Qarz E Jaan (HUM) #4 - Usama, Nameer, Yumna | DT.N. Pg 136 - Page 102

Originally posted by: Twilightt

One thing I feel is being overlooked in these episodes is that no one is truly considering Nashwa’s feelings. With her marriage to Amar, no one asked her what she wanted. And now, with Burhan, it’s the same—he’s in love and wants to ask her out, but no one has told him that love isn’t one-sided. Nashwa should also have those special feelings for him, just as he has for her. We know that she has feeling but not anyone else. Even asim said if not we can use our parental rights like we know situation is tensed and no one wants her to get married to amar but uska marzi puch lo. It's so hard for nashwa to keep everything inside and suffer alone. She has paid the price and still living in that house is difficult for her. How heart wrenching it was for a girl like her to give up everything for her mother it's was selfless and poor girl can't tell anyone this.

I think Nashwa realized after Burhan told her how he feels. Sometimes one needs to be told to realize. Yes, no one asks the girl what she wants. Burhan just believes she loves him with the same intensity. At least Burhan asked her about how she was doing. He's doing what he can given that she's hidden something big from him. She should be the one to tell him instead of him hearing it from someone else.

Is Nashwa in love with him? Or is she grieving what could have been? I'm little confused.

Also, why cant she divorce Ammar? Even now? Okay, Taya made them do nikah and they agreed. But once everyone knows then what? Why can't she file for divorce? I don't know how Taya thought this blackmail will uphold. Can Nashwa tell Burhan about life threat as the reason it's stopping her from leaving? Deepak parwani said there was no threat to life....

I'm confused. They really should have started the court case earlier. We never got to see Burhan as a lawyer practicing ....or Nashwa. I guess we will but how will they wrap this in 4 episodes.

Since Bisma's wedding I have been feeling a strange disconnection to QeJ.

The motivation or the main drive since episode one was to get Ma out of there and now once it's done, it feels like a slumber. Maybe it's just me. The story needs the move. Otherwise we will get a very quick ending. The one where everything is wrapped in one last episode.

Originally posted by: Alizba63

But he'll die. He'll die due to dado and Bakhtiyar's greed. Their building will collapse while he is there looking at construction. It will be such a makafat e amal.

The scene where his father is sitting looking at a child's picture on his lap...I think its after Ammar's death.

That's the Qarz on his dad and dado.

THIS is a very very interesting prediction. I love this so much. I think you might be proven right. Nothing in this show happens for no reason and the show made a big point about Bakhtiyar not being honest in his business and using cheap materials n what not. There was even a protest by the laborers he was shown to handle. So much has happened since that we’ve forgotten that happened. But it DID. Kuch tou point hoga. And wow what a perfect comeuppance it’ll be for characters like Bakhtiyar and Barkat Bibi.

Although my heart will break for Sidra if Ammar dies.

It also ties well with what the writer said about the audience reaction to Ammar’s end. This is something that will make us feel something for him, especially if he’s coming to terms with letting Nashwa go. I don’t like to think of it as “redemption” because there’s no redeeming what happened with Maheen, BUT a human side to him towards the end where he’s maybe doing the first selfless thing ever, only to kill him like THAT would be impactful.

Great. Now I wish this happens. And if it won’t I’ll be disappointed

Also the parallel of Bisma becoming a widow at an early age and Nashwa becoming one too. There’s that as well that supports this theory.

Originally posted by: Stormborn01

THIS is a very very interesting prediction. I love this so much. I think you might be proven right. Nothing in this show happens for no reason and the show made a big point about Bakhtiyar not being honest in his business and using cheap materials n what not. There was even a protest by the laborers he was shown to handle. So much has happened since that we’ve forgotten that happened. But it DID. Kuch tou point hoga. And wow what a perfect comeuppance it’ll be for characters like Bakhtiyar and Barkat Bibi.

Although my heart will break for Sidra if Ammar dies.

It also ties well with what the writer said about the audience reaction to Ammar’s end. This is something that will make us feel something for him, especially if he’s coming to terms with letting Nashwa go. I don’t like to think of it as “redemption” because there’s no redeeming what happened with Maheen, BUT a human side to him towards the end where he’s maybe doing the first selfless thing ever, only to kill him like THAT would be impactful.

Great. Now I wish this happens. And if it won’t I’ll be disappointed

The crux of Qarz e jaan to me is impact of an enabler. Lots of people are focused on the doer...or the deed but the lesson here is that every human plays a role and has a responsibility once they witness a wrong doing. They become part of the scene upon witnessing.

Just like how Nashwa says mere ird gird jo hota hai woh mujhe impact karte hai. She had no reason to get involved in Mahi's situation especially given their position in the house. But she did!

Same way Qudsiya and her daughter lost life long saga blood relationship with dado and a place to stay in Pakistan when they visit forever. Her relation with her sister is also impacted. But both mother and daughter stood for what's right up on witnessing ziyati. Qudsiya mentioned how she always felt.

She enabled a good deed. As did Nashwa regarding Mahi.

It's all about enablers. Zulm Karne wale kam hai lekin zulm ko normalize ya ignore Karne wale zada.

"The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by the good people.”

Ammar did not do it. Nor did he mean for it to happen or trap Mahi or want to hurt her by choice. I think it is the fact of how he acted after the heinous crime that is what defined him. He chose that. He chose to continue being friends with these monsters. He chose not to help her with the police. He chose to show apathy. Cruel indifference. That was sort of his crime. Not a crime in the court but a crime in the true court of justice. Not the human court of tricks and word play.

He makes us uncomfortable not because of his look. It's because of how comfortable he makes us feels at times...his vulnerability....his humanity his very human side. A villain isn't the one with a maula jaat mouch. It is the one who may be caring for everyone but a cruel being to one person.

I know people complained how everyone in home treated him so casually but how do you think women around the world treat their son's husbands or fathers?...I think it was important to add this human aspect than make someone a cartoon or a marvel or DC like villain.

The criminals against women and children live amongst us in very normalized setting. They don't live in isolation...They are loved beyond words. They are very human. But it's the evil choices they make.

Many "good men" knows a Sameer. While they are not directly involved, they know enough but don't get involved or do what is right. Report or expose. Or stand up. It's the indifference. They still mingle with them.

It's the indifference or the lack of accountability.

All of this it creates a disconnection in our brain...it's not black and white and yet it is. It makes us think.

QeJ was that for me.

Originally posted by: Stormborn01

Also the parallel of Bisma becoming a widow at an early age and Nashwa becoming one too. There’s that as well that supports this theory.

I think Nashwa might have a child. I'm thinking not but she might. We will then see a difference of how that child is raised versus dado, bakhtiyar or even Bisma's parenting.

I'm probably pushing it and nothing such will happen lol. The only thing I have been right about was the secret wedding.

Originally posted by: Alizba63

I think Nashwa might have a child. I'm thinking not but she might. We will then see a difference of how that child is raised versus dado, bakhtiyar or even Bisma's parenting.

I'm probably pushing it and nothing such will happen lol. The only thing I have been right about was the secret wedding.

I have been thinking that she will have a child with Ammar since the beginning, and it makes me puke .

I am not watching a show live again if that happens or will stick to lighthearted romcoms

Originally posted by: Alizba63

I think somewhere Ammar knows Nashwa is herself when she is not surrounded by the Barkat villa people. As much as he shows nothing affects him, I'm sure it does..a lot. He knows he measures up not an inch to either Nashwa and Burhan. Once again he is a second choice where he has no one. Not his parents or sister or dado or any friends to actually share anything. He never did. I see him letting her go. Or asking her to go eventually. But I think he will die during that.

I predicted weeks ago that bakhtiyar will do a secret nikkah for them. What I feel will happen is Ammar will be shown as not guilty.

I still don't know how they'll deal or explain with the drink and then dumping Mahi.

Ammar never sent any videos to her though. When he was sent to the other city, he didn't have his cellphone turned on. But no one can get out of how he said to Mahi that forget everything....what does he mean? He hung out with the same evil Friends. I'm waiting for the trial.

But he'll die. He'll die due to dado and Bakhtiyar's greed. Their building will collapse while he is there looking at construction. It will be such a makafat e amal.

The scene where his father is sitting looking at a child's picture on his lap...I think its after Ammar's death.

That's the Qarz on his dad and dado.

Originally posted by: Sunshine75

don’t judge me but if Amaar is not guilty, I will feel bad when he dies. Also I knew those videos were of Amaar and Maheen were comprising situations not from the day she got murdered.

Not judging.

Just to clarify, don't forgot amaar left Maheen to die in the middle of nowhere instead of taking her to the hospital. Their is no forgiveness for that

It’s a pity that QEJ has gone down this path. Nashwa chose secret nikah despite seeing her mother’s breakdown when Dado told her the news. It was pure distress. Bisma proceeded to tell Nashwa to leave the house. Marry anyone even with just a room or two but to get away. This news is going to Kill Bisma. Afterwards even if Nashwa is freed or Ammar is redeemed, I don’t know how Nashwa will let go of her guilt. It’s such a big burden. Even if they show her as “breaking the cycle”, it won’t have the same impact. Yumna is brilliant, but they butchered Nashwa’s character. Even Asim, Bijaan and Burhan. Instead of everyone acting all happy and carefree, they should have thought about the about turn in Bakhtiyar’s decision. I blame the team for this as they completely reduced this storyline to another run of the mill drama.

Originally posted by: Stormborn01

Also the parallel of Bisma becoming a widow at an early age and Nashwa becoming one too. There’s that as well that supports this theory.

Yup Nashwa is younger version of bisma. History is going to repeat itself. But i hope that nashwa gets her due happiness in young age unlike bisma