Kabhi Main Kabhi Tum (ARY) #4 - Fahad Mustafa, Hania Aamir - Page 46

Originally posted by: Kittykatkit

Originally they said rubab was overly possessive and wouldn’t let adeel out her sight , now she’s okay with him staying in a different country than her for months ? I feel like that doesn’t make sense

Absolutely!She is bindas and has no tension at all!Could it be bcs she was only concerned about Sharjeena and thought Adeel is only capable of cheating with Sharjeena and not with any other woman?

Originally posted by: Tiara-p

Absolutely!She is bindas and has no tension at all!Could it be bcs she was only concerned about Sharjeena and thought Adeel is only capable of cheating with Sharjeena and not any other woman?

Originally posted by: Tiara-p

i can’t take miscarriage that will literally ruin the essence of the couple for me.Miscarriage due to negligence from both parents will be pretty disheartening to watch

i don’t think they will show negligence as such

maybe due to stress and overworking it happens & mustafa is not able to be with her due to work unintentionally

situation hi aisi hai ki protection lena chahiye tha dono ko tbh

Originally posted by: Tiara-p

Woh log frustrated toh hai hi hume bhi kar rahe.Wasn’t this show supposed to be romcom,bcs I remember very well that Bilal tagged it as romcom story in his fuchsia iv when he was supposed to do it.Could it be that they have brought in changes later on in the story given that it’s Badar and he is very well capable of bringing in new track as per his whims which he did in mpht and mein?

I don’t think it was ever supposed to be a romcom. The reason they got married can never be qualified under romcom. It was always supposed to be a romantic drama.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Urhmm and where did he say ke she can't spend on her child or ghar???? Guess you clearly missed him saying that he will pay rent and grocery caz that is all he can manage at this point baaki sab tumko karna padega sharjeena and she being ok kar leinge.. sharjeena also paid for the furniture and committee daalo for ghar but again I guess easy to kiss the details when it is also in the dialogues. They have always maintained ke sab milke kareinge..where do you think ghar ka sab aa gaya hai..they have repeatedly said ke sharjeena also invested her 60'000 of savings..and again the last week too he said ke tumhare paise bhi lageinge..they have been milke managing but sure let's miss an important line and make a whole narrative around it that he doesn't take her money when BOY have specified that she will have to pull in the weight and maybe put even a bigger share then him caz his salary can barely manage the house rent and choti moti grocery

Let me paste thr exact sentence to debunk this whole narrative ke he doesn't want her money..excuse me.. plz hear him say it she will have ti take care of major Chunk of expenses at 0.58 to be specific.

https://x.com/PhotoshopLove3/status/1843319632478007484?t=V9Hp2Ffbff5gosP-2WyNPQ&s=19

After this very scene he was once again talking about his salary in the kitchen and how they have to survive within 35k?And also that he has to look out for another job to meet their demands,he doesn’t include her income once again in the list?

Originally posted by: filtered_chaos

I don’t think it was ever supposed to be a romcom. The reason they got married can never be qualified under romcom. It was always supposed to be a romantic drama.

https://x.com/hania_admirer/status/1843184699352678908?s=46

haha found this really cute.They came a long way

Originally posted by: Tiara-p

After this very scene he was once again talking about his salary in the kitchen and how they have to survive within 35k?And also that he has to look out for another job to meet their demands,he doesn’t include her income once again in the list?

https://x.com/ishqbulawa/status/1843367629664465274?s=46

true,she seemed so happy ,that glowing smile was infectious,i can’t see her getting through miscarriage

I don't think the problem here is that he looks down on her job or her income, he is clearly in no position to do so! So the point that he would have objected on her doing a job makes no sense. The major problem here is that- according to societal gender roles: HIS money is THEIR money and HER money is only HERS! And this can be a serious issue considering their situation. Yes he himself proposed that he would do the rent and groceries and she will have to take care of the 'rest' of the things, but you can never say he is too happy about using her money. And he constantly tells how they have to manage in his salary without bothering to include hers in the sum total. And I feel it's not only his fault, his parents have instilled this in him and sharjeena's father looking down on him and people judging him all contribute to this. But he has to understand that it's not them who live with him, who are ready to sacrifice their everything for him, who are ready to face any challenges in the path just to stay with him...it's HIS WIFE! It's THEIR life, THEIR home.

And when it comes about self respect, even Sharjeena was constantly insulted in his house, but she still managing to stay in the house, doing the household chores is often defined as "achi bahu", with people generally not being concerned about her self respect. If she could listen to all of that, can he not manage to just take a loan from his father in law without bothering about what he thinks of him. And if not that, atleast count her salary in the sum total! Things would have different if Sharjeena didn't earn, I am sure many of us, I know I would have, talked about how she should contribute if she is educated and skilled. But the gender roles are so deeply rooted in us that most of the time we don't see if there is anything wrong with it, and because it is so normalised we find reasons to defend it and him being the good human he is-this itsy bitsy detail takes a backseat. But however hard we try to deny it, or cover it up in sheet of 'his love and responsibility', it won't change the fact that he sees the need for himself to be the provider.