Would you find this offensive?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hello,

I'm new to the forum and I'm hoping to get the honest opinions of fellow members. I'm white, though I have many south asian friends. I have always thought Saris are absolutely stunning with their colors, decorations and embroidery. I have a special occasion coming up and I was thinking of wearing a Sari, simply because I think they're beautiful. As an indian person where a Sari is traditional dress for women, would you find this offensive that I, a white person, is wearing something that is traditionally indian just because I like it? It is absolutely not my intention to offend anybody or devalue anything, so I would like to know your honest opinion on this.

Thank you

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I don't think it would be offensive.... but then that's just me :P
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I wouldn't think it's offensive. I mean alot of people like it when they see a white person wearing indian clothing. I'm saying that from experience. My mom's half italian and half Bengali so when her italian side of the family come to bengali parties wearing indian clothing everyones always saying how it's nice that they like wearing clothes like that. Umm...I just realized I'm blabbering ...sorry

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Posted: 16 years ago
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no way, it's totally not offensive! i actually love it when people from different cultures wear indian clothes! i feel that they are aware and open to other culutres!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Thanks for the feedback, everyone :) Glad to know it's okay, looks like I'll be wearing one :)
Edited by maia_83 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I wouldn't think its offensive yuur just wearinq what yew like thats all!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Its not offensive at all! We like it when we see other cultures wearing our traditional clothes :)

You should wear a dark colored sari, because the contrast would look amazing :)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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As others have already mentioned it's not offensive at all. If you feel people look at you weird it's because they are surprised in a good way 😉 No one minds when people from another culture respect theirs.

Go on Jess's suggestion 😊 Wear a darker color. It would contrast well with your complexion. 😳
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Posted: 16 years ago
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No definitely not, I would say its a compliment to the culture

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