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Posted: 17 years ago
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helllooo frnds...well i juz wana knw ur opinion abt sthing...
kabhi kabhi aisa hota hai jab ur parents dont support ur love n force u to leave them..but if u stick to ur decision they accept ur relationship..as i went to a party that wz one of our uncle's grandson's 1st bday party...i can remeber when his son wanted to marry that girl they didnt allow bcoz they were hindi n the girl was muslim..but nothing could stop them..unhone bhag ke shadi kar liya after some months parents ne man liya n aaj jab unka beta huya they r tooo happy n they forgot everything n its like the most happy family that girl is very caring and her parents in law is also gud wid her..n there is no probs there..n they have really accepted her warmly now..so u think agr uss ladke ne ussdi parents ki baat man kar us ladki ko chod deta toh kya hota?..so do u think u shud sacrifice ur ageold love n without thinking anything listen to ur parents or u shud try to make ur parents n always stay wid the person u luv..one decision can change ur life...plzz share ur views...

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Posted: 17 years ago
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in my point of view i would listen to my parents and leave my love, cuz u dont know what and how life is going to turn out may be the decision that my parents make for me don,t turn out to be right but i have my family support ........
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Well, first off I won't ever be in this situation because I don't believe in love and all...

But if someone faces this situation then definitely go with your parents. They love you and care for you all their lives then how can you forget their life long love for someone you met maybe some months ago. This is probably one of the rare cases where both families accepted them. Usually that doesn't happen and many families are much more strict in this case.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Mystery-

Well, first off I won't ever be in this situation because I don't believe in love and all...

hey U THINK ALIKE I DON,T BELIEVE IN LOVE EITHER , and i totally agree with your opinion
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Posted: 17 years ago
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ummm...maybe i would leave my love...maybe not...because i know ONE thing....my parents{dad} would never accept me afterward....so i wouldn't be in a situation like that where i would have to choose because i dont want to fall in love...cuz i dont believe in it{sometimes} i would rather marry someone that my parents choose and IF i like him...=]
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Thats so easy to say, everyone say go with ur parents but guys trust me when ur in love, its strange that u can leave ur parents for the person that u love.... Only people that has been in love knows this... :)
Nyway coming to ur question I wish all parents were the same, that even though u disagree with them and do thing they dnt like they will accept it in the end.. But All that matters is everyone is happy in the end .. :)
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: SweetAngel18

Thats so easy to say, everyone say go with ur parents but guys trust me when ur in love, its strange that u can leave ur parents for the person that u love.... Only people that has been in love knows this... :)



I kind of disagree here... you said when you're in love it's hard to leave him/her for your parents but don't you love your parents too? So how can years old love become dull in front of a few months love?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I don't know! My mom said she will disown me if I marry anyone who is not bengali! I have a huge problem with that since i am not attracted to bengalis. So unless I find myself falling in love with a bengali I am counting on being disowned!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: SweetAngel18

Thats so easy to say, everyone say go with ur parents but guys trust me when ur in love, its strange that u can leave ur parents for the person that u love.... Only people that has been in love knows this... :)

Nyway coming to ur question I wish all parents were the same, that even though u disagree with them and do thing they dnt like they will accept it in the end.. But All that matters is everyone is happy in the end .. :)

i totally agree wid u....its easy to say u'll leave ur luv but its nt easyyy....agar itna easy hota toh log suicide nai karte...n then romeo-juliet ka stry bhi nai hota...obv we luv our parents but if u really luv some1..i repeat LUV..luv doesnt mean only coffee n movie wid a guy or just gifts ..i mean true luv..if u realllyyy knw the meaning of luv then u'll und its too tough to leave ur luv...i knw parents r sooo imp..we shud nt hurt them but we shud try our best ke voh man jaye...i wish sabke parents aise hote as i wrote in my last post...i think hume apni dil ki sunni chaiye..coz dil kabhi jhoot nai bolta he...thats my opinion..i wish aisa situation na ho humare saath coz luv is everything 4 me as well as my parents:)
@Perfangel5655
ohh..bengalis r nice but u shud make ur mum und that u cant b forced to luv a bengali..i mean if that person is british or indian u cant help it..coz luv is luv..it can happen anytym..anywhere...ye country nai dekhta..religion nai dekhta..its all abt feelings ..i think so..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Mystery-



I kind of disagree here... you said when you're in love it's hard to leave him/her for your parents but don't you love your parents too? So how can years old love become dull in front of a few months love?

I wnt say anything on that because u said in ur previous post that u dnt believe in love so u will not understand poeple that are actually in love, their feeling... I agree that u love ur parents for soo many years and all that, even i use to think like u but once ur in love, ur entire life and thoughts changes... Trust me but still i understand what u mean but as i said u will only understand this when ur actually in love.... :)

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