Originally posted by: Krinya
My dear dear friend š§”
I'm that kinda person who would never like to keep grudges ..at the same time I can't deal with negativity at all ..if somebody has a problem with me , I naturally keep a distance from them..I don't try and make them fall in love with me š specially the relatives/ in laws relatives . Coz these are the people our life basically revolves around..they carry the max jealousy , selfishness & animosity , whether they show it or not....I'm not generalizing , I'm not saying all are like that, but I guess one can be a pretty good judge of character around those who openly act hostile. Like ruhi does. Like vidya does.
Here we are talking about women like ruhi and vidya . Whenever I bring this up , I'm told abhira craves for a big family, she does it for arman , and now she's facing mental trauma due to bullying and she thinks it's all normal ..why can't we just say what they're showing is problematic ? every single aspect of this show is , including bhabhi jeth ema , ruhis plotting , vidyas shrap ..We're just calling it out . But who will call it out in the show ?
The moment behna tag was put on ruhi, abhira changed. If she encountered a woman like vidya in court , she would rip her apart but ghar pe ? . That's the problem..
On a side note , padosi show ki upma aunty ki life was not much different ..can we say she was under trauma or she suffered Stockholm syndrome ? Phemily phemily phemily bolke , every person around her is traumatized bec of her but she's still a victim dukhyari orat ? Aise kaise chalta hai ?
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