Annoying- The Main Leads - Page 3

Originally posted by: nancy56

Hi!

I was here almost an year ago writing fanfictions.(which I discontinued after the ML replacment)

I have continued watching the show ever since. I had always found it bland, with a constant evolving change in both Abhira and Armaan's character.

Still, Armaan's character took a cheezy turn when he became head over heels in love with Abhira. But it still didn't feel that he could take independent decisions to just take a different place and live a peaceful life with his wife, when his mother was bullshitting her.

But what has been truly blasphemous for this Gen was Abhira's change into a self sacrifical lamb. She has almost 0 self respect left. How could she take her mother being called a murderer lightly? Why does she want Ruhi to be her sister that bad? She is 23-24, and still she is going bat shit crazy to be a mother. And then taking all the BS from her MIL. I remember OG Abhimaan. The way she called out the slightest of the inconvenience.

What a character assasination!

But still it's ITV. I could digest it.

But then the kid swap.

Since past 3 days my blood boils seeing Abhira act all mommy.

Not her fault. I know. But man she is unbearable to watch.

I should not waste my time writing about the cascade that bought this result. The two brothers deciding horribly. And if Armaan really wanted things to go right, he could have told Abhira in Rohit's absence.

But atleast seeing him in remorse is making me feel good.

Because Ruhi isn't dead.

She can get up any time. And for god's sake there is something called prognosis. Not every coma means a lifetime

Plus. Now elaborating about my annoyance on seeing Abhira stems from the fact that she isn't at all inquisitive about the size of her baby. Every dumb ass knows a baby born at 7th month is very early preterm. And is kept in NICU. And here she is parading a big ass baby in her arms.

Plus, she is asking Armaan to talk to the doctor. If I was her, I would have rushed to the hospital. I would have tried hard to know the do's and don't's.

It's just that her behavious is abysmal. And she has gone so blind.

Her husband is looking f**ked. He won't hold the baby. He won't touch it. Ask him why?

I know. This is a serial. But the way she is going baby this baby that. And cracking her nonsense one liners when her husband is just cracked up.

If this were an adopted child- raised by Armaan and Abhira as their own- it would have been beautiful to see.

I still remember the dream sequence in which Armaan imagined telling Abhira the truth. When she started wailing for the child like crazy.

With that kiddish perception of his wife, what will they actually ever do in life?

Where is the strong Abhira?

And for God's sake she got pregnant. Means she isn't infertile.

Maybe she is Anemic or has some hypertension or thyroid issues. That is why she had an intrauterine fetal death.

Instead of making her strong enough to bear a pregnancy in the future. These f*ckers are playing mind games.

Agree

That idiot AR must tell truth and Abhira must get " treatment " so that can conceive agian

Strong Abhira

Yes husband has no affection towards the newly born and Abira has no doubt seriously...

Yes dumbest of the dumb will.know the difference with premature and term baby.

What right these two brothers have to do this knid of stupidity...

First time seeing a show totally dedicated to the PL ...Ruhi steals the show now a days

Originally posted by: nancy56

When I said Kiddish perception, I was talking about Armaan.

She could have loved the child as a tai/massi.

But Armaan fearing Abhira's outburst, when it's obviously her child who has died, and keeping the truth from her isn't mature.

If she had the guts to carry on a difficult pregnancy- then she should be told of the real outcome. She should be immune atleast in some form to accept an anticipated truth.

Her statement of "main sadme main chali jaati"

And Armaan's consensus of Abhira's reaction made me believe that both of them actually never were prepared for a complicated pregnancy.

Keeping Abhira in dark is pathetic.

If they had told her the whole deal, it could have been a good watch.

Plus, as I am in the final year of my MBBS, it's hard to see such a bad representation of medical expertise in this serial.

Believe me when I say, that people see many miscarriages, and still carry on to bear another child, without going crazy. (When they have a good idea that the outcome of a risky pregnancy can be severe)

Yes when Abhira an adult took the decision to continue a difficult pregnancy she should be able to face the consequences..

Dooth peethi bachi hai kya

Originally posted by: nancy56

When I said Kiddish perception, I was talking about Armaan.

She could have loved the child as a tai/massi.

But Armaan fearing Abhira's outburst, when it's obviously her child who has died, and keeping the truth from her isn't mature.

If she had the guts to carry on a difficult pregnancy- then she should be told of the real outcome. She should be immune atleast in some form to accept an anticipated truth.

Her statement of "main sadme main chali jaati"

And Armaan's consensus of Abhira's reaction made me believe that both of them actually never were prepared for a complicated pregnancy.

Keeping Abhira in dark is pathetic.

If they had told her the whole deal, it could have been a good watch.

Plus, as I am in the final year of my MBBS, it's hard to see such a bad representation of medical expertise in this serial.

Believe me when I say, that people see many miscarriages, and still carry on to bear another child, without going crazy. (When they have a good idea that the outcome of a risky pregnancy can be severe)

@bold in a similar situation Naira was given dialogue "main mar jati" instead of dialogue like main sadme main chali jaati. Abhira prioritized baby's life over her life, she always told Armaan to choose bsp over her (which is obviously plain stupidity), so such dialogues complement with her thinking process.

@red agreed.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold in a similar situation Naira was given dialogue "main mar jati" instead of dialogue like main sadme main chali jaati. Abhira prioritized baby's life over her life, she always told Armaan to choose bsp over her (which is obviously plain stupidity), so such dialogues complement with her thinking process.

@red agreed.

It's her wish to continue with a life threatening pregnancy but she has no control over the outcome.. it cud go either ways ..in her case the possibility of losing the child or her life was very high .....ye kaisi zid hai ke bacha chahiye nai toh I'm dead ? Ruhi ki jagah main hoti dialogue was out of place .

What really makes her so emotional about it ? A yr bk she didn't want a baby till 2 yrs ..her priority was her career ....didn't show any emotion towards an orphan girl like arman did..how does it compliment her character ?

Originally posted by: Krinya

It's her wish to continue with a life threatening pregnancy but she has no control over the outcome.. it cud go either ways ..in her case the possibility of losing the child or her life was very high .....ye kaisi zid hai ke bacha chahiye nai toh I'm dead ?

What really makes her so emotional about it ? A yr bk she didn't want a baby till 2 yrs ..her priority was her career ....didn't show any emotion towards an orphan girl like arman did..how does it compliment her character ?

Abhira never liked the idea of woman being reduced to a baby making machine, therefore she opposed prenup, discussed about planning baby after two years with Armaan. But then she told Armaan before marriage, that she is willing to embrace motherhood, without a specific timeframe in her mind & they painted their perfect family with their child. When she was ready to embrace motherhood after marriage, she was told that she can never conceive. The pain of not being able to embrace motherhood "ever" is what made her more emotional towards the idea of having her own child. Women who aren't willing for baby planning too early even they somewhere want to have a child/children after years, so if any woman is told that she is infertile she will be devastated regardless of her inclination towards having children or not. Abhira prioritizing baby's life over her own life isn't jusifiable & is plain stupidity.

Originally posted by: Krinya

It's sad that one has to put up disclaimers like I dislike ruhi to put their point across 😕

Anyhow..very valid points raised & I'm frustrated for the same reason .

Abhira , arman , and the family must have anticipated the negative news ..they should be thankful to God that abhiras life was saved ..instead they're all acting like abhira will die if she knows the truth , and hence it becomes the main reason to continue with thus charade . Wasn't this the reason rohit handed over his baby to arman ?

Nothing wrong in showing affection towards the baby ..

But the bottom line is..when the story is in dumps , all chars act crazy , out of place and ridiculous at diff times , can't single out abhira ..her reactions are very much expected frm the fl of dkp.

@bold That's the thing which bothered me. I personally didn't like how both leads treating baby as a solution to family problems. Abhira wanted baby mostly because of armaan and family. She kept on saying, armaan your wish got fulfilled.

Say whatever but both leads are behaving too immature. They think a kid will solve all problems? They know about pregnancy complications. Not saying they should act normal or be ok with bad news. But atleast they could have been alert. Should have mentally prepared themselves that it's always 50-50 chances. In gen 2, baby death was shocking because there was not much complications in pregnancy except naira facing brain tumour. That's why baby death, his sister's accident everything was so shocking and unexpected for Karthik.

Originally posted by: Krinya

It's her wish to continue with a life threatening pregnancy but she has no control over the outcome.. it cud go either ways ..in her case the possibility of losing the child or her life was very high .....ye kaisi zid hai ke bacha chahiye nai toh I'm dead ? Ruhi ki jagah main hoti dialogue was out of place .

What really makes her so emotional about it ? A yr bk she didn't want a baby till 2 yrs ..her priority was her career ....didn't show any emotion towards an orphan girl like arman did..how does it compliment her character ?

@bold I think infertility played huge part. Everyone including her husband (unintentionally) treated her bad because of it. That's not her fault. But after armaan insisting her to abort child for her sake, she didn't listen. She stupidly thought baby will make everything better. Both leads not behaving like educated adults.

Abhira ki Amma herself confessed in front of the entire family that Arohi died due to her,still y'all act surprised if Ruhi believes it or resents Abhira due to the same reason?

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

Abhira ki Amma herself confessed in front of the entire family that Arohi died due to her,still y'all act surprised if Ruhi believes it or resents Abhira due to the same reason?

Abhira ki ' mathaji" willingly admitted that she "accidentally " killed Arohi.

Who asked her to do that , " manslaughter " it is in the eyes of law ....pagal aurat

I was a supporter of Akshara most of the time but towards end , I couldn’t tolerate her " stupidity " any more...I flipped a way too late

Ruhi that time 6 yr old , who witnessed her Poppy leaving her , her Mom's death and her father was always a picture thanks to " Massi"

Now this show they are showing Ruhi a mother who knows her baby is not dead , she can feel it...She can feel her baby !

Where as Abhira can't feel any thing that no connection to her BSP who is already gone ...Her husband acts weird 😐 ...Seriously Ruhi is really centre of the drama now ...

If DKP feels Ruhi 's melt down and pain brings more TRP he might focus on her . At the end it is a business ...

Ruhi rocks for now ..first time witnessing a PL who is crazy 🤪, mentally weak , immature and temperamental but slowly becoming the main focus and star of the show .

In short " Ruhiza rocks" ...Great work Garv .

I am not a blind fan of any character or actor . I was critical of Ruhi many times earlier but now she is the one suffering thanks to 2 brothers

Well I am agree with the writer of the post.

In past few days I also get annoyed while watching rishta.

First of all they are taking leap and make the story faster in the other side after or before leap there is no change seen all I can seen that leap is took for toxicity not for pregnancy.

Showing one hour drama in 10 epispdes then taking 3-4 momths leap,what's this method of direction.

I don't like the male leads nowdays and as thhe writer said I don't care about anything else.

Generation 2 was special because their was emotional sentiment sprinals of all these emotions perfectly with perfect story and direction.

Now once the team achieved all this then they ise all theur money in generation 3's grand scale and Anupama.

And To be honest I liked generation 3's grand scale so much that I myself feel greedy when they showing something very cheap quality editing and cheap songs,cheap vidoes, cheap dance seqence,cheap storyline, toxicity.

Well I am annoyed and bored by thsi serial long ago not jusg by pregnancy but when Armaan started his marriage with Ruhi.

Then Abhira's survial and all this drama.

And there is no redemption at all.

They are not working like let's take a good bollywood song,let's take a good previous generation songs,let's make own sonf for thus generation.

They are making studid dance seqence low quality and bufdering and insta reels famous songs.

And worst things are that their audience support them,that oh my god,Oue abhimaan looking handsome in that song,look at them.

Dude ien thing I wanna tell you not every insta reel's somgs is good.

And then the chapru dance and toxixity between dance,Ruhi,Abhira and Armaan's thought cathign between songs.

It's like they speak like a karan johar version.

And they liking their leads insta pics that have no connection with the show(reason,all actors upload pics on insta for a fanbase,and you are a rishta fan not any particular actors fan,and then seeing bts pics in 4k and saying this is abhimaan,this is stupidity)

Actors don't grow as a true nowdays but they are trying to get more and more money by ad shoot in insta and social media influencer.

And I support it but I don't support it when their fans use these bts pics and saying this is real abhiaman.

I mean Makers also using thar pics,remember Ruhi and Abhira's naath rasam bts pic.

In real episode it did not happen that they took a picture while smiling each other.

It's annoying to see such small but creep things.

Yrkkh 2 and 3 did not did these things and that's why I like that version of rishta and those generations because they were doing their full efforts not just doing acting.

They better day by day.

Well I hardly saw any bts of rishta 3 but in rishta 4 reels come in front of me by actors themself.