Riddhima...tum jhooth bolte bolte thak nahin gayi?

hi bheegi di, how have you been? I've been intending to reply on one of your topics (because you're one of the select few AR fans whom I respect) but never got around to do it.

Originally posted by: bheegi

Hi friends,

Today's episode was definitely a treat for AR fans. Thanks you CVs for making the anniversary of the most tragic event in DMG a memorable episode for AR lovers.👏
I think the AR confrontation was classic AR for us..typical Armaan vs Riddhima!

Armaan, the confident, expressive, persistent lover
Riddhima, the confused, stubborn and self righteous woman we all know

They were opposites (Hamare raaste alag hain) and still are, but then why do their paths keep crossing time and again, Riddhima??

I am glad Armaan has finally realized the truth about Riddhima's marriage. HE is absolutely right in confronting her about her true feelings. He is not being pushy but trying to drill sense in the woman he cares the most about. As we have all said it thousands of times, she is not only being unfaithful to herself, but also to her husband. What if Sid doesn't find out the truth for another 10 years? How will he feel when he finds out that all this time my wife loved another man instead of me? Yes, I am sympathetic towards SId and always have been. It's Riddhima who needs to speak the truth, not Armaan.

I loved the line: ek traditional bhartiya naari ek kamzor pal ko apni kamzori nahin ban ne deti👏

EXACTLY!!!! After having crossed the limits with ARmaan, if Riddhima continues to deny her true feelings, she is stepping on her own moral standards that she holds so high in her life.

So, Please Riddhima STOP lying to yourself and to all of us....listen to your heart and listen to ARmaan. Spare us all the torture of this I hate you-I love you game that we know you are so good at (besides running marathons)

TC everyone

agreed i was waiting for yur analyes armaan is doing a right thing at the moment no one knows riddhima better then armaan armaan knows now that riddhima has not moved on but bec of patni darm and what all she is not accepting that she can onlly love armaan

it is nec for riddhima to speak up to save 3 lives and thats what armaan is trying to do but people r talking him in a wrong way and naming the story as ema

Bheegi.. agree..

And Ridz.. ridz.. ridz.. ridz.. uufff.. w.e.

I don't analyze her anymore..

But Armaan I can say.. is doing absolutely the right thing

It is time.. time to face the situation and not ruin 3 lives.. yes with the decision she is making she is doing so..

She is not doing the right thing by not telling Sid..

Armaan KNOWS that RIDZ loves him..

RIDZ KNOWS that she can't MOVE ON…

Gosh..it is not rocket science Ridz.. wake up and smell the coffee!!!

Originally posted by: CZ..

hi bheegi di, how have you been? I've been intending to reply on one of your topics (because you're one of the select few AR fans whom I respect) but never got around to do it.

Hi Neetz...good to see u here. Still remember our good old days on ff forum😃

anyway, let's get ahead of ourselves for a minute here. suppose ridhima comes out of denial mode and accepts that she still has feelings for armaan. then what? break away from your marriage in the wink of an eye and run into the arms of your beloved? if not, then what would ridhima do?

u have a good point. Knowing Riddhima, she would never have the courage to do something like that

as we have already seen, ridhima has a very fragile conscious. she could not get rid of the guilt she felt towards armaan, then how would she get rid of the guilt she would feel towards sid if she left him and went with armaan? wouldn't that guilt come between AR's relationship? tell me, how would ridhima live with herself knowing that she left a man after choosing him twice. (by choice)

i think the only one who can release her from this guilt is she herself. At some point she will have to do some serious introspection and decide what she has done to her own life and what effect her indecisiveness is having on the two men in her life (let alone all the viewers of DMG) I don't know when that moment will dawn upon her but at this point it seems very unlikely she will decide one way or another. I do want her to tell Sid everything because i feel if he really cares for her happiness, he should release her from this marriage. Anyways, this marriage is such a farce because it is so one sided. I feel bad that the more SR keep getting entangled in this mess, the messier it will get. She has clearly stated she can't initiate a wife like relationship with Sid. Sid deserves better and i would hate for this realization to happen when they are in their 40s...trust me a lot of men and women get this realization in their mid 40s that hey we had made a mistake when we got married. That's what would be the worst outcome of this marriage. For now, that means a lot of torture for AR and SR fans...basically no one would be happy.

that's why I had opened a topic long time back - can A & R really go back to being AR once again? is love always enough?

i did reply in that topic and i still feel if Ridz has the courage to stand up for her love and true feelings, eventually everything will fall into place

I'm not going to preach about morality, my arguement has never been on that basis. but the question 'then what?' still lingers in my mind. I feel no two people should sustain a loveless relationship, be it marriage or otherwise, and end it when the time is right. but a loveless relationship doesn't give any hope or expecatation to either of the partners. in this case, however, ridhima's decision to be with sid twice has given him both hope and expectation. he has given his 100% towards his marriage. and ridhima? well she has driven herself into the minus values.

she has never made the effort to work on either of her relationships - neither with armaan and nor with sid. it was always the men making an effort to make the relationship work. but I feel it's high time ridhima works towards the relationships in her life. happiness is perhaps in the pursuit of it

I agree...at this point she doesn't deserve either man but i have a feeling the Cvs have some twist in store because this mess has to resolve one day or another. Is Sid too sweet to be true????? I think he is...no man has this much patience. There is catch there😉

Originally posted by: khawaab

So True. I too agree that Armaan is right. It was actually needed that someone of them takes the initiative , it was needed, that someone takes the upper hand of the whole messy situation and some who states the fact as they are.

Fact No. 1: Armaan will not get over Riddhima, no matter how hard he tries. His heart wont allow him to do so.

Fact No 2: Riddhima -no matter how hard she tries can never deny "that Armaan is such a significant part of her, that even if she is willing to, she cannot get rid of".

Fact No 3: Sid- despite being the worlds most eligible husband- will never get what he wants from his wife.

Fact No 4: No one is living its life, everyone is compromising or for the heck of it, living a life of compromise. It's all a lie!! An arificial life!!

He seems to be the only sane person right now, Someone who doesnt close his eyes to the reality.

The only solution is Ridz opening her mouth, which Armaan will hopefully soon attain.

Khushi

Originally posted by: anu555

agreed i was waiting for yur analyes armaan is doing a right thing at the moment no one knows riddhima better then armaan armaan knows now that riddhima has not moved on but bec of patni darm and what all she is not accepting that she can onlly love armaan

it is nec for riddhima to speak up to save 3 lives and thats what armaan is trying to do but people r talking him in a wrong way and naming the story as ema

Originally posted by: -Veena-

Bheegi.. agree..

And Ridz.. ridz.. ridz.. ridz.. uufff.. w.e.

I don't analyze her anymore..

But Armaan I can say.. is doing absolutely the right thing

It is time.. time to face the situation and not ruin 3 lives.. yes with the decision she is making she is doing so..

She is not doing the right thing by not telling Sid..

Armaan KNOWS that RIDZ loves him..

RIDZ KNOWS that she can't MOVE ON'

Gosh..it is not rocket science Ridz.. wake up and smell the coffee!!!