Raja on Headlines Today- Details !

ok i did not see the whole thing..but yeah abt 10-15 mins...

they had this special show on raja- What's wrong raja?

from wher i saw... raja was on phone live...(so he has changed his number😛) n the girl who hosts the show was asking him about zulfi...he said first of all i will like to say that u r looking very gorgeous..im watching u on tv 😆 then he said that whatever zulfi is saying there is no truth to it...he did not do any such thing... he was saying zulfi is fake aur yeh sab bakwaas kar raha hai...he was also saying something abt the staff at zulfi's boutique.. i cudnt hear properly

then the girl askd him abt his other issues..molestation n all..he said maine kuch nahi kiya..media jo dikhata hai sach nahi hai... the fact is that these police people enjoy my company 😆 so roz mujhe le aate hai ki chalo raja party karte hai... n so i party with them 😆 like right now im also sitting n having fun...

then they had a psychiatrist in the studio...she said that raja seems to have some problem...behind all this ther seems to be a man who is very lonely... he has no emotional support..no one he can call his own...so he probably needs an anchor to which he can hold on to... (which i totally agree to )

so they askd raja that will u like to ask something to this phychiatrist...he said i cant talk on phone n that too like this when i dont know who she is..n she doesnt knw me...n then he said today only i met some psychiatrist n i spoke to her in detail..n she said thers nothing wrong with me...so if u guys want u can talk to that doctor...

oh yeah the calld sambhavna also...she said..raja needs help...he needs his family...
she said she always thought that raja is an intelligent man..short tempered yes but intelligent...but she just cant understand what has gone wrong with him after his exit from BB house... (neither can we sambhavna ) n that reported was asking sam ...do u respect raja ...😆 (kya sawal hai) so she said...raja n me r neither frnds nor we r enemies...i have nothing to do with him..no question of respect n all...

umm what else.. yeah so raja se again she askd.. so did not do all these things..n thers nothing wrong with u? he said no...
thats all i can remember now..😛 yeah in the end that reporter said..that she really feels sorry for raja..n hope he can sort out things very soon...she actually said this to raja...that please sit back...n sort out things quickly... 😊

Manali....very touching to read this !!!!

I definitely feel like saying at this stage that ST has ruined his life !!!

Even if they do not want to live as husband and wife, at least at a time when he needs re assurance from someone, ST could have talked to him in front of some third party if she did not want to spend time alone with him !!!

yeah susan...i also felt bad for him

which reminds me...the reporter also askd him...that the problems in ur life started only after ur divorce?..... n he said yes...he said ab aisi baaten kahi sabne abt me...ki maine apni beti ki kidnap kar liya...maine apni biwi ko maara... yeh sab bola media ne mere baaren mein...so what shud i do... they said that was the reason behind my divorce...

so he himself said that all his problems r cuz of his divorce...hmmm...as the psychiatrist said... he seems to be very lonely..in need of help...he needs an emotional support... n i agree totally ...

He must at least find someone he likes and who wants to marry him.....will he?

i hope he finds someone...n settles down...
he has lost it yaar...hez not mentally stable...i think he needs his family he still love shweta n ofcourse his daughter...n he just cant get over it...

I beg to differ slightly here.. No doubt I feel bad for him, but let's get real. He is not the only man in the world who has a broken marriage behind him. I am not denying the fact that he is feeling lonely, missing his family but he cannot ruin his life because of that. He is an intelligent man, we have seen glimpses of it on the show. He needs to handle his emotions and have a control on his life. If he needs help to do that, then find help. No point ruining one's life brooding over the losses of the past. He is still young, he has to look ahead in life. Please don't get me wrong, I am only trying to say that there is no room in this world for someone who is weak. He has to be much much more stronger than he is now and overcome his adversities. He got a wonderful chance through BB to make a great life ahead, he has won the hearts of thousands of people like us, not many of the shattered get such opportunities to bounce back. He cannot afford to let go of this opportunity, he cannot let his life slip out of his hands. Having said this I will also say that his fans do support him and wish him well. He has to rise above the situations, that's very much needed if he intends to shape his life better.

Originally posted by: arben

I beg to differ slightly here.. No doubt I feel bad for him, but let's get real. He is not the only man in the world who has a broken marriage behind him. I am not denying the fact that he is feeling lonely, missing his family but he cannot ruin his life because of that. He is an intelligent man, we have seen glimpses of it on the show. He needs to handle his emotions and have a control on his life. If he needs help to do that, then find help. No point ruining one's life brooding over the losses of the past. He is still young, he has to look ahead in life. Please don't get me wrong, I am only trying to say that there is no room in this world for someone who is weak. He has to be much much more stronger than he is now and overcome his adversities. He got a wonderful chance through BB to make a great life ahead, he has won the hearts of thousands of people like us, not many of the shattered get such opportunities to bounce back. He cannot afford to let go of this opportunity, he cannot let his life slip out of his hands. Having said this I will also say that his fans do support him and wish him well. He has to rise above the situations, that's very much needed if he intends to shape his life better.

yeah arben...i agree with u...completely...
he needs to be strong...he got one big opportunity in life thru BB...now hez just wasting it
he needs to move on now...else it will be all gone...

I was going to make a similar thread...they also had a special show on aaj tak and raja gave explanation for these past days..

@ arben .....Well i agree with all you said....i have felt the same he is not cashing in on the golden opportunity he got.....

Lets take everything into consideration,

his broken marriage - he is not able to get along with life like others.....

chance to earn money - he got it but is losing it due to his drinking prob...
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drinking prob many people have - but he is in the limelight and gets a bad name since he is more visible than others....

counsellors - he obviously has been to them but they havent helped him so far

usually family and close friends help - he obviously does not have any or else he would have improved

therefore came to this conclusion....someone who really cares for him but can talk to him and who he will give importance to !!!