Just watched the episode and read some comments here.
My take: What is Megha and Surender 's problem with Arjun exactly, I did not understand. He left her there for her safety and she and her family know Arjun very well and that his love for megha is unconditional. Why can't they let him work? He already told her he would be busy. They are making him shuttle to Amritsar without any sleep so many times. And the way megha spoke to him when he came back.. what was that? How quickly they judge him and jump to conclusions about him! He doesn't come to the hospital because of work and these people quickly conclude that he has made her a chodi hui aurat?! Are they mad ?đĄ At least Arjun came up with a solution to keep her safe. What did mahaan megha do except cry out Arjun whenever she was attacked? How does she plan to keep herself safe from buji?
I am completely against Arha manipulating the families into accepting the baby. But when Arjun convinced Surender the other day, I felt he was trying to convince and not manipulate him. From Arjun's dialogues I understood why he accepted the baby in the first place. Because he just wants to see Megha happy and couldn't see her in pain. He personally doesn't have any interest in Manoj's baby but his love for megha is much bigger than this decision. He compromised for megha is what I understand and it's fine. So, I watched it from Arjun's lens and understood his pov wrt the child.
I completely agree it is the husband's duty to stand by his wife as she is all alone without his support in the sasural. But I also feel that doesn't give her the right to make stupid ott decisions and force them on the husband and the families on both sides. First Megha emotionally blackmailed Arjun to accept the pregnancy before the fire track. I felt he was forced by her words and actions into accepting it but he did it with a whole heart. Now, Arha are emotionally blackmailing the families to accept the child. EB doesn't work in Talwar family mainly for buji and KP. So what choice was Arjun left with? He wanted to leave with Megha, she doesn't agree! He has to drop her at her home.. what choice is left?
Megha is the reason behind Arjun's fights with his family. She and her ott unreasonable expectations from the Talwars are the reason for his decision to leave her in Amritsar. But she feels so entitled that she feels it's all Arjun's fault! Hadd hai! Why doesn't she take responsibility for her actions and decision to keep the child? What else in the form of support is she expecting from Arjun? I agree it's her body but she is not the only one who will be involved in bringing up the child. It's a family decision. Marriage and kids are not decisions that can be made by just the couple involved let alone just the mother or father. Normally, entire families are involved in raising them. Here no one is interested in this kid except Manoj and his parents
.. for me, Arjun also only compromised for megha. How is the mahaan megha who is saying in the precap also mera baccha, mera baccha planning to raise it without anyone's support? Again lashing out at Arjun is her favorite pass time. Blame it on the harmones đđĄ
Yaar! This show is going in circles and not going towards any conclusion of this bewaars track. I find so many things wrong and manipulative that it's becoming unbearable now.
Ps: I also feel this is not a normal child! Syapa hai aur pura Manoj niklega, dekh lena! And what is that attachment with the product of so much trauma? I cannot understand megha and her mamta.. phew! Going over my head
Again I will say my question goes to Arjun......
Love and support to wife is a different aspect at the same time making her aware about her own role and responsibilities is equally important.....he lacks it.....
One more thing which I don't like about him is emotional manipulation..... though Arha is good but still the way they have created their bond from the point she was married and now this child in their love story, he doesn't see anything other than what he wants which is not like a man.....a strong guy and narrative would have been if Arjun Megha ki help karta lekin pyaar process mein time leke hota tab woh hugs bhi bahut feel dete hain....
I will not watch episode looking at what you both wrote I feel like ek track aayega jisme bataayenge she was mentally ill thora improvement aaya tha so we arranged marriage now again she is getting her attacks let's admit....this is how MB will end with Arjun carrying Manoj ka bachcha and Arman endgame......ho sakta hai ye BL drama nikle.....
yaar sach bolu SP dramas jyaada cool lag rhe hain.....
.. for me, Arjun also only compromised for megha. How is the mahaan megha who is saying in the precap also mera baccha, mera baccha planning to raise it without anyone's support? Again lashing out at Arjun is her favorite pass time. Blame it on the harmones đđĄ
....not even interested to watch even Arha for now