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Posted: 14 years ago
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children are after all children

you need to be strict and blast them with words.

but giving very harsh punishment that too when they just come back from school[entire day in school is very tiresome] is very cruel.

and that to in front of there mothers.it will very sad for there mothers to see there childeren going through harsh punishment that too with empty stomach.


i am very unhappy with gehna ,simran and nimmy.
they are mothers.so they should argue in favor children with maasa.
but in front of maasa they are very silent.
but only lovely has talked for children in front of maasa.but i think she should have protested more.

poor children.there mothers don't even have guts to talk for them.

but when maasa goes this gehna is first one to blame lovely.

gehna ,simran and nimmy are big let down.

if you don't able to take responsibility of your children and protect them from child abuse then these 3 are not fit be mothers.😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Everyone needs to be forgiven for their first mistake especially when they have realized it and agreed not to repeat it..
These are kids and they begged for forgiveness..Nimmy even tried pleading with Hitler and so did Lovely...Nimmy asked hitler if she could punish her own kids...But the answer was I am the hitler and you CANT...Watz up with that? Eventually lil ones will not respect her along with the DILs too...
These are the reasons I dont care for joint families...Everyone is not able to even breath let alone live their lives according to their wishes...There has to be some understanding..Mothers should be able to punish her own kids...Why does grand mother have so much control over how the kids are raised or punished?
We give guidance but stay out of how my son and DIL raises their 5 and 2 1/2 yrs old...Never ever should go against the parents in front of kids...If grand parents have anything to say to the parents than say so in private...Or else zip...
I am finding this serial to be more like a dictatorship in motion...
Hope Lovely goes against in favor of children and starts her revolution...I am rooting for ya Lovely...Go girl give this hag a fight of her life..
Sorry to go off but being a grand mom I would never ever do such a horrible punishment to my GCs..😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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true i have never ever seen grand parents giving punishment to grand kids. its some thing un realistic.
further why are the mothers remain quiet for this atyachar. and later explode at lovely . Lovely has nothing to do wth that . the kids were already in the mud when she arrived at the scene and this could happen with any one , be it nimmi or mrs K .

further i dont understand how could they just throw the responsibility of their young kids on one person . I dont understand how 1 person manage to wake kids up , bathe them dress them and feed them for school . what are other wives doing at that time why dont each mom prepare their kid for school n later 1 person leave them at bus stand .

i guess i could not stay in a joint family at all . i like elders be it my mom or dad or my hubby's living with us though. but i wll not like them to either punish harshly or pamper them excessively .

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Everyone needs to be forgiven for their first mistake especially when they have realized it and agreed not to repeat it..

These are kids and they begged for forgiveness..Nimmy even tried pleading with Hitler and so did Lovely...Nimmy asked hitler if she could punish her own kids...But the answer was I am the hitler and you CANT...Watz up with that? Eventually lil ones will not respect her along with the DILs too...
These are the reasons I dont care for joint families...Everyone is not able to even breath let alone live their lives according to their wishes...There has to be some understanding..Mothers should be able to punish her own kids...Why does grand mother have so much control over how the kids are raised or punished?
We give guidance but stay out of how my son and DIL raises their 5 and 2 1/2 yrs old...Never ever should go against the parents in front of kids...If grand parents have anything to say to the parents than say so in private...Or else zip...
I am finding this serial to be more like a dictatorship in motion...
Hope Lovely goes against in favor of children and starts her revolution...I am rooting for ya Lovely...Go girl give this hag a fight of her life..
Sorry to go off but being a grand mom I would never ever do such a horrible punishment to my GCs..😳



you must be a great MIL and nice grand mom .
mostly are not like this . I live in canada and many of my frd's MIL are not here but my frd got instructions on how to raise kids on a daily basis from back home.
i find this thing really frustrating as an adult and a mom we know what is best for our kid.
As my hubby said about his parents that they got their fair share of how they raise their kids now its our turn and we wanna enjoy that phase of our life.
Edited by sanathar - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What is up with this lady
she just wants to hand out punishmens like halloween candy

Kids need to be spoken to gently and kindly if they do something wrong the first time
if its a repeated mistake then yes one can become more stern

but making the poor kids clean and mop floors...not good

she is crazyyy i tell you
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Posted: 14 years ago
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'here's something I don't understand. How come only one person look after all the children of the family? Shouldn't a mother look after her own child? Its the best way to bond with your own child. if someone else is taking care of your child, bathing them, feeding them, taking them to school etc how would the child get to know about their own mom? Its as if she is there for the name's sake.
Some of the best memories I have of my mother is when she would feed me with her own hand, bath me, put me to bed and give me hugs and cuddles. These small things matter a lot when a child is growing up. The children in kaushik niwas has no idea who their mother is becasue someone other than thier mother is taking care of them. What kind of message is this show giving to the Audience?
What the hell is wrong with these ppl? All the bahu's are given seperate work as if they are working in a factory like machines. Its good that there is a system to divide work equally amonge each other but this? this is going too far when you can't even hadle your own child's upbringing. Its sad and also disturbing that such things goes in Indian households. Hello cvs, this is a house where you should be able to live life comfortably and peacefully... its as if the bahus are constatly under pressure from masa's tyrany and also repressed. Its as if they are duty bound 24/7. How can anyone live like this?
and the kids in that house will probbly end up totally messed up becz none of them know abt their own mothers... a sad plight with their grandmother bossing their mothers around and terrifying the small ones. How can ppl survive in that house?
And worst of all I feel sorry for the future of those children
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: hirushinz

'here's something I don't understand. How come only one person look after all the children of the family? Shouldn't a mother look after her own child? Its the best way to bond with your own child. if someone else is taking care of your child, bathing them, feeding them, taking them to school etc how would the child get to know about their own mom? Its as if she is there for the name's sake.

Some of the best memories I have of my mother is when she would feed me with her own hand, bath me, put me to bed and give me hugs and cuddles. These small things matter a lot when a child is growing up. The children in kaushik niwas has no idea who their mother is becasue someone other than thier mother is taking care of them. What kind of message is this show giving to the Audience?
What the hell is wrong with these ppl? All the bahu's are given seperate work as if they are working in a factory like machines. Its good that there is a system to divide work equally amonge each other but this? this is going too far when you can't even hadle your own child's upbringing. Its sad and also disturbing that such things goes in Indian households. Hello cvs, this is a house where you should be able to live life comfortably and peacefully... its as if the bahus are constatly under pressure from masa's tyrany and also repressed. Its as if they are duty bound 24/7. How can anyone live like this?
and the kids in that house will probbly end up totally messed up becz none of them know abt their own mothers... a sad plight with their grandmother bossing their mothers around and terrifying the small ones. How can ppl survive in that house?
And worst of all I feel sorry for the future of those children



as children already told to lovely-the children are always kept under strict control and nimmy not allowed these children even small amount of fun.nimmy did that because of Hitlers order.

i am sad when these children asked with hope to lovely that -chachi tum hi roz hume school se lene aavo.😭
Edited by 100raj - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: hirushinz

'here's something I don't understand. How come only one person look after all the children of the family? Shouldn't a mother look after her own child? Its the best way to bond with your own child. if someone else is taking care of your child, bathing them, feeding them, taking them to school etc how would the child get to know about their own mom? Its as if she is there for the name's sake.

Some of the best memories I have of my mother is when she would feed me with her own hand, bath me, put me to bed and give me hugs and cuddles. These small things matter a lot when a child is growing up. The children in kaushik niwas has no idea who their mother is becasue someone other than thier mother is taking care of them. What kind of message is this show giving to the Audience?
What the hell is wrong with these ppl? All the bahu's are given seperate work as if they are working in a factory like machines. Its good that there is a system to divide work equally amonge each other but this? this is going too far when you can't even hadle your own child's upbringing. Its sad and also disturbing that such things goes in Indian households. Hello cvs, this is a house where you should be able to live life comfortably and peacefully... its as if the bahus are constatly under pressure from masa's tyrany and also repressed. Its as if they are duty bound 24/7. How can anyone live like this?
and the kids in that house will probbly end up totally messed up becz none of them know abt their own mothers... a sad plight with their grandmother bossing their mothers around and terrifying the small ones. How can ppl survive in that house?
And worst of all I feel sorry for the future of those children


Absolutely !
All kids are responsibilities of their respective parents and not Lovely's !
What weird house is that where someone getting punished for not taking care of someone Else's children !
And the cruel punishment that Mrs. Kaushik is giving is as good as child abuse ..😡 I am going to write to Zee t.v. to stop showing these cruel things.. let's see if they respond but at least it should reach to channel.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Zee TV has no issues to show one grandma punishing 4 children so badly on MKPB...On PR grandma Savita pinching a 3 yrs young grand child so he would cry to harass her DIL...Also filling 5 yrs young child's ears against his adoptive loving mother..
Baby killing
Baby gifting
Children abuse is a way of Zee TV..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Zee TV has no issues to show one grandma punishing 4 children so badly on MKPB...On PR grandma Savita pinching a 3 yrs young grand child so he would cry to harass her DIL...Also filling 5 yrs young child's ears against his adoptive loving mother..

Baby killing
Baby gifting
Children abuse is a way of Zee TV..

totally agreed with you! there is something seriosly wrong with zee tv. 🤢

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