Confused soul!! Plz help if u can!!! - Page 4

MY ADVICE IS SIMPLE JUST LISTEN TO UR PARENT UR LYF WILL BE GREAT N THR WILL BE UPS N DOWNS IN LYF SO WE NEED UR REAL LOVE ... THAT WE ONLY GET FRM OUR PARENTS SO WE NEED THEM THROUGH OUT OUR LYF N THEY ALWAYS DO N SAY GOOD THING AND DONT LYK THIS GUY I DONT NO Y BT IFEEL THIS GUY WONT KEEP U HAPPY... P.S: DONT THINK BAD ABT IF I HAV TOLD ANYTHING WRONG I JUST TOLD U WAT I THOUGHT... N THEY OUR LYF UR

Originally posted by: jazz07_dh

Thx Annie
for such a wonderful advice
I know u r rite!!! I trust my parents very much n I know they will take the rite decision for me!!

As u might hv guessed that I'm very confused person (my mom picks up even the clothes for me) so it's out of question that I'll go with any decision that's against my parents...

But still it hurts u somewhere seeing that u r hurting someone..n that too again n again!!!

hey jazz

Originally posted by: jazz07_dh

Hi angili
thnx for ur advice
n u r right! I'm not going against my parents at any cost!!! But it bothers me when he keeps on following me, and calling me...it kinda make me feel like I'm being a bitch!!

N lol I wasn't even thinking abt kids 😳 but that's a very
good point...

I know my parents would take the right decision for me...

Honey you are not being a bitch you are being wise and sweety if you two get married and then you two are not happy together he will go out and find somebody else and be happy he is a man society won't say a thing to him but you what will you do? Divorce him what will happen to you society will crossify you and your parents will be davastad or you will stay and telerate him and the marriage in two cases your loss and your pain
So better be bitch in your words then suffer a lifetime

hey jazz

Jazz Dear,

jazzu, i am not at all good in suggesting but as promised i will help you in every need
what are friends for ???

now, after reading all your emotion turmoil, what all i can say that glad you respect your parents & happy that they have not married you off at the age of 18 ... you two were friends & maybe this is the reason why he is behaving like that ... glad to see that you shared your problem, and told the whole truth to him too ... and about marrying a other cast boy, you all are very well aware that my mum is also a catholic & dad a punjabi ... not a big deal ... but as far as your words are telling me, you are not ready at all ... forget this boy, you are not ready to marry right now to any of the bot but that boy is far way to understand you ... he should have given you time or maybe some distance can help
i am not at all a helpy hand in such situation (maybe coz i am totally a tom boy who have boys as friends rather than BF) ... but this boy is making me think, something fishy (or maybe a teenage effect) ... try to talk to your parents again about not marrying right now ( ask for his brother's help too to make him understand the real situation)

this is all i can say
praying for you

This guy sounds like a bad news to me but be tact ful in dealing with him he can spell trouble best is take ur parents in confidence and then listen to them parents always want the best for their kid

i don't even know what to suggest.
but one thing i wud say just don't hurt ur parents they r d most wonderful person on this earth. they r our first love.
sorry fo gyan. if u really love him u can try to tell ur parents. and if he is a foreigner then to i would say don't go for this relationship.