My neutral view on BB 4 & Dolly-Shweta fight - Page 5

@ mechocoholic, very nice post and very nice analysis..

Aj to jaise shweta ka fans andolan kar rahe hai, shweta ye nahi, woh nahi.. yaar usko asli zindegi main kaun janta hai..

Even so many good people have said that she is arrogant and shows tantrumm..

So I really don't care, who says she is innocent..

But dolly ne kya aj tamasha kiya yaar

Originally posted by: nind

how can you say this article is neutral.........you have taken sides and then attributed blame! scores on points and used words like loser.

Agree...this is not a neutral unbiased post..its another sweta fan undercover...

Originally posted by: ilm25

Agree...this is not a neutral unbiased post..its another sweta fan undercover...

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

OMG, I certainly don't need to be undercover for being anyone's fan, I don't find it something shameful, which I need to hide to be someone's fan . I am certainly not anyone's fan in BB, I've passed the stage in life, where I idolize some celebrity for no reason .

Pls read another thread started by me (which I am giving a link to ), and see all the wonderful things written in response by shweta's fans, and you'll know whether I'm a fan or not . 😆

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bigg-boss-season-4/1514641/shweta-and-manoj-tiwaris-conversation

Hi...mechocoholic....sorry..I take my words back...they were just in jest...but I can see you really are not a shweta fan...so I apologise...😳...peace.

being neutral and unbiased does not mean that one cannot have an OPINION about something.

mechoholoic, buddy hats off to you for such wonderful post. Straight, to the point, unbiased and agreeable.

Originally posted by: dimple_usa

my view on the entire mahabharat is that ever since dolly came, everyone was getting good tasty food and in equal amount at right time, whereas according to rahul, with shweta being the captain some of them would get omlette and others would not and then some would get apple and some would not. There was partiality going on during shweta's captaincy of kitchen. Shweta likes to dominate, she wants everyone to listen to her views and then does not want Sara or anyone to open their mouth. The other day, even hrishant said the same thing that sara gets shut up by shweta as she is under her influence. when dolly started the topic of getting the girls take charge of kitchen and allocating other work to men, shweta disliked it, she started the argument as to why men cant wash dishes, shweta then went and teamed up with manoj and started discussing dolly's behaviour and some issues about kitchen, which made the captain take the step of having a meeting to vote for kitchen captain. Shweta totally had support from all members whereas dolly had only two members on her side. It was shweta's words " awaaz neeche karke baat karo" which started the whole drama. dolly didnt like taking such words from shweta, so she dragged her personal issue in the fight which is wrong too. Shweta should have kept her cool and let dolly say what she wanted and watch the drama silently. she just didnt want the kitchen taken over by dolly, arre yaar kitchen to shodo apna dekho, she should have not provoked dolly in first place by asking her to talk in low volume. dolly, as is very loud, so she was totally charged and guess what, who got hurt the most, it was shweta. I have heard this kahawat somewhere that you should not throw a stone on a shit as it will spoil your face only. Thats what happened to shweta, both took out their horns and fought. I agree dolly was more agressive, but shweta also is not innocent, she also did her part in fueling the fight. In fact, shweta will get sympathy votes from the public now, she has got support from everyone and guess did she even support sameer when evryone was boycotting him. NO, instead she supported her friend manoj who didnt even have the guts to stop the fight, sameer was the one who held shweta and took care of her. I think, bigg boss has given a chance to shweta to earn more votes. Shweta also used words like aukaat and etc...... she could have simply walked away with dignity and let viewers decide who they want to stay in the house. So, I will say, neither I am at dolly's side nor shweta's side. I am only Seemaji fan who had the guts to speak to dolly and tell her that she was doing wrong. Seema ji could have lost her control too as she has seen more violence, but she kept quiet and tried talking to dolly.

very well said..............However, I will have to disagree with the fact that Shweta started the argument, or in your words....threw the first stone. I don't think there was anything wrong in asking a person to speak calmly and lower the volume. Shweta was giving her input that everyone should get to choose what they want to do.....whether they are a boy or girl. Anchal was saying the same. She was disagreeing with Dolly's idea that girls should handle the kitchen and boys should do other work in the house, cleaning n stuff. So, it was a group discussion turned into a personal matter. Shweta got really frustrated because she bought a personal issue for no reason. No one needed to know that. That wasn't even what everyone was talking bout. Dolly had pushed Shweta's buttons till that time and she had kept quit but i think this time Dolly pushed her to the limit and the outcome is in front of us. Shweta may be dominating, but she is still willing to talk nicely and human like. Not bark and increase your volume just so people shut up. Yes, it would have been better if Shweta walked out of the room and just left. But I think she got really angry and mad that she couldn't hold it in anymore. What Dolly did by all means was wrong. Now how one judges Shweta is upon one's belief. One reacted to another actions. And one acted to get a reaction. So what is worse, doing it knowingly or trying to defend yourself. Dolly was wanting to fight for the longest and she finally got it. But whats more sad is that Rahul changed sides so fast that I am left speechless. and that too just for food. Sara is the one that seems to not give equal share to all, then kick her out of her position. why Shweta? Only because your a captain doesn't mean that your eyes are on them all the time. Shweta might haven even told Sara but she might not have listened. Shweta has said that many times that because of you sara, I get all the blaming. So Rahul judgment was totally off. The culprit that he is complaining about is still in the cooking team. Onlly thing Dolly might do would be yell at Sara, scaring her. Well anyway, I hope the boys stick to their words and boycott Dolly, cause I can't stand her. I guess my neutral stand breaks right here.............I can tolerate a lot of things, but people like dolly get really under my skin. It just amazes how people can truly be like her.

Originally posted by: taral83

very well said..............However, I will have to disagree with the fact that Shweta started the argument, or in your words....threw the first stone. I don't think there was anything wrong in asking a person to speak calmly and lower the volume. Shweta was giving her input that everyone should get to choose what they want to do.....whether they are a boy or girl. Anchal was saying the same. She was disagreeing with Dolly's idea that girls should handle the kitchen and boys should do other work in the house, cleaning n stuff. So, it was a group discussion turned into a personal matter. Shweta got really frustrated because she bought a personal issue for no reason. No one needed to know that. That wasn't even what everyone was talking bout. Dolly had pushed Shweta's buttons till that time and she had kept quit but i think this time Dolly pushed her to the limit and the outcome is in front of us. Shweta may be dominating, but she is still willing to talk nicely and human like. Not bark and increase your volume just so people shut up. Yes, it would have been better if Shweta walked out of the room and just left. But I think she got really angry and mad that she couldn't hold it in anymore. What Dolly did by all means was wrong. Now how one judges Shweta is upon one's belief. One reacted to another actions. And one acted to get a reaction. So what is worse, doing it knowingly or trying to defend yourself. Dolly was wanting to fight for the longest and she finally got it. But whats more sad is that Rahul changed sides so fast that I am left speechless. and that too just for food. Sara is the one that seems to not give equal share to all, then kick her out of her position. why Shweta? Only because your a captain doesn't mean that your eyes are on them all the time. Shweta might haven even told Sara but she might not have listened. Shweta has said that many times that because of you sara, I get all the blaming. So Rahul judgment was totally off. The culprit that he is complaining about is still in the cooking team. Onlly thing Dolly might do would be yell at Sara, scaring her. Well anyway, I hope the boys stick to their words and boycott Dolly, cause I can't stand her. I guess my neutral stand breaks right here.............I can tolerate a lot of things, but people like dolly get really under my skin. It just amazes how people can truly be like her.

I agree dolly was very rude but, shweta invited it she knows dolly very well she could have kept quite why does she has to try to be bossy if she has issues wih the way dolly was dealing the kitchen matter others should also be having .why did'nt they oppose her why did she poke her finger in the issue and she did this in spite of the fact that she knows what kind of a person dolly is. and she will not like her talk with her.
when manoj is trying to avoid her if u see in yesterday's episode also he sat separate or he will not talk to her why can't she do that. why does she talks to her all the time i tell u she wanted this.
if people had issue with her she should have let them talk to her about oil thing also she was telling her that others having problem shutup man u don't talk to people who won't listen to u thats it. is she a kid to be told that. common sense. stay away from trouble.
so i do not believe it was all dolly's fault and shweta was always right

@mechocoholic :

hi honey.... well ..................lol..many off the viewers r natural...n even me... i dont like any one much in bb... all r just fine to go on in the show...n yea u r right btw... n thats the same thing that is beinng the hot topic for discusion in forum from 2 days..bcuz dolly was hursh to shweta.. n thats the truth nway!