasnt rushed.the past 7 months they have been showing the change in ASR all along and someone has made a very good relevant post about the whole change not being sudden but its ok if you feel differently, we must respect everyone's opinions.ofcourse more arshi scenes in the process would have been wonderful to reach this point, but i'm happy about whatever is happening
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Posted: 14 years ago
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it is not a one dance wonder yaa...the attraction was there since the rain hug...it has been a good 7 months of varied emotions...frm hatred...attraction...care n concern...passion...denial...heart VS mind battle...jealously.. n nw finally TRUE LOVE...hes come a long way n reached dis realisation..so it is not rushed...i dnt think so..😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ankita.M


Well they have sketched a character in a particular way, and they are following it. Arnav isn't a man whose ever believed in love and relations, except for the one he shares with his sister. But he is unknowingly falling in love and accepting Khushi as a part of his life. If he confesses to himself right away, what will be left to show in the story, and how will this show be any different to the others. And I think it's been proved too many times that he does love her. He cares for her, can't see her in tears, he is always there to help her out, he feels jealous on seeing her with someone else. So we're not really assuming things, they're quite clear for us to see.

Ok, he might love her but they need to show us what he's thinking. He hasn't confessed to himself yet, but why is he doing what he's doing...if they won't show us his thoughts now, I guess they'll have to do it later otherwise it won't make any sense. Not that it is making any sense right now...but whatever.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well, it was not rushed AT ALL. And I am not saying this because it was time and all...(though it was high time really!😉)

My POV is that Dancedid not change him. He kept changing bit by bit right from the calendar photoshoot. It seemedto me that just before the dance he made a resolution that he'll accept this change in him and take it positively...

And then everything else is history!

He has realized he's fallen for her! He's not yet confessed it as love yet, but he has accepted that he has a very strong attraction and a certain understanding and PATIENCE (which he royally lacks otherwise) for Khushi and has reached a stage where he wants to explore his feelings and take it from there.

Andit's obvious that the real internal struggle is only upto the moment of decision of following your heart. After that everything does change pace...

I mean I can tell from my own experience... The last few days before I could not take the silence of my BF any more and did the proposal myself were really beautiful, full of expectation everytime and thrilling despite the wait but when I accepted that It's love from my side for sure and decided to talk, and asked him to marry me, everything went really fast after that, we never knew when it so happened that we have 2 year old son already! Zindagi seems to drag when we are waiting and it just runs when we take it full on!

So thepace of things is natural I must say!

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