Originally posted by: imzzi91
You know what's weird Chandni?
The fact that just a few weeks ago you posted in one of the threads which were related to GurTi, that you understand how it is to make a telly couple into a real life couple because you wished so badly for Amit and Shweta to be a couple in real life. But obviously, it can't happen and that's why you objected to that person's thread.
What I find weird is that, you're expressing your opinion too right? Even if it's not an entire thread dedicated to the couple but it's an expression right? Isn't that what we're doing. The difference is you just said it in one post but we're making it into a thread. Wouldn't a newbie on this forum think that if a moderator is expressing her opinion freely then why can't I? Not too long ago, I was new here myself, I could've thought that. And I could've been a fan of Amit and Ruby and I could've gotten hurt that a Moderator is saying something like this when it's clearly against the rules?
I get that fans might get hurt and we have no right of interfering in the actors' personal lives but then why is there a whole thread dedicated to Abhinav and Drashti named Chemistry/Friendship?
So maybe the both of them don't have real life BF/GF but that doesn't mean they want to have their names put together, right?
Or maybe Abhinav and Drashti do have someone in thier life and they just chose not to bring it out in the public like Gurmeet Chaudhary and Debina have..just a scenario
So why are the GurTi fans the only ones being picked on?
And aside from the Geet forum, there have been other forums where the couples have been fantasized about in the real life and those threads haven't been closed.
Is it because we don't have moderator or someone big from the IF team in our thread? Because I'm really confused, so please, if you could care to explain and answer my questions?
And I also get that you're a moderator and you could probably ban me, but I don't see anything that i've done to be wrong or different from what a bunch of others are doing without any hesitation.
First of all I would like you to stop making judgment on anything and neither jumping on a conclusion, If someone's thread isnt against the rules, and doesnt offend fans, I won't object to it in any way.
As far as Amit and Shweta are concerned, I'm a real fan of these two - Most of the time we admire an actor for his onscreen presence , for the character he is portraying, at the time we like him, admire him, I think accepting his choices and descision is being a complete fan.
If I shared my point of view last time it was just for rising the fact that its a common thing between most of the fans, when you are obssessed with an onscreen couple you immediately want this duo to become offscreen couple as well. Needless to say that in most of the cases there is zameen asmaaan ka difference between reel and real and chahe ke bhi this cant happen.
You are free in this forum like anybody else, niewbie, mods,channel mods... , to share your opinion, but rules are rules, truth is truth, right now like you said Gurmeet and Debina are officially together, the whole world is aware of it; maybe Drashti or Abhinav have someone in their lives as well, we dont know, and nobody has complained so far regarding their fanclub- Also there is a difference between just giving a real name to a thread and writting scenes or singing songs with real names , if you know what I mean, for that dear there is something called FanFics section, and you will be 100% free of expressing all your deep desires.
Its not our fault if in other sections moderators follow others rules, Its not our matter, you are in Geet section, and you'll have to follow the rules of this section.
I'm not gonna ban anyone, I'm just requesting you to all to stop making posts or thread that might hurt few fans, I dont get it why is it so complicated for you to accept the fact that Gurmeet has someone in his life and loves her very much, I wont force you to love her as well lolz but please if you want to talk about GurTi's future or things your are dreaming on use the FanFic section and have full fun :) At the end of the day what is all this, what are you guyz talking about? fake things ? so use the right section for it :)
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