Originally posted by: ahana2009
<font color="#000000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="4">once akshara was unsure about her feelings for naitik...............she was ina gr8 confusion whether the feeling inside her for naitik is love or not.............so she threw stone on river...........and the stone danced on the water..............from then akshara is sure that she is in love with naitik.....and......he is the man of her life..................<br><br><br>today all the nakhras shes doing bcz she already knows that no matter wht happens......her love for him wud never change........akshara has alwz been silent..........whether it was about confessing her love for naitik or clearing the mu...............she wants naitik to understand her silence.............<br><br><br>on the other hand naitik has alwz been expressive...........he never misses a chance to interact with her........whether its the sorry kiss on the balcony or with the mehendi mu.................or u can take the mandir scene....where he said''kya isiko kehte hai pyar''.........he alwz wanted akshara to know his feeling for her.........wht a combo.............rab ne bana di naksh ki jodi😊</font><br>
i read a very interesting article in today's Brunch abt "first love"..this is what it said......"The first exposure to anything leaves an indelible impression. We are not aware of the risks, complications or negatives of the situation..The first experience is the most genuine, purest and straight from the heart..with your first love, your mind is full of hype about love. It is completely unaware of how it is supposed to feel, so you go with whatever you truely feel and no games played. At that time you're not being cautious, rather you're very transparent. "
that makes me think..they love each other like crazy...but do they know each other? each one of us want to be loved the way we want..whatever naitik is doing is his way of loving (and he expects the same from Akshara..) and that's where the difference in their personalities show..Naitik was always vocal about his feelings towards Akshara but Akshara never confessed to him the way he wanted (except for the time when she did speak up on their suhaagraat but he was not there to listen)...Once Rashmi said that if you keep sharmaofying like this "aapki daada se nibhegi kaise?" Akshara wants to talk through her silence and sorry to say, it really doesn't work and it's totally misleading
this thought came to mind when i was watching friday's episode n where Rajshekhar says "naitik ne akshara ki galti ko chupane ki koshish ki..aur akshara dheere dheere naitik ki saari kamzoriyon ko samajh legi" .. they're married and they're in love but now they'll have to go beyond this love and that is understand each other's temperaments , habits, moods and nature..ek doosre ki kami ko pehchaanna aur accept karna is the toughest job.....because they love each other so much, they have a lot of expectation from each other and Naitik is thinking that Akshara uske rang mein rang jayegi, and Akshara is expecting the same.....tht she'll be able to mould Naitik according to her....well, just love is not required to sustain a relationship like this (where both of them are so different yet similar ) they will have to learn to give space to each other, value each other, respect each other's feelings and mould themselves accordingly...and they'll be needing a lot of time...
Edited by _charu_ - 16 years ago