ARGHA DI WEDDING - Page 11

Originally posted by: Fats24

When Megha said she was fulfilling their friendship I wanted to ask her what was Arjun doing all this while for her? If this was not friendship then what was it? Just because he said he loves her doesn't mean his sacrifices should be forgotten. He not only took a bullet but risked his job for her. Whatever he did he did it selflessly and without any ulterior motives. But, this fatheaded girl will neither accept his sacrifices not will try to understand his feelings.

Sadly, noone will tell her. She's the FL and hence she's always right. But, one thing is very clear. Her behaviour is intolerable.

Originally posted by: Bibliophiles

@Dihiva, As I have already said, a few days back, since the start of this show Megha is shown to be living in her delusional bubble. She's straightaway delusional, when it comes to her opinion regarding Arjun.....I think, she's kind of arrogant girl who gives good guys a hard time, they can't digest the goodness in guys, they unintentionally provoke the guy to lose his temper, due to their constant nagging

And, regarding her dialogue that Megha ne dosti nibhaayi....It was again a plain delusional, baseless & a contradictory dialogue and a completely false narrative she has set in....She's top-notch delusion. It was laughworthy. Totally untrue...She's being like- "Apne muh miyan mitthu"Kind of gaslighting Arjun into believing that she's been a better friend, which is not at all the case
Half of the time she had trust issues with Arjun, her behaviour changes w.r.t Arjun on every odd & even days, behaving needlessly rude, harsh,arrogant & bratty with Arjun & most of the time in disrespectful tone. and even threatened to end their friendship several times.. She has hardly been a support system to Arjun even as a friend, as of now in the show. That's not what we call TRUE FRIENDSHIP, MISS MEGHA.Yet, her audacity to call herself a MAHAAN FRIENDS, sound plain hypocritical & delusional. No surprise, her delusional meter is high
And, coming to ARJUN- words won't suffice how great he has been as a support system to Megha, as a confidant, as a saviour. Arjun ne true & unconditional friendship nibhayi hai in all true sense, by being for damsel Megh each & every time she needed support, by saving her life innumerable times, standing like a pillar of strength, patiently bearing her insults. He was the one who actually did everything selflessly till this point.., he was the only one upholding something called a friendship between them This is what we call true friendship, it's actually ARJUN, jo dosti nibhata gaya

And, hearing such great lines from Megha- seems like, she's learnt incorrect definition of friendship, anywhere & she sounds delusional & haughty. It's infuriatingly comical line, that's it

@ Red - Exactly! Thank you for putting my thoughts in proper words. She is gaslighting Arjun and also the audience into believing and sympathizing with the great friend that she has been! Implying Arjun is not a good friend because he proposed marriage to her since he sincerely loves her. If this is a deliberate gas lighting being done by the makers, then we will be seeing a typical itv show sooner than we think.

Arjun is getting married for a reason it seems.. whatever the reason may be, the most important reason is that he loves her but this mahaan friend called Megha doesn't love him.. she was too busy being his friend, apparently.. He will definitely not force her into loving him after marriage. I hope Arjun gets to do his IAS job properly and runs after other brides in trouble after marriage. I want him to ignore Megha and do his work. Except ofcourse take care of her PTSD issues, for obvious reasons.. if you know what I mean. But seriously, he should show her to a psychiatrist.. ladki pehle hi pagal thi, ab Manoj ke torture ke baad she has totally lost it wrt Arjun.. nothing to take away from what all she suffered due to torture, I get that.. but thats no reason to behave this way with the only genuinely loving person in her life other than her family.

Originally posted by: Fats24

When Megha said she was fulfilling their friendship I wanted to ask her what was Arjun doing all this while for her? If this was not friendship then what was it? Just because he said he loves her doesn't mean his sacrifices should be forgotten. He not only took a bullet but risked his job for her. Whatever he did he did it selflessly and without any ulterior motives. But, this fatheaded girl will neither accept his sacrifices not will try to understand his feelings.

Exactly! Falling in love doesn't mean he did everything to that point for selfish reasons or that he is not a friend. Love encompasses friendship within it. Megha needs to understand the value of that friend Arjun who loves her now based on that friendship. Her definition of friendship is screwed up! Like Arjun said in the temple, she is a very closed person with a very limited perspective.. Kyun ho tum itni bandh!?

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Its actually a long description with simple message ......I don't want to make ghum come here....but as it was the only FL show (and now MB for Neil).... which I followed so what do I feel....

There was a FL who was helped from homeless state she lost her only parent and had nobody to call her own, over to that she was a true brat, a guy helped her out from that state he gave one sided love and efforts in marriage for almost 5-6 years without expecting anything just acceptance......he got doubted multiple times and insulted in MB, after mission and what not in Shruti, she don't used to understand his feelings when he was hurt of her closeness with a guy or shameless act like Amey.....just tell me was there even a single time, that show dedicated a track where they mentioned his life.....so how we can expect a show like MB where the guy is doing all these to get her love in the process, would be given even 1% importance.....

I just wanted to say in these shows if you are FL you are bechari and mahaan types even though you aren't but things don't get narrated other way round.....

If I said anything wrong then sorry but ITV is way centralised and biased.....

You said all that I always wanted to say in Virat's defence but everyone was always supportive of FL and never even gave a thought about what ML had to go through. Yes, he committed mistakes but so did FL but almost everyone everytime bashed ML.

And yes, it was not new. FLs are always shown mahaan in shows. Actually the can switch from being mahaan and dukhiyari when it suits to them but ML are always bashed, name called and shown weak.

To be honest, I didn't expect anything new from MB too. Abhi tak jo dikhaya hai usme clearly it would not have been possible for megha to get rid of manoj single-handedly. Arjun ne har kadam par help ki hai tabhi manoj se chhutkara mila hai lekin jab credit ki bari aayi to sherni banke credit pura kha gayi 😂🤣

And now taunting arjun of so many things and running their friendship and all.

Lekin wo jab arjun apna love confess karta hai wo wala scene aaya tha na and jab megha jyada hi bol rahi to arjun ne kaise chillaya tha us par ki main apne pyar mi beizzati nahi sahunga phir chahe samne tu hi kyu na ho...i wanted to clap at the scene and somewhere it gave me hope ki arjun ko baki shows ke ML ki tarah majboor lachar nahi dikhayege shayad. Wo ek hadh tak hi megha ko badtameezi bardasht karega. Fingers crossed 🤞 aisa hi ho.

Originally posted by: Dihiva

Ok, I wanted to ask you guys about this but it kept slipping from my mind for the past few days.

This is about when Megha confronted Arjun when his family came to ask for her hand in marriage.. she said, main hamaari dosti nibhaati gayi.. before the channa mereya played and Arjun turned back smiling..

What dosti is she talking about? What friendship did megha ever show towards Arjun when they had nothing to do with Manoj?

She took a stab for Arjun on her back which Arjun doesn't stop talking about but then he took a bullet for her in Georgia which she seems to have conveniently forgotten. I did not understand kaunsa dosti nibhaati gayi Megha Arjun ke saath?🤔.. and

how does she feels Arjun failed to uphold their friendship? when he is the one who actually did everything selflessly till this point.. though he is in love now, but until he realised his love for her, he was the only one upholding something called a friendship between them. Because as far as I have seen, she has always been extremely harsh and rude with him and threatened to end their friendship several times.. first at the tea stall, then when he unintentionally confessed his love, then again in the temple when Arjun asked if there was even a little chance for them. She has always felt entitled and put him down several times inspite of his relentless pursuit to maintain the friendship or now to marry her. I feel she has been very selfish when it came to Arjun and takes him for granted a little too much.

But what are your thoughts? Am I missing something? 🤔

You have covered it all.

And yes it's megha who should be blamed for ruining friendship and not arjun. Arjun pyar karta hai to kya megha kya kuch bhi bol sakti hai usko.

Abhi to arjun ki majburi hai shayad usko megha se shadi karni hai jaldi lekin iske baad i hope arjun ke wo tewar dekhne ko mile jo love confession wale din mile the...kya chillaya tha megha par🤣 hopefully arjun ko pyar mein andha na dikhakar ek sensible ML dikhaye to faltu ke FL ke tantrums nahi sehta rahe.

Originally posted by: Fats24

When Megha said she was fulfilling their friendship I wanted to ask her what was Arjun doing all this while for her? If this was not friendship then what was it? Just because he said he loves her doesn't mean his sacrifices should be forgotten. He not only took a bullet but risked his job for her. Whatever he did he did it selflessly and without any ulterior motives. But, this fatheaded girl will neither accept his sacrifices not will try to understand his feelings.

Megha ki narazgi samajh aati hai. Ye ekdum se shadi ka pressure uspar kuch jyada hi ho gaya. May be usko time diya jata to shayad itna over react nahi karti.

Lekin iska matlab ye bilkul nahi ki arjun ke ahsano ko bhulkar usko insult karti rahe. Abhi to arjun ki majburi hai he has to marry her but hopefully future mein wo apne self respect ke liye stand le.

Originally posted by: Bibliophiles

💯....I strongly second your opinion....these exact lines should get echoed loudly & clearly in Megha's delusional thick-headed brain & ears as well, by somebody in the show, pretty soon

It's high time,somebody in the show, must give the much needed reality check to her high opinion regarding Megha kinda friendship. Hence, clearing her facts & brushing away her entitled & haughty opinions.

Someone really needs to get facts clear regarding her distorted definition of friendship.

It's not friendship its relationship....she loves him and still runs away from reality....pain can be understood it's not an easy task to get rid of what all she had been through but at the same time it's equally important to move on and value the guy who needs to be valued.....

Atleast Arjun is true to his feeling not faking just friends because itna close to Raj Bhi Simran se nhi tha.....

Originally posted by: Fats24

MaMa itni jaldi aane se raha. Lekin mujhe lagta hai BuSi zyada khatarnak hai. Arjun ko bohot sambhal ke rehna parega. MaMa thora pagal tha isliye woh jaldi pakda gaya. Lekin yeh dono kab kya kar jaye pata nahi chalta. Sikandar ki nazar do taraf hai. Megha ko maarna chahta hai aur dusri taraf Rhea ke peeche pada hai .

Actually megha ke faltu ke tashan mein unko jo jaruri baatein karni chahiye uspar koi dhyan hi nahi de raha. They should be talking about buji's problematic behaviour and sikandar's harkate and how will these two be handled if both the families are getting involved

Originally posted by: Ashane25

It's not friendship its relationship....she loves him and still runs away from reality....pain can be understood it's not an easy task to get rid of what all she had been through but at the same time it's equally important to move on and value the guy who needs to be valued.....

Atleast Arjun is true to his feeling not faking just friends because itna close to Rahul Bhi Simran se nhi tha.....

@ bold - I thought it was Raj aur Simran.. Rahul kaun hai?