Why Is The Girl Always Taunted??? =S

Originally posted by: shockalot

Heyy Naima! Hey Shaz.

I don't think it has to do with who's fault it is - you're right, it's more on how society views situations like that. In movies, it's always the guy who comes out victorious after alleged one-night stands, as if he's gained or won something - and the girl is thrown away as if she was just something to be used...it's always been like that - the guy succeeds in trapping the girl and using her, while the girl is blind in love and is left to feel ashamed for it all afterwards... Ditto, Thats what iratates me the most, why the girl always, its ridiculous, Some times i feel has the society really changes apart form letting girls out more and letting tem make their own life decisions.

It's sad but things don't seem to have changed all that much, i don't know why, but it happens in real life all the time too - guys boasting with their guy friends about "getting girls" - and girls end up being reduced to tears after they find out they've been used.....BUT there are role reversals all the time, i mean there have been many instances when a girl is the one who uses guys... True but then again, i dont think anyone taunts the guy as much as they would have taunted the girl. But yes there have been instances like that.

OK, random rant right there hahah but to get back to the topic - i don't know what the girl is always taunted...but it's not right! Dont worry you wernt random, you were spot on, i have a feeling this qeustion will remain unanswered until the society ACTUALLY changes its vviews on girls.

Thanks for commenting. 😊

Originally posted by: bronze12

Nice post yaar.. Thank you.

I know , it sucks But its true about our society. its the girl who is always blamed.. any kind of mishap happen with a girl weather eve-teasing or rape wet, we see ppl commenting on odd things like her dressing stlye, she was out at odd time

Exactly, so it doesnt matter how much the girl does wrong or right, she will always end up being held wrong and will be degraded and taunted for the rest of her life. Just like in rape cases, is it the girls fault, she was sexually assaulted? the guy does the wrong, but then why does the girl suffer the consequences and punishments.

Last year a university vice-chancllor said girls beloing to a particular region of India experience crimes like eve-teasing, stalking because of the way they dress up..

It was so shocking that even someone at such high position thinks if a girl wears short dress, she is inviting trouble.

Its ridiculous Yarr, i dont think it has anything to do with how someone dresses, i mean you may find this socking, but people who wear Hijabs end up getting raped, why? they were fully covered wernt they? so this short clothing inviting trouble is proved wrong totally.

I know its disgusts me when a high position person says all this BS, not everyone uses their position for good cause.

Thanks for commenting 😊

Kavya, Piya stop being lazy and comment. 😆

Originally posted by: naz17555

Interesting topic nammy! Thanks Nazz. and u no wat i dnt know why!..Me neither its always been like that for some reason, the guy says something and everyone believes the guy and the girls integrity has gone down the loo!

I know, the guy is beleived while the girl is looked down on, and put to shame, its quite stupid tbh. I thought girls and guys were equal then why this treatment towards girls only and not guys?

Its really sad but thats what tends to happen and dramas show the same thing!...

but im glad that mjht, since its a college show has outspoken confident girls that dont take no crap! and we'll see that in modays epi when dia faces Rv and slaps him!

Im really hoping girls who have been through all this take it up with consideration, and fight for their dignity and rights after watching Mjht, when Dia does it, coz why waste your life crying and hiding for somthing you havent done?

and i agree with shazz its just societies ways! i agree too, it is a society thing.

sorry i'd prob write more but i have a huge headache! awww dont worry you commented its enough, and do take medication for your headache.. 😊