its so easy to just look at one side of the coin

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Posted: 17 years ago
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guys.... before you all start thinking i am bashing anyone i just wanted to say a few things regarding Rahul's exit from the show...

for starters, it hasnt been confirmed, but the last two times, when mumbai mirror gave out some news it was later confirmed by other sources, so all one can do is just pin your hopes and think its not true.... however, soemtimes its better to let go after a while as it doesnt give you anything else but hurt...

i am not siding the creatives, i have chosen times to criticise them as well, but here, if you read the entire article, the only news from the actor or the production house has is about tryng to work out issues... the 17000 rs meal, and all the other stuff that has been mentioned has been from other sources, now, we all know that when an article is published, there are various insiders who work and give the gossip to reporters... so spare both the actors and the creatives...

for god's sake ya, even i love DMG, even i would have wanted the original cast to stay intact, but then these things happen on TV shows... and its not a joke to work every single day or your life in the same job, that too in the gruelling conditions like we have in the movie and tv industry...

what i find a little problematic is that, every time something goes wrong with the star cast, we audience readily blame the creatives... those very creatives who give a shape, name, and character to the artists who go to become "stars"..... its only when a creative thinks a person can fit a certain bill does he bring in a character to play that role, so they know before you and i do, that a person fits the role... why would they then, want to throw out the person just because he has ordered a lavish lunch..... if something as drastic as an exit has happened, or has been rumored to have happened, there certainly must be something that we cant see.... why get into the entire behind the scenes drama....

even i like Rahul, infact i love his bonding with Armaan...and i love the subtle, implied understanding he shares with Armaan.... even i was as shaken....

but wad i got annoyed about was the fact that, sometimes we end up blaming the creatives... whether it is an actor leaving the show, or something goes wrong... i feel bad, because, the creatives are the people who are least appreciated on the show...

the writer of the show was changed for over 3 months from october to last week, did anyone notice? the creative supervisors have been changed once in a while, the dialogue writers keep making their entries and exit .... why doesnt anyone make a huge hue and cry about this replacement? when the quality of DMG falls we have one ready excuse "the creatives need to pull up their socks"........... but does anyone ever go beynd that... think beyond that... we seldom do? and it certainly can afford to be so, for the simple reason.... what ever happens on the set, what ever happens behind the scenes, even if it means two people may be harsh enemies to the extent that they may not wanna meet eye to eye outside, as soon as the camera starts rolling we want our shot, and we dont care other wise....!!

but guys, at times try and be considerate... try to think a little objectively... dont jump to conclusions just like that...

at the end of the day, dont forget the fact that we are still watching a show and the more we think about it on such a personal level these kinda disappoinments will keep coming our way, breaking our hearts... do think about it guys..

love,
niha

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I read d news in d morning...Felt shattered....got calmed down by my JB's...and tried thinkin positive!!! Jus logged in again and saw some of the comments in "Mayank Quitting "thread...I'll jus say all d frustation i was feeling aftr reading them...So much negativity.....So much bashing..Jus because"a certain crowd" wants to prove their point and hav a nice laugh over it wen so many of the members r heartbroken....It all came out in ur post and i agree wid every word uv said!!!every single word!!!
Earlier i was a lil curious too as to Y the production people can't deal their issues wid their actors....Bt looking at it this way isn't it for them only that we hav "DMG" in our lives.....We hav dese acrors/couples whom we adore/idolize....For whom this forum has been transformed into a battleground.....Who gave them to us in d first place....Its d creatives!!! So y say such stuff about them wen even Mayank is nt sayin anything like that.....Who are we to judge wen we dun knw anything...Not even d fact that he is quitting or not......and i see people even makin comments like "DMG itself should end"....=(
M equally broken by this news....I love Rahul....Love his bonding and understanding wid AR...Love his sincerity....Was so falling for RM too....and m nt being able to come into terms wid he's leaving....Bt at d end of the day i can jus wish and pray he doesn't!!!and i request all d members to do so too....Instead of downright bashing and spreading negativity!!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I completely agree with you an now that I have calmed down its a lot clearer I mean we really can't help it and these things do truly happen..its sad but as you guys have said nothing is confirmed and hopefully things will be back to normal,the way they were ,well Happy New Year in advance you guys!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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niha...i soo agree with u..it isnt anybodys fault...nobody wld do it purposely..there must be agood reason... maybe the reason mnetioned is not totally ture..but we can wait n watch n see if ny othr reliable source confirms this.... i cant understand one thing...after the news came.....many ppl started topics saying.dmg will end..its should end n blah blah im sure u must hv read them too... but ya who said dmg is goin down? shilpa left still show is doing so owell...its been recently appreciated by sbs for being among top 10..but no!some ppl think dmg will close down becoz one actor is leaving it... nyways cming bck to the topic... i really was pissed off in the morning after reading the news...i started crying...i was relly angry at the creatives..then i thgt wld they like doing that......no!they have to....soo many serials undergo changes.....so even dmg is a tv show.........so its okay!
but yeah i really wanted mayyu to stay..maybe i have hopes tat mayank wld stay on and issues wld be resolved....
coz i love him ..hes a wonderful actor...and RM r my 2nd most fav aftr AR..n i too luv his bonding sepcially wid atul n armaan
so i wld just say lets wait n watch!
n enjoy dmg
sorry for the long post niha..but wanted to share my feelings
thankyou
n g8 topic
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: i_luv_dmg

niha...i soo agree with u..it isnt anybodys fault...nobody wld do it purposely..there must be agood reason... maybe the reason mnetioned is not totally ture..but we can wait n watch n see if ny othr reliable source confirms this.... i cant understand one thing...after the news came.....many ppl started topics saying.dmg will end..its should end n blah blah im sure u must hv read them too... but ya who said dmg is goin down? shilpa left still show is doing so owell...its been recently appreciated by sbs for being among top 10..but no!some ppl think dmg will close down becoz one actor is leaving it... nyways cming bck to the topic... i really was pissed off in the morning after reading the news...i started crying...i was relly angry at the creatives..then i thgt wld they like doing that......no!they have to....soo many serials undergo changes.....so even dmg is a tv show.........so its okay!

but yeah i really wanted mayyu to stay..maybe i have hopes tat mayank wld stay on and issues wld be resolved....
coz i love him ..hes a wonderful actor...and RM r my 2nd most fav aftr AR..n i too luv his bonding sepcially wid atul n armaan
so i wld just say lets wait n watch!
n enjoy dmg
sorry for the long post niha..but wanted to share my feelings
thankyou
n g8 topic



i am glad you agreed with me... personally even i dont want him to leave... but after the time Shilpa left and i was effected, i dont seem to think too much about these replacements anymore... its just a waste of precious time and energy....

at the end of the day its there for everyone to see that DMG is a survivor..... and they are doing a fab job... honestly DMG was never a top show in the leagues of family entertainment shows as its a diff genre altogether...

but in its own place the popularity hasnt dwindled so much.. and the slight upswings and downswings are a part of any show...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Niha...yeah i know...even idun wanna think ny more...no creative wld like to lose there such a talented actor from the show...but its a part of the industry..so its ok but im just lil upset cozz of the negative posts...nywayys.... i wld just sayy....ppl should move on ..now... thanks
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Posted: 17 years ago
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WOW niha u deserve an applaud for such a wonderful post really how cum ur posts are always soo right Lol but really i agree we shud not see only one side of the coin specially when we even dont know the whole truth n start blaming the creatives i waz really down coz of this news but ur post made me much calmer n i m very positive that the creatives wud never dissappoint us!!
Cheers
Keep Rocking DMG!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Reserved will edit my comments later but 4 now awsome topic Niha! well said
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Posted: 17 years ago
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guys looks like he is leaving after all :( the episode kinda got me all senti..

but like i sed, i guess moving on is a part of life....

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