Originally posted by: RN555
 
 To tell the truth, i don't know meaning of lochatpana.
But with due respect to everyone when a girl marries in the joint family, it is expected that some will like her some hate her, some will try to find faults in her everytime. But the solution is NOT to break the family. It's the beauty of family the relationship made after marriage are only developed through heart and strengthen by constant nurturing with care and love only. 
If each member of the family just think of their own self and show no concern to elders of the family then the coming generation will see increase in divorce cases only. 
My bestie says ek mekana samjhun gheun, ek mekachi saath ne , pratyek ghoshti kade bhaghayacha. 👍
I know this and had experienced this first hand. 
My Bestie once said, " lagna karna sopa aste, nibhavan kathin aste..., ".
Nevertheless the answer to your question, i would live with my husband's family but with self respect and dignity holding my point and saying it straight in the eye. 
But on the contrary would not bear physicsl abuse or dowry incident luckily as shown in the show SB family has biased behavior but not physically abusive to Sayali. 
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