Irresponsible & silly...

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Idea of lovely to ask her friend to throw a fuljari on her saree to create fire...So kartik would save her and forgive her...What kind of immature and irresponsible thinking-behavior is this??

What will happen the day kartik or family finds out?? She put not only her own life in danger but teaching young kids to do such to get attention???

Why r CVs showing stupid things as such?

What do u all think? pls share your thoughts...

Was it right of Lovely to ask her freind to do something this sort???

I agree completely. This is why I've always been against Lovely's lies cos she just doesn't understand. She acts like a stubborn little kid all the time. She wants everything to go her way, which is fine in her little bubble. But it doesn't always work.

Right from the word go - first she insulted Karthik and his parents and realized she loves him so waited all night for him got sick and made him accept his love. Then she knew Maasa didn't like her lies yet she kept lying while Karthik was trying to get round his mother. Obviously didn't work and Lovely decided to take over. She basically forced him to marry her - sorry I know a lot of people don't agree with this but that is how I saw it. She came off desperate - going to his house over and over despite Karthik refusing. Even when she lied that she wanted to see him for the last time - she played with his emotions. Poor guy was feeling so bad yet this girl was enjoying every moment of it. She kept calling her friend to see if her parents found out or not and what not. Even her friend is just as bad as her. Anyway, when all parents asked, in my POV, Karthik was actually trying to save Lovely's nose by accepting he did everything, clearly he loves her more. It was so easy for her to forget all this and expect Karthik to be nice to her - I thought Karthik was right when he told her to wait. He didn't have to say until his mother approves, he should know she won't anytime soon given Lovely's tactics.

Now Karthik is irritating too. How does he actually expect this girl to stop lying over night when that is all shes been doing all her life? And then sulking - childish. If anything they are behaving like little kids. I know alot of people see Karthik as spineless for not standing up to his mother for his wife. But how can he when she keeps behaving like this? She lies for every little thing - and I'm sorry but it's not justified or cute. Real people lie, but not all the time, for everything. It's morally wrong. A lie said for someone's good is better than a thousand truths - but what good was in this? She was being selfish, irresponsible and immature. Just cos she couldn't get to him the right way she chose the wrong way and lied. Eventually Karthik will find out - is he still going to be called spineless if he stops talking to her and refuses to accept her?

I don't find Karthik spineless, I find him irritating. Too good, for my liking. He knows Lovely is wrong and what her problem is but expects her to change just like that. It really isn't going to happen. She does something good and then does something like this an completely ruins everything! Maasa is right to say what she says about her. Lovely hasn't really done anything to prove otherwise. She blames her lying on her parents and not getting love/attention - is she not getting that from Karthik? Or his dad? Why is she still lying at every point? Why is she trying to come off so desperate? I honestly have no idea what CVs are trying to show in this serial, the main lead is immensely flawed, which is fine I guess cos no one is perfect but this portrayal of Lovely is completely wrong.

Kanhaiya I share your views in abv post...

Originally posted by: kanhaiya244

Some posts here suggest that Maasa has been right to treat Lovely in the way that she has - and I completely disagree. Maasa has *bullied* Lovely from the day she entered the house and that is wrong. It doesn't matter the situation, no one has a right to abuse another human being. Maasa has some redeeming qualities, no doubt, but she IS a bully, she bullies everyone of her bahus, most of all Lovely. That is not to be justified just because Lovely has also made mistakes.

Hey, sorry if my post came accross as such - however I said I do agree with what Maasa thinks/says about Lovely. Her judgement of Lovely is right but I don't agree with what she does. She comes accross very spiteful and I don't see the point if you're living altogether. There are so many joint families that are doing well because everyone tries to understand each other and help each other - I think that's what should've been shown in here, its what the audience want to see. I think this whole mother-in-law being a bully, torturing her daughter-in-laws, having favs is such a old and boring track - it was funny when it started off but then lost its flavour quickly as Maasa doesn't seem to wanna budge at all. She clearly favours Gehna over all the other bahus and it seems they all know this - not a very healthy trait for a joint family.