once gauri found out the truth - and she fainted & was revived by the doctors - really, the situation was completely manageable. she hadn't lived with A for even a day, and she couldve started life anew with AD's help. got educated, remarried, whatever. whatever amar did was reversible. ... and he wanted to ensure she was taken care of all along.
It's Divya who has suddenly made this a bad situation for everyone (except for her..she's happy keeping secrets from all). it's divya that boggles my mind at this moment - there is no logic to what she is doing.
its far too easy to hate gauri - her character was sooooo annoying at first . but now i think ppl hate her cause its easier to blame her than AD. Plus, I just dont like what her presence stands for - its ok to have a second wife as long as your 1st wife doesnt object? gross. i know families who have accepted a second wife, in the same home, and i can assure you - it is degrading and humiliating - particularly for the first wife. (i mean hindu families in india - its probably different in the muslim culture)