What Is Marriage??? Is It Just and Obligation, a Duty a compromise that comes with tying the Knot? Or is it something far more superior, divine and pure???
DMG-the most talked and Beloved Show and its main female protagonist-Riddhima
Let's just see what her take on marriage is. Below are a few statements made By Riddhima herself'
1) -"Jab Zindagi se samjhotha karke, hum kisi aur ko sweekaar karthe hai" (Courtesy Promo)
Kuch Kuch Hota Hai- One of the most famous film ever made in Bollywood.I am sure all of you have seen the movie,it's a beautiful film And still remains a favorite for many (Including Myself😉)'.There is a scene in the Movie which takes place Between Anjali (Kajol) and her mother after Anjali's Engagement with Aman (Salman Khan)
Scene
Anjali's Mom: Anjali tumse kuch Puchu?
Anjali: Haan'.
Mom: Tum Khush Ho Beti
Anjali: "Yeh Kaisa Sawal Hai Ma, Ofcourse Main kush hoon'Meri Sagai ho gayi hai'.Aman bohath acha ladka hai'Mujhse Bohat Pyaar kartha hai'.Aur Phir who'. (Her sentence is left incomplete when her mom's next question takes her by surprise)
Mom: Par Kya Tum Usse Pyar Karthi Ho???
Anjali becomes silent all of a sudden'..
Mom: Anjali'.
Anjali: Pyar toh Maine Kar Liya Hai Ma, Pyar toh maine kar liya'Shayad Mujhse Phir Se na ho' (Looks at the Engagement Ring in her Finger and'.) Isse Bas Ek Samjotha Hi Samaj Lo.
Mom: Samjotha?...Meri Beti Samjotha Kargi aur Pyaar Nahi Yeh To Maine Kabhi Socha Hi Nahi Tha'Main Bhi Ma Hoon'Kya main nahi chahthi tum kush raho'Tumhara Ghar Bas Jaaye''Lekin who ghar jo Samjothe ke balbuthe par Bana Ho '.Pyar Ke Nahi, Woh Ghar nahi hotha'Makan Hotha Hai'.
End of Scene.
Samjotha or Compromise is something which puts an End to Love in any relationship'.There is no room for Love when Compromise exists in the relationship. For Riddhima her marriage has always been a Compromise....And as it is we can see that there is no love in her Marriage'Why??? Before we get an answer to that lets take a tour Of KKHH once again'.
In Kuch Kuch Hota Hai as we all know Rahul (ShahRukh Khan) and Anjali are Best Friends'..Anjali falls in love with Rahul as she misunderstands the quote "Pyaar Dosti Hai", which she feels is indicated towards her...Without even Rahul Knowing about it, Anjali loses her heart to Rahul, She falls in love with Him'..Anjali suffers a heart break when she comes to know that Rahul actually is in love with Tina (Rani Mukharjee)'.
Anjali leaves her college Mid Term which was just an excuse to walk away from Rahul's Life'.Why'Why does she do this??? Simple'.
a) She could not bear to see Rahul with Tina, how much ever she tries it will Burn her down to see the man she loves with another Girl (Its Human Nature'.We are not god!!!)
b) And most importantly because She Really Loved Rahul that she wished for his happiness which at that time was Tina'.
Years later also (In This Case 8 Yrs)'.Anjali could never fall in love with another Man, Aman showered all the love a girl could ask for, on Anjali'Yet he could never unlock Anjali's heart....Kyun ki for Anjali Jaane Anjaane mein hi sahi Rahul was the only guy who held the Key to her Heart'.Her heart belonged to Rahul, even though Rahul never Knew about it'.
Why does Anjali love Rahul so much that even after knowing Rahul Loved Tina (Back then) she couldn't stop loving him'that even after knowing Rahul never knew that Anjali Loved him' her Love for Rahul remains so strong that she can never love another Guy'.She is ready to marry Aman but cant love Him'.Why????
Contrasting to KKHH (where Rahul Never knew Anjali loved him all the while) in Dill Mill Gayye Be it Riddhima or Armaan, both of them Know that they Love each other So Much that they can go up to any extent for their Love'They Both Acknowledge the fact that they are in love'They are so accustomed to each other feelings and emotions that they don't need to communicate with each other to know what the other is going through'..Their love is not something which only has surface grandeur'.Its Strong, Pure and deep rooted.
When Anjali can never Love Aman because she already was in love with Rahul (Though he was not aware of it)'How can Riddhima fall in love again knowing the fact that As much as She loves Armaan he Loves her too or may be even more'.
In Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, the creator of the Movie Karan Johar- believed in his Movie and definitely believed in True and Pure Love which ultimately resulted in the Union of Anjali and Rahul'.
I guess CV's still has to reach that Stage of believing in what they once showed us'.2 yrs of Love has still not reached its Destiny'.With the way Cv's has shown us Armaan and Riddhima and the love they have for each other (Till Date) + the current scenarios it's High Time that Their Love gets Justice and Armaan and Riddhima Unite especially now after the recent episodes where they have proved it over and over again that Armaan and Riddhima are one Heart Beating in two different Bodies'..
With a Prayer that "May true Love always find its way towards Victory No matter how much ever hurdles come in its way'."
To be continued............😊
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