Marriage and Love, what's the confusion?

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GUNJAN

@gunji

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#71

i completely agree with u.....marriage is a sacred institution and no one has the right to get between husband and wife.......

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pragati

@Pragzie

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Posted: 15 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: monar

What guarantees that the lover will be a good husband? Love is the basis of all the relationship but the only thing no I don't agree, with love' respect, trust, a bonding and more than that a friendship' is required to build a successful relationship. Love is a something which can't be defined with certain traits. Giving up your precious moments is another form of pure love... it seems every one here have a barometer to calculate love in the atmosphere...

in a relationship love is not everything..there should be respect...trust..understanding..and that is what i dont see in AR..armaan has no respect whatsoever for riddhima's feelings..and riddhima half of the time doesnt understand armaan!

I mentioned in some post, sometimes feeling get so mingled that you can't differentiate love and respect or what you have more for someone. Moreover only love and no respect, Can this work? similarly, Vice-versa is true
riddhima is not confused about her feelings for sid..she is confused about her feelings for armaan..armaan confused her..and no only love and no respect can never work !

There can be different ways to show your love, it isn't necessary to go around the trees or gift the teddies to prove your love to someone, certainly not for me. How can someone compare love?

running around the trees gifting teddies is not real love true love or pure love..its teenage love..!if some one has really written this that armaan loves ridhdima becuz he gave her teddies..then well what can i say?

mona di🤗great topic!me your phanka!😳

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mona

@monamine

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Posted: 15 years ago

#73

Old Topic & indeed a GOLD topic !! I totally agree with u ! ur points are very valid especially having the current track in mind !

Regards,

Mona

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nyctophilia

@nyctophilia

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Posted: 15 years ago

#74

Mona lovely u brought this post back...I have always said There is much more then love which shud be there in an ideal relationship...Trust honesty Companionship Truthfulness n Above All Commitment is wat Drives a Relationship...Love comes way after And to be honest Real life is much much more complicated then this Mushy Candy floss romance....

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monar

@monar

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Posted: 15 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: monamine
Old Topic & indeed a GOLD topic !! I totally agree with u ! ur points are very valid especially having the current track in mind !

Regards,

Mona

thanks... me 2 mona 😃

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monar

@monar

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Posted: 15 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: kritishah3
Mona lovely u brought this post back...I have always said There is much more then love which shud be there in an ideal relationship...Trust honesty Companionship Truthfulness n Above All Commitment is wat Drives a Relationship...Love comes way after And to be honest Real life is much much more complicated then this Mushy Candy floss romance....

kriti, wot scares me are not teenaged M&B kindda of lovers... as i used to be one! but mature ppl (though this in no way relates to age) are coming up with weird excuses to prove the eternity and depth of love initially used to make me wonder now I laugh!

my gyaan on this is ---> Love is not a one romantic channel but a package of channels which comes with all the genre!

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-Harshu-

@-Harshu-

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#77

mona ji
Thank u sooo much for bring dis topic back
It seems still some people r confused wid marriage & So called love

All d reasons given by u r just perfect dat
I don't hav anything to add in dat
But I just can't stop myself to share d following lines -

'' When he kneel down b4 her jst 2 say 'i luv u',:) Do u feel he z losin his self respect? He's not... instead he's gaining her respect..:-)
Wen he mocks nd irritate her,do u feel she hate it?but no she silently njoys it...:-)
Wen he's sick & she's carin for him,do u think she's just doin her duty? No,but dyin herself just 2 c him alrite..:-) Wen somethng bad hapenz 2 him & tears roll frm her eyes, Do u feel they're just tears?? No..dey r not Itz her soul melting for him...
DATS TRUE LOVE "

And dat's d true meaning of MARRIAGE 4 me...