Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 16 Nov 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 39

Originally posted by: Vanyaa

Although I felt irritated Af with ruhi going to the some baba, but she was also being influenced by many incidents tbh.

Dadisa dhol nagada about waaris waaris, then those women saying stupid crap and obvio Vidya being herself saying I am lucky to be sons mother they will always be with me and when Ruru have a chand si beti toh doli m betha ke tata bye bye.

No doubt she got paranoid, who won't she can see herself that law Firm head position would go for a Male from the family, meanwhile charu had to do an internship in the beginning secretly, getting the head position is out of question for her.

And this paranoid state was shown later because if Ruhi had such thought of abortion based on gender won't she had done the test in the beginning itself.

Although Ruhi was wrong to get knowledge about child gender but other factors can't be ignored.

Toh abhira kyu insecure nhi huyi with waris and all baate pregnant toh voh b thina

Originally posted by: Anu234

Toh abhira kyu insecure nhi huyi with waris and all baate pregnant toh voh b thina

Didn't she got insecure with not having a baby when Vidya was taunting her everyday?

She literally was ready to die so that she could have a kid, which sounds something really great in terms of itv but in reality it sounds stupid as hell.

That is my favourite entertainment

Originally posted by: Vanyaa

Didn't she got insecure with not having a baby when Vidya was taunting her everyday?

She literally was ready to die so that she could have a kid, which sounds something really great in terms of itv but in reality it sounds stupid as hell.

Nhi she was sad enough that usko aur arman ko voh Khushi nhi milegi sochke ulte voh ruhi Rohit k liye kafi khush b thi and happy b. She could literally die because she did wanted to experience motherhood simple as that..jab se usko yeh pata chala she can't conceive toh she was heartbroken and when she got to know she is pregnant toh usko apna bacha chahiye tha jo usse ma kehkar bulaye she craved for that and when she got to know voh ma banne vali hei she didn't want to let go it haar moms aise hi sochte hei aise kahi problem k baad conceive karte hei toh they wouldn't able to let go of it.

Originally posted by: Anu234

Nhi she was sad enough that usko aur arman ko voh Khushi nhi milegi sochke ulte voh ruhi Rohit k liye kafi khush b thi and happy b. She could literally die because she did wanted to experience motherhood simple as that..jab se usko yeh pata chala she can't conceive toh she was heartbroken and when she got to know she is pregnant toh usko apna bacha chahiye tha jo usse ma kehkar bulaye she craved for that and when she got to know voh ma banne vali hei she didn't want to let go it haar moms aise hi sochte hei aise kahi problem k baad conceive karte hei toh they wouldn't able to let go of it.

I don't think har mom yahi sochi h there are many cases in which if mother's life is at risk then they go and terminate the pregnancy. And there is nothing wrong with that.

I didn't say Abheera wasn't happy about Ruhi pregnancy but in my perspective when Abheera was ready to endanger her life for this baby despite Armaan reluctance, she wanted to get some form of acceptance from Vidya. Obviously after a while you get attached to your kid but atleast initially it seemed to me she wanted the child so that she could get the acceptance from the mother in law who gave her shrap.

What made Ruhi say "your baby will snatch away my baby's rights" to Abhira? Was the much hatred for an unborn baby justified? Is is normal to say "Why u have to get pregnant when I got pregnant first?". What can be the possible justification of "you can't get pregnant because of your mother's karma", What factors made Ruhi destroy the sweater made for a baby?

Though I tried to avoid the discussion but can't for a long time, knowing Ruhi can never be wrong for some no matter how much malice, hatred, hypocrisy & self-victimization she carries with her. There will always and always be justification of her actions of hurting people with her words and actions. But still...there are times when I can't justify or I feel annoyed by my favorite character Abhira's actions knowing she has no malice still she has been wrong at times and nothing absolutely nothing can justify it.

I truly wish I had tendency to defend Abhira's actions & blame it on circumstances, trauma an harships she faced when she has been clearly wrong.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

What made Ruhi say "your baby will snatch away my baby's rights" to Abhira? Was the much hatred for an unborn baby justified? Is is normal to say "Why u have to get pregnant when I got pregnant first?". What can be the possible justification of "you can't get pregnant because of your mother's karma", What factors made Ruhi destroy the sweater made for a baby?

Though I tried to avoid the discussion but can't for a long time, knowing Ruhi can never be wrong for some no matter how much malice, hatred, hypocrisy & self-victimization she carries with her. There will always and always be justification of her actions of hurting people with her words and actions. But still...there are times when I can't justify or I feel annoyed by my favorite character Abhira's actions knowing she has no malice still she has been wrong at times and nothing absolutely nothing can justify it.

I truly wish I had tendency to defend Abhira's actions & blame it on circumstances, trauma an harships she faced when she has been clearly wrong.

Itni insecure hei na andar se khush thi voh jab abhira pregnant nhi ho sakti suna toh. Ab again khush hogi. Then come then again jalegi iss baat se when abhira will have her own kids. Yeh b keh rahi ki yeh Khushi toh muje rehne deti. Means what she want only her to be pregnant kya. Agar aage yeh baby bsp hua toh uske yeh Sara chillana chikna waste niklenge.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Sorry it was not specifically you but a general observation. Theories banana is fine but fixating on it leads to disappointment. Moreover a scene is interpreted in so many ways. Then camps fight over their interpretation whereas woh sab toh hota bhi nahi hai.

Episodes are straight and simple and honestly very interesting and entertaining

No need to say sorry! I know why you said it! And I agree to some extent! I was talking about it last night here in IF. People expect leads to be perfect all the time and want them to behave according to them. But that's not possible and it disappoints a lot of people! Every character has its arc and will go through things they are supposed to! I have read fan fiction that is way different than how the characters are supposed to be. But it is what it is. I think a lot of people use them as a coping mechanism too, to escape reality. And that blurs the line between fiction and reality. As I said the key is detachment! I am a hard-core bibliophile and write essays, interpretations, and stories for my enjoyment! So it's fun for me! And yes a scene can be interpreted in many ways! We, literature students, say that if Ravindranath or Shakespeare interprets their own stories in exams and explains them, they will be disqualified!

The writers are always coming up with plots that can satisfy both online and tv viewers and are unique and true to the characters! It's a huge job tbh and ITV doesn't give you much room for creativity and most of the characters overstay their potential leading to downfall! It's disappointing!

Originally posted by: Anu234

Itni insecure hei na andar se khush thi voh jab abhira pregnant nhi ho sakti suna toh. Ab again khush hogi. Then come then again jalegi iss baat se when abhira will have her own kids. Yeh b keh rahi ki yeh Khushi toh muje rehne deti. Means what she want only her to be pregnant kya. Agar aage yeh baby bsp hua toh uske yeh Sara chillana chikna waste niklenge.

@bold nahi khush toh nahi hogi but she might blame Armaan & Abhira more then her dear husband Rohit who has been cruel to her.

You know I don’t know how many can relate but episodes these days are very entertaining. It makes me look forward to what will happen. I don’t think they are toxic episodes.

I am not against making theories. Bana lo. Usse timepass hota hai but assuming ki WOHI sahi hai will lead to disappointment.