Hey Pocu
I dont see what wrong Sid said as a husband, as a friend and as a carer
Sid said all the things we have been seeing in the episodes, and how it relates to everyone, and how they are worried about him, so i dont know why ppl thought it was selfish when we ourselves have seen episodes of how Armaan is being, and thats all Sid told him about and out his feelings across, and yes its the truth Sid's life is being effected, his marriage is, he is not wrong, he isnt trying to make him feel guilty, but its the truth and also Armaan's needs to open his eyes
Because all that Sid said related to all the previous episodes that we have seen Armaan lashing out and not being bothered who he is hurting and being harsh, and that his behaviour is hurting ppl and they are concerned and worried, Armaan is at the point where he is ignoring two ppl who are telling him stuff to help in a way, Ridz and Shilpa - nothing is happening, so now its the limit and Sid has stepped it and he has seen his wife cry her heart out and he has just seen Shilpa hurt - what else do you think a Sid was going to do
Do you think any man who sees their wife cry and who made her cry like that and wont confront the other man
I know for a 100% none of us would tolerate to an extent that Sid has done so far, or even understand this whole thing to how Sid has done, and not say anything but now has come the time to say something, because Sid can see his desttuctive behvaiour, also at this point Armaan does need to be reached at, otherwise he is drowning badly and we need to stop blaming Ridz coz its not her fault, i am actually sick of ppl blaming her fully for this
Sid spoke not about his life, his Ridz but also Shilpa who is an innocent, and bottomline is all of them love him and for his own self its called Tough Love that Sid belted out
As for Ridz all i can see what she said to Shilpa was the truth, in her path to obtain Armaan she will indeed get tears, isnt that what is happening now, that Shilpa is crying over Armaan - for about 3/4 episodes isnt that what Shilpa has been doing, Ridz only highlighted the truth, and also because the way Armaan is and what he has lost, it will so hard to accept him and his past, and yes it will be a struggle to get to Armaan and his heart and yes also tears will be shed, because as i said this is what is happening
Ridz kinda indirectly gave Shilpa permission to go after Armaan in a way, but also said that along this route she will obtain tears and hurt etc - its no going to easy, which we all know its not going to be easy
As for the kangan, i said earlier, Ridz looks at in awe, a lovely memento and part of her past, but she does take it away, as she said to give it to his owner, maybe Armaan or maybe Shilpa one day
I do believe Sid as a hubby was right to confront his wife and let his feelings out on how he has been feeling, he has been understanding and so patient, hiding the pricks he feels on his heart, i still feel something has happened for Sid to say something, and i do feel he is been feeling isolted, because to be honest for a wife - their husband should be first priority, we all know this - but the situation here is that its understandable and Sid understands he is not, but sometimes he wishes he can be, that his wife thinks about his first, thinks of how he is feelings and how he is doing esp when she mentions Armaan everytime, look at when he was going away Armaan got mentioned, when he came back Armaan was mentioned, its not like Sid is saying or demanding dont care for Armaan, sometimes Sid wishes that his name would be first on Ridz lips, its that too much to ask from a husband to his wife
What do you say about Shilpa, crying alone - tears rolled down her face, and it aches to see her like this, coz she doesnt deserve any of this but she is getting hurt all the same, and that by Armaan - just what Ridz said about it, she will get tears and hurt in her path to Armaan which is true, its not gonna be an easy ride, but Shilpa so does want to help Armaan and lessen his pain
And did we see a lovely scene between RiShi, i feel Ridz saw a very different Shilpa yesterday, esp when she said the line which i think all Armaan fans know, that more then hurt and tears, Armaan is capable of loving more
I loved the darkness line between RiShi, when Ridz went up to her said dont sit in the dark, and i knew the answer before Shilpa said something, that this woman likes the darkness and sit in it, its where she is comfortable and has been all her life
Ridz was calm with Shilpa and also didnt freak out about the kangan and why Shilpa has it 😳
Edited by Lennie - 15 years ago
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