Originally posted by: Jhanak1234
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Q. As per story we have noticed that Anandi love Dadisa more, even more than she love bhairo ans sumitra but definately not more than shiv but why bhairo and sumitra never got jealous of Anandi loving dadisa more despite knowing that they are the one who supporting her from the beginning and Dadisa used to hate her.
Let’s explore why Bhairon and Sumitra didn’t get jealous of Anandi loving Dadisa more in Balika Vadhu, despite their early support and Dadisa’s initial hostility, within the story’s context (2008–2016). I’ll address this fresh as of April 1, 2025, assuming Anandi’s greater love for Dadisa as you’ve noted, while acknowledging her deep love for Shiv.
Anandi’s Love Hierarchy
Story Context: Anandi (Avika Gor, Pratyusha Banerjee, Toral Rasputra) shows profound attachment to Dadisa (Surekha Sikri), especially as their bond grows from conflict to closeness. She loves Bhairon (Anup Soni) and Sumitra (Smita Bansal) deeply for their unwavering support, but her dynamic with Dadisa stands out—possibly exceeding them, though not Shiv (Sidharth Shukla), her romantic pinnacle (2013–2015).
Evidence: Anandi’s efforts to win Dadisa’s approval (e.g., enduring her strictness, 2008–2010) and later mutual affection (e.g., Dadisa calling her “beti” post-2012) suggest a unique, hard-earned love, distinct from her steady bond with Bhairon and Sumitra.
Why Bhairon and Sumitra Didn’t Get Jealous
Understanding Dadisa’s Transformation 
Bhairon and Sumitra witnessed Dadisa’s shift—from hating Anandi (2008, enforcing child marriage) to loving her as a daughter (post-2010, softened by Anandi’s goodness). They saw Anandi’s love for Dadisa as a victory—her influence tamed a harsh matriarch, benefiting the family.
Reason: They valued Anandi’s role in changing Dadisa (e.g., education debates) over personal rivalry, per scenes of Bhairon’s pride in her impact (2010–2012).
Selfless Parental Love 
Bhairon and Sumitra loved Anandi unconditionally, like parents, without expecting her affection to match theirs. Their support—Bhairon’s push for her schooling, Sumitra’s comfort during Jagdish’s betrayal (2011–2012)—wasn’t transactional; they didn’t need her to love them most.
Reason: Their maturity and care (e.g., Sumitra’s tears for Anandi’s pain) show a love beyond jealousy, rooted in her happiness, not their ego.
Family Unity Over Competition 
The Singh family dynamic prioritized harmony. Bhairon and Sumitra saw Anandi’s bond with Dadisa as strengthening the household—Dadisa’s approval of Anandi (e.g., post-divorce, 2012) healed old rifts, like Bhairon’s clashes with his mother.
Reason: They didn’t resent her love for Dadisa because it aligned with their goal of a cohesive family, per their support post-Shiv (2013–2016).
Awareness of Anandi’s Journey 
Bhairon and Sumitra knew Anandi’s love for Dadisa stemmed from overcoming her early hostility—a tougher, more rewarding bond than their consistent kindness. They respected that emotional payoff, not seeing it as diminishing their role.
Reason: Dadisa’s turnaround (e.g., accepting Anandi’s divorce) was a triumph they celebrated, not envied, per their encouragement of her ties (2013+).
Shiv as the Benchmark 
Anandi’s love for Shiv (her husband, 2013–2015) clearly surpassed all familial bonds, including Dadisa’s. Bhairon and Sumitra didn’t compete with Dadisa because neither rivaled Shiv—jealousy didn’t arise when Anandi’s heart was elsewhere romantically.
Reason: Her grief post-Shiv’s death (2015) dwarfed all, per India Forums fan notes, leaving little room for petty family rivalry.
Why Anandi Loved Dadisa More
Conquest of Adversity: Dadisa’s initial hatred (2008–2010) made her love hard-won—Anandi’s persistence (e.g., softening her via kindness) forged a deeper tie than the effortless support from Bhairon and Sumitra.
Maternal Figure: Dadisa filled a grandmotherly role, blending authority and affection, which Anandi craved after losing her bio parents’ daily presence (2008 onward).
Support: Scenes like Dadisa’s pride in Anandi’s remarriage (2013) show a bond surpassing Sumitra’s nurturing or Bhairon’s guidance.
Conclusion
Bhairon and Sumitra didn’t get jealous because their love for Anandi was selfless—they saw her bond with Dadisa as a family win, not a personal loss, despite their early support versus Dadisa’s hate. Anandi’s greater love for Dadisa reflected her triumph over a tough relationship, but Shiv remained her peak. For your interview, say: “Anandi meant everything to Bhairon and Sumitra, but they didn’t mind her loving Dadisa more—it was a victory for all, not a competition, especially with Shiv as her true love.” One answer, fresh and clear!
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