Annoying- The Main Leads - Page 4

Your questions are valid and logical but the thing is ITV mein logic ka koi kaam nahi hai. I have only one complaint about Abhira. Usko bachcha bhi chahiye and at the same time mahaan bhi banna hai. 😂 Her life and her baby's life are at risk but even in that situation she wants to show how selfless she is that's why she gave her injection to Ruhi. 😂 She became an emotional fool and mahaan for a wrong person like Ruhi. I somehow hoped Abhira's child will somehow survive because of the extra care she must have taken during her pregnancy and Ruhi will suffer a miscarriage because of all the stress she took (I am not saying she deserved a miscarriage though). It's unfortunate that Abhira suffered miscarriage.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Abhira ki ' mathaji" willingly admitted that she "accidentally " killed Arohi.

Who asked her to do that , " manslaughter " it is in the eyes of law ....pagal aurat

I was a supporter of Akshara most of the time but towards end , I couldn’t tolerate her " stupidity " any more...I flipped a way too late

Ruhi that time 6 yr old , who witnessed her Poppy leaving her , her Mom's death and her father was always a picture thanks to " Massi"

Now this show they are showing Ruhi a mother who knows her baby is not dead , she can feel it...She can feel her baby !

Where as Abhira can't feel any thing that no connection to her BSP who is already gone ...Her husband acts weird 😐 ...Seriously Ruhi is really centre of the drama now ...

If DKP feels Ruhi 's melt down and pain brings more TRP he might focus on her . At the end it is a business ...

Ruhi rocks for now ..first time witnessing a PL who is crazy 🤪, mentally weak , immature and temperamental but slowly becoming the main focus and star of the show .

In short " Ruhiza rocks" ...Great work Garv .

I am not a blind fan of any character or actor . I was critical of Ruhi many times earlier but now she is the one suffering thanks to 2 brothers

Akshara ended & destroyed way too many lives & didn't even pay for it properly,the only satisfaction I got is when she died in that hospital with no one by her bed & knowing that she was still hated by her fam,that was her karma for me.

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

me too,I liked Akshara in the beginning but ever since she took that irrational decision of taking Neil with her to rescue the kids which eventually killed him,it started hating her,like she kept taking one bad decision after the other & ultimately completely destroyed Ruhi's family,that's why I'll always sympathize with Ruhi,she was robbed off her happy fam all thanks to Abhira's amma & honestly after all this why even expect Ruhi to like Abhira or behave sisterly with her is beyond me.

Akshara ended & destroyed way too many lives & didn't even pay for it properly,the only satisfaction I got is when she died in that hospital with no one by her bed & knowing that she was still hated by her fam,that was her karma for me.

I still supported AK until the very end , when she agreed to marry Abhi again I was so done .

What was the entire drama then she could have made another visit to AbhiM while she was carrying Abhir could have explained in person Abhi also lost he lost a lot his brother 😢 ....Could have patched up that time, she changed biological father's name too..

She was not shown crying for Neil.much there was not much regret , Akshara with ger stupid decisions finished of too many lives esp her "foolish actions " wiped off Ruhi's entire family .Never seen a FL getting so much hatred like AK ...It was ridiculous 🙄

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

I still supported AK until the very end , when she agreed to marry Abhi again I was so done .

What was the entire drama then she could have made another visit to AbhiM while she was carrying Abhir could have explained in person Abhi also lost he lost a lot his brother 😢 ....Could have patched up that time, she changed biological father's name too..

She was not shown crying for Neil.much there was not much regret , Akshara with ger stupid decisions finished of too many liuves esp her "foolish actions " wiped off Ruhi's entire family .Never seen a FL getting so much hatred like AK ...It was ridiculous 🙄

Yeah hats off to the makers for the most discussed character , and this wd incident must be written in gold , iski toh debate khatam hi nai hoti. Aisa ek aur track likh de toh yrkkh ka pata nai but forum will stay at #1 .

Originally posted by: Krinya

Yeah hats off to the makers for the most discussed character , and this wd incident must be written in gold , iski toh debate khatam hi nai hoti. Aisa ek aur track likh de toh yrkkh ka pata nai but forum will stay at #1 .

AK was a " very special character " ...very difficult to create again ...

If AK had been the DIL of Poddar ...it would have been very entertaining 🤣 😀

Originally posted by: nancy56

Hi!

I was here almost an year ago writing fanfictions.(which I discontinued after the ML replacment)

I have continued watching the show ever since. I had always found it bland, with a constant evolving change in both Abhira and Armaan's character.

Still, Armaan's character took a cheezy turn when he became head over heels in love with Abhira. But it still didn't feel that he could take independent decisions to just take a different place and live a peaceful life with his wife, when his mother was bullshitting her.

But what has been truly blasphemous for this Gen was Abhira's change into a self sacrifical lamb. She has almost 0 self respect left. How could she take her mother being called a murderer lightly? Why does she want Ruhi to be her sister that bad? She is 23-24, and still she is going bat shit crazy to be a mother. And then taking all the BS from her MIL. I remember OG Abhimaan. The way she called out the slightest of the inconvenience.

What a character assasination!

But still it's ITV. I could digest it.

But then the kid swap.

Since past 3 days my blood boils seeing Abhira act all mommy.

Not her fault. I know. But man she is unbearable to watch.

I should not waste my time writing about the cascade that bought this result. The two brothers deciding horribly. And if Armaan really wanted things to go right, he could have told Abhira in Rohit's absence.

But atleast seeing him in remorse is making me feel good.

Because Ruhi isn't dead.

She can get up any time. And for god's sake there is something called prognosis. Not every coma means a lifetime

Plus. Now elaborating about my annoyance on seeing Abhira stems from the fact that she isn't at all inquisitive about the size of her baby. Every dumb ass knows a baby born at 7th month is very early preterm. And is kept in NICU. And here she is parading a big ass baby in her arms.

Plus, she is asking Armaan to talk to the doctor. If I was her, I would have rushed to the hospital. I would have tried hard to know the do's and don't's.

It's just that her behavious is abysmal. And she has gone so blind.

Her husband is looking f**ked. He won't hold the baby. He won't touch it. Ask him why?

I know. This is a serial. But the way she is going baby this baby that. And cracking her nonsense one liners when her husband is just cracked up.

If this were an adopted child- raised by Armaan and Abhira as their own- it would have been beautiful to see.

I still remember the dream sequence in which Armaan imagined telling Abhira the truth. When she started wailing for the child like crazy.

With that kiddish perception of his wife, what will they actually ever do in life?

Where is the strong Abhira?

And for God's sake she got pregnant. Means she isn't infertile.

Maybe she is Anemic or has some hypertension or thyroid issues. That is why she had an intrauterine fetal death.

Instead of making her strong enough to bear a pregnancy in the future. These f*ckers are playing mind games.

Hi , I remember you had posted long back saying you like Abhira for being outspoken.

And I do get your point but I feel you are being too hard on Abhira. Like you, even I miss that fearless, fierce, firecracker Abhira too. She used to be so outspoken and now she is this softer, sacrificial, subdued version. But people evolve, I think this is part of her character journey and she has still got that fire inside her, it is just that there is so much emotional toll she is under. Back to back, something or the other kept happening.

But how is Abhira at fault for loving her child? it is Armaan and Rohit who failed her by hiding the truth, didn't give her the chance to hold her baby and grieve .

Why should your blood boil seeing Abhira acting all mommy? According to her, She is that child's mother, right? She (and Roohi) is the victim here. They have been lied to by their husbands (even if the intention was not wrong)

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

me too,I liked Akshara in the beginning but ever since she took that irrational decision of taking Neil with her to rescue the kids which eventually killed him,it started hating her,like she kept taking one bad decision after the other & ultimately completely destroyed Ruhi's family,that's why I'll always sympathize with Ruhi,she was robbed off her happy fam all thanks to Abhira's amma & honestly after all this why even expect Ruhi to like Abhira or behave sisterly with her is beyond me.

Akshara ended & destroyed way too many lives & didn't even pay for it properly,the only satisfaction I got is when she died in that hospital with no one by her bed & knowing that she was still hated by her fam,that was her karma for me.

My main issue was that as they start showing her stupid decisions actually kills ppl.

First it started with anisha where instead of informinh abhimanyu to handle his unstable sister she chose to inform kairav and anisha died as kairav could not control the situation where as if abhimanyu was involved shayad anisha bach jathi. I still let that go as i felt its just a track.

Later makers started doing this over and over again

1. Akshara took neil to rescue strangers with her unborn babies end result her one twin died , neil died. She tags it as mistake where she could not wait for 10 minutes as per information provided by police.

2. Akshara jailed abhimanyu even after knowing he can not commit murder. Kya patha abhinav bach jatha us din but her mistake killed him that day.

3. Arohi death par bhi stupif mistake hi tha. She remembered to save her baby by not running towards arohi. But she had not brain to call arohi to say hato gaadi arahi hai. She did all circus to kill arohi ultimately 🤷‍♀️🙃

@firewings_diya

@Sneha.Narayanan

@Krinya

@Rosh4rose

@Life_Is_Dutiful

I feel my annoyance on Abhira isn't a one day thing.

A lot of you are offended by me- as I try to express my perspective as an audience. Yes, it's irritating me, that I have to watch a woman- who is educated- get so easily spun, in the family dynamics of a family that is archaic in its thinking.

I guess, it started the day she started to poach Vidya to accept her and Armaan's marraige, even when her own husband wanted to move out.

Then she kept quiet like a saint when Armaan ignored the f*ck out of her in the initial days without actually shoving some lecture down his throat. Because he eventually came around. Even when his mother was continuing with her ar$ehole behaviour.

Rather than proving her worth as a woman, she got herself into believing the infertility crap. In what time are we living in?

And there was a point when the doctor said that she isn't medically fit to bear a pregnancy. That doesn't mean infertile.

That means you are having some medical disorder that will make u'r baby die in uterus or get born as a defective piece. Or maybe you can face deadly complications as a mother.

That isn't infertile.

Because she got pregnant with first sex. 100% fecundity. Even normal people can't afford that.

Still her MIL kept on behaving like shit. Even when she was with a child.

And then our dear Abhira is all about "this child will win Armaan his mother"

I really wanna puke!

She completely overlooked the real problem. Instead of focusing on the real issue, on whatever medical condition that prevailed in her body, she decided to get pregnant in consciousness, agreeing to a dying wish. Leaving her husband and child alone if it were to happen.

While going in labour, she was like "baby ko bachchana"

People who actually just want to give birth to mend relationships shouldn't get pregnant.

Because a baby isn't a toy.

Being a parent isn't a joke.

With all this built up annoyance, I proceeded to watch the whole kid swap track.

It has made the situation just more sick.

Armaan should do Abhira a favor. He should tell her the real deal and then go for therapy with her. In no sense these 2 had any idea why someone wants a child.

It's like a silly teenage wish fulfillment.

I wish I wasn't this brutal while writing this.

I can't help it's my perception.

Originally posted by: nancy56

@firewings_diya

@Sneha.Narayanan

@Krinya

@Rosh4rose

@Life_Is_Dutiful

I feel my annoyance on Abhira isn't a one day thing.

A lot of you are offended by me- as I try to express my perspective as an audience. Yes, it's irritating me, that I have to watch a woman- who is educated- get so easily spun, in the family dynamics of a family that is archaic in its thinking.

I guess, it started the day she started to poach Vidya to accept her and Armaan's marraige, even when her own husband wanted to move out.

Then she kept quiet like a saint when Armaan ignored the f*ck out of her in the initial days without actually shoving some lecture down his throat. Because he eventually came around. Even when his mother was continuing with her ar$ehole behaviour.

Rather than proving her worth as a woman, she got herself into believing the infertility crap. In what time are we living in?

And there was a point when the doctor said that she isn't medically fit to bear a pregnancy. That doesn't mean infertile.

That means you are having some medical disorder that will make u'r baby die in uterus or get born as a defective piece. Or maybe you can face deadly complications as a mother.

That isn't infertile.

Because she got pregnant with first sex. 100% fecundity. Even normal people can't afford that.

Still her MIL kept on behaving like shit. Even when she was with a child.

And then our dear Abhira is all about "this child will win Armaan his mother"

I really wanna puke!

She completely overlooked the real problem. Instead of focusing on the real issue, on whatever medical condition that prevailed in her body, she decided to get pregnant in consciousness, agreeing to a dying wish. Leaving her husband and child alone if it were to happen.

While going in labour, she was like "baby ko bachchana"

People who actually just want to give birth to mend relationships shouldn't get pregnant.

Because a baby isn't a toy.

Being a parent isn't a joke.

With all this built up annoyance, I proceeded to watch the whole kid swap track.

It has made the situation just more sick.

Armaan should do Abhira a favor. He should tell her the real deal and then go for therapy with her. In no sense these 2 had any idea why someone wants a child.

It's like a silly teenage wish fulfillment.

I wish I wasn't this brutal while writing this.

I can't help it's my perception.

Well I am with you, everyone have right ti give their opinion and other's have right to suggest only.

In above case you are right you gave you honest opinion what you felt in recent days.

Some people are right because they are suggesting that loving her own child us not a blood spoiling point or they are saying that every mother are same naturally and they love their child so much that their pain can't be explained in words if their child wouldn't survie ni matter the child is 69 years old or 1 days old or premature.

And yes,Abhira became mahan by giving injection but people already told that's also mot ignorable that her delivery was after 2 months and she gave it to her sister because she needed most.

And I GUESS it's everyine's frustration from every character but we can't find good words by that no one will get offend and out talk is also in a right way happen.

But I guess some people are totally wrong who jugmdge you instead of suggesting you and instead of taking it as a pov of one perosn taking it persnal and questioning you,They have right to suggest review but not to ask or questions why you write this.

Bella Ciao.

Originally posted by: nancy56

@firewings_diya

@Sneha.Narayanan

@Krinya

@Rosh4rose

@Life_Is_Dutiful

I feel my annoyance on Abhira isn't a one day thing.

A lot of you are offended by me- as I try to express my perspective as an audience. Yes, it's irritating me, that I have to watch a woman- who is educated- get so easily spun, in the family dynamics of a family that is archaic in its thinking.

I guess, it started the day she started to poach Vidya to accept her and Armaan's marraige, even when her own husband wanted to move out.

Then she kept quiet like a saint when Armaan ignored the f*ck out of her in the initial days without actually shoving some lecture down his throat. Because he eventually came around. Even when his mother was continuing with her ar$ehole behaviour.

Rather than proving her worth as a woman, she got herself into believing the infertility crap. In what time are we living in?

And there was a point when the doctor said that she isn't medically fit to bear a pregnancy. That doesn't mean infertile.

That means you are having some medical disorder that will make u'r baby die in uterus or get born as a defective piece. Or maybe you can face deadly complications as a mother.

That isn't infertile.

Because she got pregnant with first sex. 100% fecundity. Even normal people can't afford that.

Still her MIL kept on behaving like shit. Even when she was with a child.

And then our dear Abhira is all about "this child will win Armaan his mother"

I really wanna puke!

She completely overlooked the real problem. Instead of focusing on the real issue, on whatever medical condition that prevailed in her body, she decided to get pregnant in consciousness, agreeing to a dying wish. Leaving her husband and child alone if it were to happen.

While going in labour, she was like "baby ko bachchana"

People who actually just want to give birth to mend relationships shouldn't get pregnant.

Because a baby isn't a toy.

Being a parent isn't a joke.

With all this built up annoyance, I proceeded to watch the whole kid swap track.

It has made the situation just more sick.

Armaan should do Abhira a favor. He should tell her the real deal and then go for therapy with her. In no sense these 2 had any idea why someone wants a child.

It's like a silly teenage wish fulfillment.

I wish I wasn't this brutal while writing this.

I can't help it's my perception.

Most of the names you have stated aren't even Abhira fans, so i doubt they are offended

Like I said, it is natural to feel frustrated with characters when they seem different from who they used to be. But to me, Abhira’s evolution feels realistic, though sometimes I don't connect with her. Even I liked initial outspoken version more. But for me, that doesn’t make her weaker.

Do i like this version? Honestly, not as much as the initial Abhira, but that abhira and this abhira have seen a very different life. That firecracker Abhira led a cushioned , protected life with her mother whereas this Abhira in one year, saw the death of her mother by her Stalker, on her wedding day got married to an almost stranger, was hated by his family members, and so much more, recently came to know her sister in law who was obsessed with her husband (once upon a time) is now her sister, got a whole new family of 3 senior citizens, that same day got to know her mother is perceived as a murderer. Something or else is happening every day, that girl hasn't got a breather.

Even the strongest, most outspoken people go through phases where they feel vulnerable or make sacrifices for their loved ones. Life can soften or challenge us in unexpected ways, and I think that is what is happening with Abhira. She is still the same person inside, but the struggles she has faced have brought out a new side of her, the subdued version.

Yes the baby swap track is horrible, but here also it is not her fault.

It is completely fine if you can't relate to her. We can agree to disagree.