Originally posted by: Sajini235
Well, dude. Let me tell you, I have watched YHM continuously till ishita's miscarriage happened, sometimes after that and I was a huge fan of the show. I liked DT & KP & specially our little Ruhinika's acting a lot. I loved that show but that doesn't stop me from accepting the fact that Raman was an extremely toxic person, while I find rajat is toned down in many aspects. With ishita's kind and forgiving nature, raman got away with lot of bluders just by saying a simple sorry without any consequences. Be it hiding adi's accident truth, doubting on her for having an affair with mani (that bracelet thing, the way he behaved with ishita after that award function in the night which romi's accident happened - that was really disgusting), blaming her for rinki's marriage blunder, also blaming her for rinki's insecurities regarding her marriage with mihir after mihika returned after getting saved from ashok - after that reunion party with ishita's colleges, he literally asked her to leave the house.....there could be many more but my memory is fading now as it was many years ago...Also Do you remember ishita herself told this after ruhi came back from jail after sohil-nidhi blunder and left bhalla house with ruhi and pihu?
About this scene, I clearly remember how raman was shouting his lungs out that he didn't do anything wrong but he was helpless, while I believe both raman and rajat brought this upon them by themselves while both ishita and savi were extremely supportive when it comes to adi and kiaan respectively. I remember how raman kept pushing away ishita harshly till her last attempt when she tried to take him inside and how he was breaking things around while that anger should be ishita's.
I am not saying that rajat is dhooth ka dhula but till now, I accept that rajat is toned down than raman which I appreciate. I still don't know how this scene will play out completely but according to the clip which I saw where rajat is kneeled down before savi with folded hands, I felt that he is apologizing instead of shouting out his lungs. That's it.
Anyways, that is my opinion and I expressed that. You expressed yours. Everyone has the right to express their own opinions and that's okay. But don't blame that we don't like or haven't watched OG that's why this or that...I have watched OG and I was a huge fan of the show once. But that doesn't stop me from accepting that raman was such a toxic ML.
Where did I blame you? And what's the need for such huge explanation? You said that Rajat is apologizing while Raman did not..That's why I corrected you. And when did Raman push away Ishita? He didn't let Ishita help him till the end of the scene. That's true. But you worded it in the wrong way I feel. Even after Ishita took him inside, he asked Ishita not to misunderstand him because she doesn't know the entire truth yet..He was definitely guilty, and in that entire scene, he was angry with himself, not with Ishita or anyone else. Throughout the scene, he kept saying that he must be the worst man in the world for betraying a woman like Ishita..If you think that was attitude, it's your subjective opinion, not a fact.
And secondly why even talk about things that happened so many epis later..Ghum still hasn't reached that stage yet right
So you cannot bring those things for Rajat vs Raman comparison. There are so many scenes where Rajat screamed at Savi whereas in og Raman did not. But those scenes are conveniently forgotten by ghum fans
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