Thanks angie.4u for your posotive attitude, in fact you have thoughts on this issue just similar to me. I wish you may have a successful life and strong healthy relationship in your in laws. You may find all the happiness on the earth and your family life may be symble and example for others. In fact i have also similar thoughts that elders must be given due regard and care, without considering the pooint wheather they belong to boy or to girl. Both of them have suffered similar difficulties in broght up issues of their ward. What wrong they have done in that case or if they got married their child with you. If we honour and care them, we are not paying them by this something, rather making a path for us in future from our children.