problem of thinking so much

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Kanu K

@artizia

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

i have same problem as well ..

i speak first and then think
when it shud be other way around ....

im trying to work on it ..and what i do is before i say something i make a 5 second pause which gives me time to think again if i wanna say that

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india-select

@india-select

Beginner

Posted: 16 years ago

#12

Hi ic

Sounds like you are a very sincere and nice person. ( i was like you, although many years ago : )

Try not to think to deeply or worry so much sometimes ( are you always thinking about how your situation in life will be in the future ..etc ?? )

Im sure you could also get advice, from an older relative or family member, they will understand.

Most young people have had similar issues and problems, ok

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@xsweetbabygyalx

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

#13

a lot of people have this problem.....it's common......i do the opposite though, i think first about what i am going to say then i share some of my personal problems but not all of them as i tend to get carried away in the conversations......i think the best thing to do is try to create a habit of what you are going to say and what the question is asking u......try to be very brief meaning short......don't go in details.......i am trying to do the same, so far thinking twice before i speak has helped me out a lot......the thing that helps me think before i open my mouth is thinking how other people would think or feel about what i say.

my advice to u basically is......think twice before u speak and best of luck.