Sunn Mere Dil (GEO) #13 - Wahaj Ali, Maya Ali, Hira Mani - Page 17

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

I know Ammar is a despicable character but the marriage was also unfair to him cos Sadaf herself proposed him just to escape from Bilal and now when the reality would hit him, he won’t be able to tolerate it. That’s why the suicide attempt.

Even if Sadaf loved Bilal but still she never cheated on him..but he did cheat on her and mentally/physically abused her. She gave her 100% to her marriage but if she wanted to break off the marriage and wanted to go with Bilal,I dont feel it was wrong.

But the way everything was executed literally made Sadaf look bad and desperate..may be the main purpose was to confuse the viewers.

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

Even if Sadaf loved Bilal but still she never cheated on him..but he did cheat on her and mentally/physically abused her. She gave her 100% to her marriage but if she wanted to break off the marriage and wanted to go with Bilal,I dont feel it was wrong.

But the way everything was executed literally made Sadaf look bad and desperate..may be the main purpose was to confuse the viewers.

Their marriage itself was built on a lie .

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

For real though, that suicide pushing scene went on and on and on. It was uncomfortable to watch even if it was cleared up later that the pills were fake. I don’t blame her for telling him to just die when she realizes he’s trying to emotionally blackmail her but they focussed on the scene too much. In theory, I don’t take issue with the narrative. A guy who has victim mentality, never takes accountability and isn’t who he pretends to be , making fake threats to control those around him should be called out. The heavy focus on their conversation regarding the sleeping pills just made Sadaf look like a sadistic psycho. And then her showing sadness when he didn’t go through with it suggested that she really would have accepted it as a gesture of love.

This scene was very triggering n I honestly regret watching this show.Just a mth ago, there was news circulating about a 30-year-old man who was driven to suicide by a judge and his wife,along with similar cases that followed.It was horrifying to hear. So seeing this kind of storyline being normalized in the drama is beyond disturbing.I get that it’s fiction n I shouldn't take it so personally but if the antagonists were the ones involved,I’d at least understand it.But here it’s the female protagonist n that’s a hard pill to swallow.Your partner cheated so just slap a divorce in his face and move on!!!The last hour, I kept thinking about Sadaf’s character-her language n demeanor often reminds me of a bazaar aurat—is that how this character is written or is it Maya’s portrayal? I’m not sure but one thing’s for certain--I do NOT want to see this character riding off into the sunset with BA. Period.

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

Their marriage itself was built on a lie .

That marriage was a compromise which later turned into a toxic marriage for various reasons.

Originally posted by: arshi1983

This scene was very triggering n I honestly regret watching this show.Just a mth ago, there was news circulating about a 30-year-old man who was driven to suicide by a judge and his wife,along with similar cases that followed.It was horrifying to hear. So seeing this kind of storyline being normalized in the drama is beyond disturbing.I get that it’s fiction n I shouldn't take it so personally but if the antagonists were the ones involved,I’d at least understand it.But here it’s the female protagonist n that’s a hard pill to swallow.Your partner cheated so just slap a divorce in his face and move on!!!The last hour, I kept thinking about Sadaf’s character-her language n demeanor often remind me of a bazaar aurat—is that how this character is written or is it Maya’s portrayal? I’m not sure but one thing’s for certain--I do NOT want to see this character riding off into the sunset with BA. Period.

This entire show was problematic ...if we start counting the no of problematic stuffs that has been shown in this drama than I feel we would lost the count..and I feel most of the geo dramas are based on problematic stuffs....

Sadaf never really respected Ammar-she’s been calling the shots and putting him down from the very beginning.When there’s no respect,the relationship’s basically done.The whole marriage was a joke.Yes,she tried to make it work after they got married and acted like she was fine but how long can you keep faking it?She’s hands down one of the most toxic and unlikeable female protagonists I’ve ever come across.

Originally posted by: arshi1983

Sadaf never really respected Ammar-she’s been calling the shots and putting him down from the very beginning.When there’s no respect,the relationship’s basically done.The whole marriage was a joke.Yes,she tried to make it work after they got married and acted like she was fine but how long can you keep faking it?She’s hands down one of the most toxic and unlikeable female protagonists I’ve ever come across.

Bilal would have to be a total doormat otherwise their relationship won't survive too

Originally posted by: arshi1983

Sadaf never really respected Ammar-she’s been calling the shots and putting him down from the very beginning.When there’s no respect,the relationship’s basically done.The whole marriage was a joke.Yes,she tried to make it work after they got married and acted like she was fine but how long can you keep faking it?She’s hands down one of the most toxic and unlikeable female protagonists I’ve ever come across.

I agree with you...that was the exact reason no one felt any character chemistry between bilal and sadaf because there is so much character imbalance....bilal is so angelic(though he is flawed) but sadaf is straightaway toxic/unlikeable...I think I have said this here before there was not a single likeable thing in her character...like there is a difference between dumb character and unlikeable character.

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

Bilal would have to be a total doormat otherwise their relationship won't survive too

The respect is there in Sadaf's love for Bilal which was missing for that with ammar.

And the audacity of the makers to promote the show using just the final episode scenes and end credits is utterly infuriating--this is completely disrespectful to the audience. IMO, the biggest culprit of this show is the captain of this drama-Haseeb Hassan!