Kabhi Main Kabhi Tum (ARY) #4 - Fahad Mustafa, Hania Aamir - Page 44

Originally posted by: vdna

My thoughts exactly. I'm not liking that part of Mustafa that expects him to be the sole bread winner - his comment today about his new job getting him 35k and that they'll have to run the house with that left me scratching my head - dude, what is your wife earning for then?! - I get that they want to show him more capable etc. - but that doesn't mean that he totally ignores the fact that his wife is bringing in the money too! - Just giving him the benefit of doubt - perhaps his wanting to earn and get Sharjeena all the expensive things is just his way of wanting to shower her with love and not some patriarchal thought of not using wife's earnings!!!

Also he threw his phone on the ground - any phone would have gotten ruined by that!! when they are short on money, bad move for the expensive phones they own, no?

I also can’t understand why he’s refusing the offer from Sarjeena’s parents to help them out financially. Isn’t that what family is supposed to do?

Wasn’t he living off his brother and family’s money before all this? Wouldn’t Sarjeena be relying on his parents or brother if circumstances were different? He’d rather subject his "love" to a harsh life in an unsafe neighbourhood than let go of his fragile male ego. He could say its a loan and we will pay you back later..

Also Sarjeena’s jabs (before they moved out) at Adeel about spending his wife’s money might be clever digs at his male ego but honestly I see nothing wrong with him using Rubab's money. He works at the company too and brings in his own income. Couple’s money is couple’s money! It just shows that Sarjeena seems to share Mustafa's views that using a wife’s money is somehow degrading.

Originally posted by: KhaqONeal

I can’t understand why he’s refusing the offer from Sarjeena’s parents to help them out financially. Isn’t that what family is supposed to do?

Wasn’t he living off his brother and family’s money before all this? Wouldn’t Sarjeena be relying on his parents or brother if circumstances were different? He’d rather subject his 'love' to a harsh life in an unsafe neighbourhood than let go of his fragile male ego. He could say its a loan and we will pay you back later..

Also Sarjeena’s jabs (before they moved out) at Adeel about spending his wife’s money might be clever digs at his male ego but honestly I see nothing wrong with him using Rubab's money. He works at the company too and brings in his own income. Couple’s money is couple’s money! It just shows that Sarjeena seems to share Mustafa's views that using a wife’s money is somehow degrading.

I think the fact that he got accused of stealing was the last straw. Up until then he had accepted the fact that everyone considered him a loser and what not - but to slap a theft accusation on him and indirectly insult Sharjeena was something he couldn't put up with.

I'm willing to cut him some slack and assume that his refusal of money from various sources - sharjeena's parents included - is only because the theft accusation has hurt him a lot and he wants to prove to the world that he can earn for himself and his family and doesn't need anyone else's help.

Sharjeena's dad was critical of their circumstances and it just didn't have the right vibe - Perhaps her father should realize his potential for coding and developing games and offer to put down money as a venture capitalist for a start up that Mustafa can create.

I think Mustafa is just tired of people thinking of him as incapable and so far he had resigned to that idea and just sailed along but now he wants to make a point and prove to everyone that he is not as useless as they consider him to be!

But yes, accepting money as a loan is a good idea, also accepting his wife's money as his would add a lot to his character - i'm not sure what his problem is with using money that his own wife has earned and the taunts about that aimed toward adeel were also not in good taste if it was meant to mean that he was using his wife's money!!

I think his made junoon for money is going to lead to the cause of separation between the two - I hope Sharjeena is able to more than provide for her kid with her salary and I hope Mustafa realizes how he put his thirst for money above his cherished relationships!!

Originally posted by: KhaqONeal

I can’t understand why he’s refusing the offer from Sarjeena’s parents to help them out financially. Isn’t that what family is supposed to do?

Wasn’t he living off his brother and family’s money before all this? Wouldn’t Sarjeena be relying on his parents or brother if circumstances were different? He’d rather subject his 'love' to a harsh life in an unsafe neighbourhood than let go of his fragile male ego. He could say its a loan and we will pay you back later..

Also Sarjeena’s jabs (before they moved out) at Adeel about spending his wife’s money might be clever digs at his male ego but honestly I see nothing wrong with him using Rubab's money. He works at the company too and brings in his own income. Couple’s money is couple’s money! It just shows that Sarjeena seems to share Mustafa's views that using a wife’s money is somehow degrading.

I didn’t like the promo at all!Him doing money money all the time when his wife is pregnant and they are having a baby,it’s like you are putting her through stress when she is already in a vulnerable condition,you are supposed to take care of her and keep her away from unnecessary stress as much as possible in this condition?I can very well see Sharjeena losing the baby at this rate.What happened to him about being considerate ?He could just stop ranting about money infront of her 24/7,couldnt he?

https://x.com/Khan_BilloRani/status/1843319164808896648

I liked that they showed Sharju pick out clothes they showed her wearing in the recent episode

Mustafa gave Sharju the most expensive gift he could afford, while Adeel is giving his wife a bunch of diamonds

The last scene, was my favourite till now, Sharju went form shy small smile, talking about just happening to visit a hospital, to admit that shes pregnant and having the biggest smile plastered on her face at the end of the shot. Hania looked so pretty in that scene, its acted out well

I think mustafa not wanting to take his wife's money makes sense... Its actually very logical

All his life everyone has told him he is a loser, good for nothing... Even when he got a job his parents weren't very supportive bec they don't understand wfh and gaming.... Then his dad was critical and his parents ignored all his efforts and just focused on adeel... Sharjeenas dad also thinks he is useless

He doesn't have a problem with sharjeena earning (otherwise he would have objected to her job) but he just needs to feel that he is good and capable enough of taking care of the one person that believes in him.... On his own, without any help.. It's a confidence amd insecurity issue...

Right now the only defense he had against adeel was that at least I'm not like you, using my wife to get ahead.... That is the only shred of pride he is holding on to... Once he starts using her money he'll become like adeel in his own eyes...

All issues aside I just wanna know how they got this dumb to get pregnant given everything they’re going through. Did they skip sex ed class or what

Mustafa’s frustration at their finances and at losing his job is logical. I’m not understanding Sharjeena’s “live your dream” talk right this second. I get where she’s coming from but this was a HUGE blow for Mustafa. If this is how he wants to temporarily cope, then it’s fine? And god Fahad is such a strong actor man, you FEEL every second of his performance. You actually feel like you’re broke along with him All his fears and budget talks and helplessness so beautifully translated on screen.

Sharjeena was really cute with the pregnancy reveal though. Her shyness and her happiness was so visible and endearing. Not looking forward to Mustafa’s reaction tomorrow but shukar hai Maine kabhi usse “green flag” nahi kaha aur na hi woh hai 🙃 Boy is all set to go down this dark road now.

Mustafa not being happy about pregnancy just sucks.it’s their baby,she is not the only one responsible for it!Why does Sharjeena need to coddle him about this issue,he is not a kid forgodsake!Their relationship is not really balanced out,it’s always Sharjeena putting more efforts and no wonder she would snap and start taking steps back from him bcs it’s very much needed now!This time it should be Mustafa who should make her believe that their relationship means the world to him.

Originally posted by: meandwho

https://x.com/Khan_BilloRani/status/1843319164808896648

I liked that they showed Sharju pick out clothes they showed her wearing in the recent episode

Mustafa gave Sharju the most expensive gift he could afford, while Adeel is giving his wife a bunch of diamonds

The last scene, was my favourite till now, Sharju went form shy small smile, talking about just happening to visit a hospital, to admit that shes pregnant and having the biggest smile plastered on her face at the end of the shot. Hania looked so pretty in that scene, its acted out well

Good to see some people atleast getting the point.. it all makes sense and none of them are butchered ..and people need to stop assuming stuff and getting ahead of the story .kahan Mustafa looks unhappy about pregnancy..he is shocked and theg literally froze at thag caz it is unexpected and surprising..one have to understand it is jit a planned pregnancy and a huge life change in anyone's life..most guys get shocked in ache se ache halaat too and it takes them some time to react plus here toh uppar se shock pe shock nil rahe hain Mustafa ko..he is no ways wrong in rorying whether he will be able to even provide for the new life..his pareshani is all jaayaz..and again woh bhi one has to see caz abhi toh he hasn't even reacted and he is painted all red suddenly.. again it is all about the situation the nature of it..and when has Mustafa ever backed out from taking up responsibility people are conveniently forgetting that he picked a choti job just so he can have a steady income and can provide for his wife..he doesn't wanna make all the taunts and disgusting disrespectful things he ehar about himself everyday to be true so he is like nahi baith sakta main..meri izzat jaati hai jaaye choti job karoonga but will be a partner..

I don't know from where this assumption is coming that he looks down on her money or doesn't like her earning bla bla..the guy legit again said ke I will pay rent and grocery caz that is all I can manage you take care of the rest which both partners as partners do..yahan mera paisa tera paisa toh ho hi nahi raha phir bhi.. pata mahi kya kha banaya jaa raha hai

Anyway loved the epi and these 2 surprised me and in a very good way woth how they communicated the issues the way Mustafa took his time away ghussa aaya ghar se chala gaya rather than phatooing on biwi and aake apna time he took khamoshi apna li..

Very well written andnprofressing and I ka Usp hi wih understanding and saath hai the way theg samjho each other ..

Also have to mention here..abhi toh Mustafa hadn't reacted kuch bhi at news but even if he does and I am also hoping he doesn't go all dark and behave badly but even if he has questions they are valid..what is the point if bringing another life in a miserable situation if they can't even give it a good life. One has to understand kahin na kahin Mustafa himself is an unwanted child and we have seen it all the time in the way his parents have paida karooed and haath dho liye uske baad sirf emotional trauma hi dia hai..apni not being able to give the children a good life ki bhadhaas Mustafa pe hi nikli hai in some ways..to.the point ke shagufta aunty cannot talk about anything but paisa caz tangi rahi hai..so shluld Mustafa really give a miserable life to another life ..but then yeh bohat aage ki baat hai abhi tob aisa kuch hua hi nahi..but uska pov is not as straight ..neither at any point t has he backed off from any of his responsibility infavf if anything Mustafa sirf aur sirf aur nikhar ke aaya hai in troubled times..the way he set ul his goal his focus to make sure that SHARJEENA DOESN'T have to suffer.. a small detail everyone is conveniently forgetting..his literal every other senentence is it is so yoh do not fave any kind of discomfort any kind of kabhi regret kabhi pareshani kabhi kuch tang na ho tumhare liye apni bisat se bhadh kar kar rsha hai and not caz usko jatana hai caz he feels responsible and pyar hi aisa hai uska..sharjeena ne toh maanga nahi hai but he himself doesn't feel satisfied ke uski biwi beizzag hui she has to live in this..but sure minor things for people to look over I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️