15 sep '09: big things, little things - Page 2

Originally posted by: Soaps1

estee i don't agree that Heer was heer in that scene when she was thiking about Git and Chahat in Prem's life ... i mean perfect Heer is the one who hold Prem above anyone else ... his happiness is her top priority and I am sorry but right now she seems to care more about GIT than anyone else ...

gi-it?? er.. s'how i think not. you could be right, of course. but seeing how the moment prem comes on the scene, no one else but him exists for her, i'm not sure. i really think she is convinced that prem will be okay with gi-it -- can't remember exactly why she thinks that. oh, ya. 'cause of the day she walked into his b'room and he talked to gi-it? or was it the day he came in, stopped her from confessing that she loved him after all? or was it the pooja day -- when he apparently ''saved her from death''??! 🤣 *that was sooo ridiculous, that whole episode..*

she was anyway beating herself up. and then to see prem give her no positive reaction at that crucial moment that she is ready to give in -- well, maybe that is why she is so convinced that prem will be okay with gi-it. and phukda. after all. all these years, she has managed to survive with gi-it and phukda. if she can, prem can -- and that is what might be driving her on this i'm-leaving-on-the-next-train attitude.

i think it's still just prem-prem-prem for heer. just like it's always been. and i'm afraid it always will be.

personally. i want her to leave. spend some time in fresh new misery. and then for prem to find her and get her back into his arms.

seriously.

Oh and i love the title track of this show, simple love it but yea i agree heer does nt need to say "kis desh mein hai mera dil" i mean doesn't she know? Its right infront of her eyes 🤣

😆 i'm okay with the track. i hate it as a title. and i definitely die of laughter when someone -- anyone! but it's mostly heer, i think? -- uses it in a sentence spoken/thought. 😆

Oh and as for prem not doing anything ... ... he just is scared of loosing that trust again so i guess he is waiting for her to take the first step

actually, not no? he is not being cautious -- he is just following his father's instructions!

'cause he was being cautious before while at the same time trying to get to heer. i mean, he didn't just yank her into his arms and kiphph her senseless. that was definitely being cautious -- overly cautious, i'd say! 😆

and my problem with his following pbauji's instructions is that while pbauji might be smart and worldly wise and astute with stuff, he hasn't (imho) totally understood what premheer are all about -- or truly what they can do for each other! despite having seen heer in all her regal madness of trying to save his family from ratpal by giving herself up in marriage to him. i'm not convinced that pbauji has a clue!

so pbauji's intentions are sound. but his intelligence..? erm... suspect, suspect! 😆

Originally posted by: Anusha10

.Oh geet did not get a single doubt that why is chahu calling Prem "papa"🤔

i know! that was sooo bizarre, no??

i am sure that phukda has never done that in her hearing before... and just like that, gi-it is all accepting? i dunno... seriously. a strange character.

I think Prem understood that Heer forgave him..

i am sure that he knows this! i mean, the way she has been behaving with him ever since the trip to ludhiana is 180 degrees different from before/during the trip! and he has said that many times too -- that he knows she loves him. so s'times... ya, i wonder what he is waiting for, actually. 😕

So lets see atleast Heer na sahi Chahat toh apni mu kuleghi aur break this damn sagai

w&w... 'cause prem heer ek tho hai. uspey koi shaq nehin! 😃

Originally posted by: KDHMDfan

E you finally managed to post it!!!!

😃 ya! despite all the if.com opposition! *proud muh*

About heer, all this while i used to believe that heer was feeling guilty about how unforgiving she was and felt prem deserved better (ie gi-it acc to heer). it was still about prem, but now i am beginning to feel this more about not disappointing gi-it!!!!!! HEEEEEEER!!!!!!!!!!

eh.. that's what i think soaps had written as well. but i'm not so sure. i mean, this is heer after all - if there's one thing her everything revolves around, it is prem. i think the only reason that she is so focussed on gi-it is 'cause she knows gi-it is a great friend (after all, gi-it has apparently been her support all these years, no?) so i'm figuring heer's rationale is: she is unworthy (duffer heer! insecurity about yourself when it comes to prem's desires?! argh!) and she had found gi-it a great support. what's great support for heer will be great support for prem!

i have a sinking feeling that heer thinks: six years prem had no-one and wallowed in misery. (unfair and untrue -- 'cause he actually had everyone as a support system. he just ignored them and never leant on any of 'em). while she had phukda -- and gi-it. i think heer is thinking of doing a swap of her life with his -- 'cause she is (of course) unworthy of being his support system.

*sigh* and of course, heer thinks she knows best for prem, na? when has she not?? 😆

E, this what i had written in your btlt of 14 sep (yesterday)

heh. was just starting to go through replying to those as well. but i'll do it here, i guess. 😃

" and even if heer wants to be a martyr why is she not putting prem and phukda first? in ajmer it was for prem. this is for geet?''

well, y'know what i think -- i think this is still for prem. prem, only prem, always prem. i think what convinces me most 'bout that is how little she really considers her daughter's happiness in this. it's like she is convinced that gi-it (with her one grand act of seeing that prem is the world's most wonderful guy when heer herself did not see it) is fit for prem. and what is best for prem is -- of course! -- best for phukda as well, no?

i'm just not sure that heer and i agree on the definition of ''best''. i think happiness should be above all else -- even a roof above one's head or food and stuff. but i know that lots of people don't do that... 😆

E, as for Prem, even i was thinking of the same mehendi scene from manmeet's time and prem's dream about a public unequivocal avowal of her love from heer! Prem gave that to heer in the 18th june epi, maybe he needs that now!!! otherwise he knows heer loves him just as heer knows prem loves her. why wait?

*sigh* i don't know what he is waiting for. i mean, how can he be sooo much into his father's plan that he can't recognise the huuuuuuge difference in how heer treats him after the ludhiana trip??

oh well. this is prem. and this is heer. i'll trust in prem-heer-are-one and w&w.

in the meantime -- have phun? 😆

Originally posted by: mi7chimes

no E nothing bad its just tat i cant get myself to read anything now....
imagine me not being able to get my mind right to read ur post..... its just tat bad.... but nothing serious.....i make no promise as to whn if u r waiting for t reply lol...

oh dear. here's some more then -- 🤗 and no, don't worry. me? i just keep writing. you knww that, no? 😆 whenever you can... 🤗