whats more important Love or Marriage?

To answer your question i will consider Vrinda to be a real person and not a fictitious character

Been a law student i have seen many divorces and i always think why cant they try harder and work on their marriage? people are so ready to give up they are not even trying but the fact is its easy for us to say cos we are not living it we have no idea what they are going through.

Coming to Vrinda how can a person forget someone just like that specially when that person is the reason for all the happiness you got just because you get married doesn't mean that a person can completely bloke out their past.

The person you should blame in this whole situation is not Vrinda and certainly not Yug its Dadabeer, who thinks by getting Vrinda married she will forget everything. parents have to think before they do things like this because not only are they ruining their children's lives but also the person whom they get married to as well. why do they think that the solution for all their problems is getting their children married off????? i don't get it .

Its not that Vrinda has no morals but because she has that's why she told Rajbeer the truth because its not fare on him to stay in the dark at this moment she is still in love with Yug who knows she might change her mind in the future no one can change their emotions just like that it takes time

Even though I'm all for marriage i don't think me or any one else has right to judge someone

well said binky, personally i have seen this happen in real life with my own eyes and all i can say is that the girl is not to blame.

and yes marriage is very sacred, but if you are forced, pushed and emotionally blackmailed into it then the it looses all its importance. the oath only matters if your heart and soul is in it.

Those were some amazing comments..from all...totally very interesting..the underlying common theme from you all would seem that you all put more emphasis on the feeling of a person versus the bond of marriage.. (which i dont really agree with, i personally seen some couples totally in love, totally fall apart after the harsh realities of marriages set in..when your in love your in a perfect nirvana, no outside elements to disrupt you...but once the demands and pressures of true life hit the lovey dovey couple its like all goes down the toilet...but then i've seen some couples that did fall in love and got married standed the test of time, it really depends on how mature you are, how giving you are...

Originally posted by: Binky

To answer your question i will consider Vrinda to be a real person and not a fictitious character

Been a law student i have seen many divorces and i always think why cant they try harder and work on their marriage? people are so ready to give up they are not even trying but the fact is its easy for us to say cos we are not living it we have no idea what they are going through.

See unless were talking about being in an abusive relationship i still feel dont have the fortitude (strength now adays to really commit anymore, people's demands for more and me me me feeling are what is tearing the fabric of the institue of marriage apart.

Coming to Vrinda how can a person forget someone just like that specially when that person is the reason for all the happiness you got just because you get married doesn't mean that a person can completely bloke out their past.

Then she shouldnt have got married now should she have, at least fight back, why did she just up and get married without a fight? that leads me to think perhaps she didnt love Yug as much as you all think she did? (man i just love playing devil's advocate 😆)

The person you should blame in this whole situation is not Vrinda and certainly not Yug its Dadabeer, who thinks by getting Vrinda married she will forget everything. parents have to think before they do things like this because not only are they ruining their children's lives but also the person whom they get married to as well. why do they think that the solution for all their problems is getting their children married off????? i don't get it .

I still dont think that Dadabeer really did anything wrong when he looks it through his eyes of experience, and thats the thing, looking at life now versus when i was younge i can truly say no parent wants anything more then to give their child the best in life, the comfort of a loving spouse, and really Dada picked RB and no offence the guy seems like a gem of a guy (there is no fault in RB you have to admit)😉

Its not that Vrinda has no morals but because she has that's why she told Rajbeer the truth because its not fare on him to stay in the dark at this moment she is still in love with Yug who knows she might change her

mind in the future no one can change their emotions just like that it takes time

Even though I'm all for marriage i don't think me or any one else has right to judge someone

I still say she lacks morals cause she told him after they got married, Once it became his problem, now she's telling him to drop her off back at her house? and you think she doesnt lack morals? okay then what do you think she does lack? cause since this is a show i have all the right to criticize and judge...thats why i watch these dramas..the characters make these mistakes so we can thrash them after wards...😆 thanks for the detailed comments it was tremendous fun debating with you...regards....

Originally posted by: maish97

How can there be a marriage if there is no love???

uffff this comment has me seriously come now do you really think that love is a prerequisite to marriage? you must be very younge or very idealistic...

If you do carry on it's all under false pretences...then if children come along they suffer...all because mum and dad decided to stay together for the sake of thier marriage(not because they loved or trusted each other)

Okay i am going to take Vrinda's senario only here and say she could have an awesome marriage with RB, he's a mega sweet guy...but Vrinda's problem is that she's in love with Yug...so really i think if she gave it a couple of years she would grow to love RB...and trust is there already RB took what she said and made her pain his...

...come on realistically this is how we get so many problems in our culture, where we are forced to get married then expected to carry out our duties as an obedient partner living in regret!

Well first off we dont have as many marital issues as Anglo Saxens do. and furthermore i remember reading once that arrange marriages have a very high successful rate.so what regret are you talking about? do you mean Forced marriage ? yeah well see I still think Vrinda could have tried much harder to stop the marriage from taking place she didnt, so then she should just live with her consequences.

Our elders need to realise, marriage is not a game where they stick two people together and expect wonders to happen especially if they know their children love other people.

Yeah i agree with you here, parents should let their kids marry the people they want, and then when you all come crying back and start suffering then parents should what? say i told you so, or should they try to help their kids find the best match for you? why do parents even bother, when kids now adays think they know everything...I really think East Asian Parents really get the raw deal when it comes to raising kids, we give you guys the best, dont even throw you out on your butts at the age of 18...pay for you till you either have a job or are ready to get married heck we even pay for your marriages..., and then we get comments like this...talk about gratitude...😆yeessshhhhh

I'm all for arranged marriage, my grandparents and parents got me married when i was 18. Alhumdulillah, today i am happily married with two children aged 11 and 6, I have done my degree in teaching specialising in maths and i am a primary school teacher. (this all happened after i got married) Personally i don't think people should be forced in to marriage without consent from both parties!!!!

totally agree with your comment here, and Hats off to you for going to school and getting your degree, that must have been very hard, shows your a real hard worker....as a person and as a mom...👏and you havent bored me at all, it was a total pleasure reading your comments thanks for sharing...take care.

sorry if i've bored anyone!!!!