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Posted: 17 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: _charu_

If Akshara could not explain her point of view to Naitik then it's not his fault...When she said I don't like to study what else does that mean? she doesn't like to study but she wants to study ! tht's what Naitik understood (with the little intelligence he has) and told this to his family , may be bec. he wanted to create a good image of Akshara (as they like it) quite possible....Now it nobody's fault that they misinterpret each other everytime ! They've hardly met (n they're not expected to meet either ..may be that's why they're hiding it from their families) , they never had a good conversation about their likes/dislikes , their nature, their beliefs, their thinking .......how can we expect a good level of understanding between two strangers? When they were given an opportunity to talk, to know each other, first akshara wasted it and then Naitik by fighting over a silly issue....Good point, but when Mohit told him to say something, the first thing he remembered was that guy hanging around Akshara.. I can understand why he thought about that, Dada ji did start talking about boys being boys or whatever, but he should have some faith in her. I agree he doesn't know her very well, but then why would you marry someone you don't trust at all.. 😕 I don't know, maybe I'm wrong, but I get the feeling that he doesn't think a boy and a girl can just be friends.

fine Naitik is acting possessive but he left the final decision on Akshara right?Yes, he did. I'm grateful for that.
Managing a house and ur family is the toughest job but i guess she's not capable of doing that also at this stage ! then how can we expect her to study , attend college and manage her house at the same time? They should have waited for her to finish her studies before marrying her off..
what does Akshara expects from her life..i wanna know tht...... Only studies is not important...giving complete freedom to ur children, so that they decide whatz best for them is important...She was never given that freedom...................For Akshara, these decisions were always made by her family ! .........Akshara's family wants her to study but do they want her to make a career? They even asked her to stop singing when certain guy rejected her ! Good point, what does she want? Hopefully, it won't always be what other people want her to do.
All i'm trying to say is that we're looking at this from our point of view, the way we live our lives, our priorities and choices....we must look at it though Akshara's POV....Also, we have a long long way to go before we see Akshara and Naitik as we like it... You brought up a very good point, and yes, maybe he did do it so Akshara would have a good image in front of his family.

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Posted: 17 years ago
#32
well i wont say that its his insecurity ...... as we've seen that he's dear to the entire family sply his mom and badi maa ..... everyone have pampered him so much and have actually heard and given him everything that he wants or wished to have
so this makes him so ... if he was insecure am sure he would have told akshara not to talk to that guy or would have just ordered her that she need not talk to him again ...but he did'nt do so ...though that made him upset, but he did'nt loose his control ..... so i dont think that he's insecure

anyways lets see how the story turns now
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Posted: 17 years ago
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it's not just Naitik who misunderstood her...Her parents think the same way...When Vish saw Akshara with that guy (the 2nd or 3rd episode) , he was mad on her and didn't trust her ! Her mom immediately called upon Shankari and started looking for a guy for her !!!!! Imagine when her parents who have brought her up and given her so many sanskars n all don't have faith in her then how will Naitik have it so soon (just the starting of their relationship)...and he never doubted her, he has full faith in her but he doesn't trust that guy 😆 and trust me, tht guy is trying to be overfriendly with Akshara without ny reason...how ridiculous ! he said "exam mein phir milte hain" 😆 doesn't make ny sense ....he thinks he's gonna sit right behind her the next time? ..and he, instead of concentrating on his paper will keep waiting when Akshara will be needing his pen ? 😃the only reason cud be tht he's finding new ways to talk to Akshara...
Edited by _charu_ - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

it's not just Naitik who misunderstood her...Her parents think the same way...When Vish saw Akshara with that guy (the 2nd or 3rd episode) , he was mad on her and didn't trust her ! Her mom immediately called upon Shankari and started looking for a guy for her !!!!! Imagine when her parents who have brought her up and given her so many sanskars n all don't have faith in her then how will Naitik have it so soon (just the starting of their relationship)...and he never doubted her, he has full faith in her but he doesn't trust that guy 😆 and trust me, tht guy is trying to be overfriendly with Akshara without ny reason...how ridiculous ! he said "exam mein phir milte hain" 😆 doesn't make ny sense ....he thinks he's gonna sit right behind her the next time? ..and he, instead of concentrating on his paper will keep waiting when Akshara will be needing his pen ? 😃the only reason cud be tht he's finding new ways to talk to Akshara...



How did I totally forget about that? My bad. 😆😆 Her family doesn't even trust her.

That guy is acting weird, I thought his job was just to make Naitik jealous once and that was it, but he's still there. 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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therez one more point..Akshara is scared to talk to Naitik..She needs to be comfortable in his company only then she can explain him properly what she wants..It's high time she speaks up....just saying "yes i wanna study" won't do...i hope they "converse" today
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I think its just that he is just very possessive...many men are like that in real life ALSO......I think this show is portraying the real world where they show that many people out there are like that not just very sweet and cute which looksa so artificial...we just have to see how akshara deals with him..... actually girls do like men who are possessive😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Naitik might be educated and 'modern looking', but essentially he is a small town guy, who has been born and brought up in a highly patriarchal / male dominated household. And to top it all, he is also very young and generally inexperienced in life. Hence, his insecurity is a very essential part of his nature and character! It is but obvious that Naitik has not dealt with the opposite sex very much, save apart from the women in his family and hence Akshara is actually the first woman in his life (romantically)
Hence, I guess its natural that he is not able to come in terms with his feelings for her...besides, he is just getting to know her.
So when such a guy to whom a girl has been bethroed and is set to marry is seen chatting with some other guy, Naitik thinks the first thing that comes to his mind...that all the other men in the world are out to get his Fiancee😆
I don't think he suspects Akshara or anything, he is just being extremely overprotective and in a way insecure too! But that aspect doesn't make him look any less, it only makes his character more convincing!
Now if Naitik was shown to be a very liberal, open-minded sort of guy, who had been born and brought up a small town like Udaipur, that would have been quite out of place! But as of now, whatever they have shown of him is very typical and true of people who have not been exposed to much in life.
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PS: Naitik's possessivness / insecurity is rather cute actually...especially because we know that Akshara is not the doormat that she appears to be and if pushed too far, she can more than stand up for herself! So if Naitik tries to dominate her or impose his wishes on her, Akshara is certainly not going to put up for it!
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Posted: 17 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: p@ras

I think its just that he is just very possessive...many men are like that in real life ALSO......I think this show is portraying the real world where they show that many people out there are like that not just very sweet and cute which looksa so artificial...we just have to see how akshara deals with him..... actually girls do like men who are possessive😳

Obviously yaar i love his possessive attitude.....But how possessive Naitik is not the main concern here ...the main concern is because of that guy he's thinking in a wrong way that Akshara must not attend college...Akshara has no idea of what's going on in his mind...Also, Naitik, like Akshara is young and immature.....at least not matured enough to take any important decision...
and it's soooooooooo obvious he got jealous of that guy..Akshara NEVER talked to him the way she was talking to tht guy 🤣
Edited by _charu_ - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Personally i love Naitik's possessive attitude because i think its cute, but i don't think that Akshara has explain to Naitik what she wants to do regarding her education.

Because as we know Naitik thinks that Akshara does not want to study either, since they have only met a few times it is not possible for Naitik to understand Akshara and what she wants unless she sits down and explains to him what she wants, this will maybe help Naitik feel more secure when it comes to Akshara and maybe a little less jealous of that pen guy 😆

Also the way Natitik was brought up was to think that women should not study after marriage (because of the boy's thing) and therefore it isn't his fault that he feels insecure at the moment but i do believe that he did the right thing on leaving the contiue studying choice up to Akshara.

I want Naitik to support Akshara if she wishes to continue studying without having to feel any insecurity but for him to do that Akshara needs to talk to him and Naitik needs to understand what she is. 😊
Edited by *summy* - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

and it's soooooooooo obvious he got jealous of that guy..Akshara NEVER talked to him the way she was talking to tht guy 🤣

I agree she never talked to naitik like that ...poor guy must be real jealous😉🤣

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