Anukap is not that BAD

I think Anukalp is not that much bad...If we think in his point of view he is correct in his own way..I think it is a very tough situation for all the men to choose betweeen his mom and wife and Anukalp is not an exception...I felt bad for him today..

i agree wid u.at present his mom, sister need him maximum mre den mona,but he shldnt forget his duties towrds mona too.and its a fact a man is alwys stuck between his wife and mther.

Yes it is really hard to choose between his wife and mother. But he didn't have to choose. Y couldn't he be neutral? Y couldn't he support his mom in his illness and then support Mona to get through the hard time. What was his reasoning behind telling her "that if anything happens to his mother he will break all relationships with her, that just taking care of her all night won't win you back trust", or how about when he starts sleeping on the sofa? Or yelling at her about y she made Hetal cry? As much as his mother needs him, and his sister needs him, Mona needs him too. And he is forgetting that. When you get married you make a very important promise, to be there for the other in sickness or in health, in bad and in good. Mona fulfilled her promise, she left her family only to be with Anu, but what about Anu, what promise has he fulfill in this situations? I was the one that said you shouldn't forget what a person did in the past and blame them for the mistake they are doing today (talking about Anu). He has indeed helped Mona in the past to gain that trust from the family, but things were not as bad as they are today, and Mona needs him the most. So, sorry I can't find it in my heart anymore to feel bad for him, I did in the start of this whole situation, actually felt bad for Bharti too, but now they have went beyond punishing Mona they have become abusive, and that shouldn't be tolerated.

Originally posted by: sherma

i agree wid u.at present his mom, sister need him maximum mre den mona,but he shldnt forget his duties towrds mona too.and its a fact a man is alwys stuck between his wife and mther.

agree...why always women has to suffer..for this reason men also has to suffer

Anukalap is jerk, he is living with his mom, sister, Phui, Dada, Dadi the whole works and he wants Mona to break up with her family. Anu lets his family abuse Mona day and night. Amba gave Mona Somasa and Chai like one does to an animal, she put it on the floor..jerk Anu was watching.

Mona should leave this jerk Anu and his cruel family.

Originally posted by: arpi9

agree...why always women has to suffer..for this reason men also has to suffer

If Mother is happy with her husband there is no need for son to fill the void.

I dont feel bad for him at all....he was just sitting there eating while Mona was standing there like what the heck? A girl leaves her entire family for you just to come into your house and make your family her own too but you stop her from doing that? So what is she supposed to do? What is the point of marriage then if a bahu can never be a daughter?

Anukalp is a jerk. I admit it's hard to chose between a mom and wife but why did he have to? He chose his mom and his sister. He should've chosen family (wife, mom sis etc included all together) but instead he didn't support his wife.

In real life if this happened, their marriage would be over, I doubt she would ever trust him. This is the same story for every household, but when the husband is strong and fights for her, all gets well, but in this case, it's not.

Anu can still support his family and still be nice to Mona

someone needs to give Anukalp a backbone. He is just supporting his mother because he knows the whole family is against Mona. Or maybe he really does think Mona is responsible for all that happened. if that is the case then Anukalp is a huge disappointment as a husband. He may be fulfilling his duties as a son but as a husband, he is a failure.

Originally posted by: saraharshad

I think Anukalp is not that much bad...If we think in his point of view he is correct in his own way..I think it is a very tough situation for all the men to choose betweeen his mom and wife and Anukalp is not an exception...I felt bad for him today..