Kaffara (GEO) - Ali Ansari, Laiba Khan - Page 99

Originally posted by: anikamathur

I think pehli baarish will replace kaffara

After Kaffara I won't watch any daily.. unless it stars Ali Ansari or Bilal Quraishi .

Originally posted by: awida

After Kaffara I won't watch any daily.. unless it stars Ali Ansari or Bilal Quraishi .

But nowadays dailes of geo and Ary are doing amazing recently tark e wafa is doing well

Originally posted by: roopshas1

Is it just me or do people just skip to Salar Sitara scenes and miss the context of the whole story and are now bashing Sitara in SM?

I won't blame people if they're bashing Sitara. Salar cares for her and now also has expressed his feelings, but she is ready to ruin her life for the people who don't miss a chance to insult her. Salar is putting in so much effort, but she is rudely behaving with him, not understanding his feelings, and rejecting him every time he meets her. May be Salar's brother-in-law and sister are able to put some sense into her and she stops making stupid decisions for her life.

Originally posted by: anikamathur

But nowadays dailes of geo and Ary are doing amazing recently tark e wafa is doing well

I know. But watching dailies take lots of time and I have lots of work. If there's something very romantic with actors who share amazing chemistry, and story which worths it.. I may watch.

Originally posted by: roopshas1

Honestly, everyone in X or Insta is like this chudail, this kameeni, this dayan ne usko bukhar me bulaya. And I am like tum logon ke mutabik to Sitara antaryami hai. Bhagwan hai. Usko to sab pata hona chahiye. Like if the guy does not tell her that he is sick when she called on the phone, how will she know? Plus did you see how arrogantly he was patting the ringbox? Bhai, shaadi karna chahte ho na, thodi humility dikha do. Tumhare hi kaam aayega.

I keep remembering how the camera focused on Sitara's expression when Salar was being rude to Taya during the haath pakdna kaand. The thing is that while Sitara's family deserves a beatdown, they still are her relatives. Despite everything that is still her family. There is a difference in being assertive and disrespectful. People on SM are after her for being rude to Saba and Junaid for trying to defend Salar's obsessive behaviour by saying he is doing so much for you but there is no equivalent reaction when Salar was being rude to Taya despite Taya explaining because he had not given any date and then gone off to Canada, it was natural for him to take the new offer up. Don't get me wrong. Sitara should not have spoken to Junaid and Saba that way but then again neither should have Salar to Taya and Tayi. I hope Sitara tells them everything about what Salar had done because he had never told them the extent of damage or insult that he did to Sitara. Not to mention, not once has he apologised for what he did nor has he ever exposed the truth to her family. He only keeps saying hamdardi-hamdardi and then uses his money and power to do whatever he wants regardless of SItara's feelings. Only now, that hamdardi rant has changed to mohabbat-shaadi rant. Phupho knows Nimi's deeds and Tayi knows Kiran's and while it is true that they will try to defame him for exposing the truth, at least the truth should come out. What exactly is Salar even thinking? And why people on SM are so lacking in comprehension is beyond me.

I won't blame people if they're bashing Sitara. Salar cares for her and now also has expressed his feelings, but she is ready to ruin her life for the people who don't miss a chance to insult her. Salar is putting in so much effort, but she is rudely behaving with him, not understanding his feelings, and rejecting him every time he meets her. May be Salar's brother-in-law and sister are able to put some sense into her and she stops making stupid decisions for her life.

I agree he should reinstate her honor or atleast try to do that.

Originally posted by: Hatimoon

I won't blame people if they're bashing Sitara. Salar cares for her and now also has expressed his feelings, but she is ready to ruin her life for the people who don't miss a chance to insult her. Salar is putting in so much effort, but she is rudely behaving with him, not understanding his feelings, and rejecting him every time he meets her. May be Salar's brother-in-law and sister are able to put some sense into her and she stops making stupid decisions for her life.

Even in great lovestories. Lovers sacrifise their happiness for their dear ones. Sitara has only one brother which is her parents gift.

Sitara doesn't trust anyone at the moment. And Salar appears like a rich brat who gets all he wants by hook or crook.

Originally posted by: roopshas1

Honestly, everyone in X or Insta is like this chudail, this kameeni, this dayan ne usko bukhar me bulaya. And I am like tum logon ke mutabik to Sitara antaryami hai. Bhagwan hai. Usko to sab pata hona chahiye. Like if the guy does not tell her that he is sick when she called on the phone, how will she know? Plus did you see how arrogantly he was patting the ringbox? Bhai, shaadi karna chahte ho na, thodi humility dikha do. Tumhare hi kaam aayega.

I keep remembering how the camera focused on Sitara's expression when Salar was being rude to Taya during the haath pakdna kaand. The thing is that while Sitara's family deserves a beatdown, they still are her relatives. Despite everything that is still her family. There is a difference in being assertive and disrespectful. People on SM are after her for being rude to Saba and Junaid for trying to defend Salar's obsessive behaviour by saying he is doing so much for you but there is no equivalent reaction when Salar was being rude to Taya despite Taya explaining because he had not given any date and then gone off to Canada, it was natural for him to take the new offer up. Don't get me wrong. Sitara should not have spoken to Junaid and Saba that way but then again neither should have Salar to Taya and Tayi. I hope Sitara tells them everything about what Salar had done because he had never told them the extent of damage or insult that he did to Sitara. Not to mention, not once has he apologised for what he did nor has he ever exposed the truth to her family. He only keeps saying hamdardi-hamdardi and then uses his money and power to do whatever he wants regardless of SItara's feelings. Only now, that hamdardi rant has changed to mohabbat-shaadi rant. Phupho knows Nimi's deeds and Tayi knows Kiran's and while it is true that they will try to defame him for exposing the truth, at least the truth should come out. What exactly is Salar even thinking? And why people on SM are so lacking in comprehension is beyond me.

I hope Salar's nani gets to know all of this through Saba and Junaid and direct Salar to restore Sitara's honour publicly alongwith an apology because that is the only way love can replace the tendrils of pain that is now crushing Sitara's heart which clearly is concerned for Salar but is still traumatised and humiliated by what had happened.

I read Hatimoon's post and I think it has a point.

I feel that there is a difference between Sitara being rude to Saba and Junaid and Salar being rude to Taya. I have not watched the episode where she was rude to them but understanding the context you gave I can get it. Salar knows about Sitara's family and he has an impression about them because he was with them personally, even though Taya was caring towards Sitara before but later he was also the one who agreed to get her married to a middle aged man with children(if I am not wrong). I can understand the Twitter people regarding not calling out Salar for disrespecting Taya.

On the other hand, Sitara knows nothing about Saba and Junaid personally and if she was rude to them because they were defending Salar, it's not done.

Originally posted by: awida

Even in great lovestories. Lovers sacrifise their happiness for their dear ones. Sitara has only one brother which is her parents gift.

Sitara doesn't trust anyone at the moment. And Salar appears like a rich brat who gets all he wants by hook or crook.

Normally a younger brother does not behave like this with an elder sister and doesn't dictate to his elder sister. He slapped her, and she is like, Ok, you can slap me as I love you, makes no sense. What's the point of sacrificing your life for a brother like this who doesn't respect his elder sister, who's immature and doesn't know what's good for her and what's bad?

Originally posted by: Hatimoon

I won't blame people if they're bashing Sitara. Salar cares for her and now also has expressed his feelings, but she is ready to ruin her life for the people who don't miss a chance to insult her. Salar is putting in so much effort, but she is rudely behaving with him, not understanding his feelings, and rejecting him every time he meets her. May be Salar's brother-in-law and sister are able to put some sense into her and she stops making stupid decisions for her life.

Not saying that she is not being stupid. Quite frankly, she should have torn apart the walima beizzati logic by pushing back and asking the right questions on how she could have sent the messages when the phone was with Taya. Even if she was shocked at the walima, she should have pushed back later. Everything that happened from post second marriage onwards she should have pushed back on, especially using Salar's name. But semi-helpless FLs is what rules PTV and ITV it seems and unfortunately Sitara seems to have given up completely. Like girl, run away. You don't have to accept Salar but at least choose yourself. But then, I keep thinking how an orphan like her must perceive family and it becomes clear to me that Sitara thinks that her family is although abusive, the only anchor she has in this world and Salar is just a nuisance/humdard. She literally has no context to Salar's thought process and it is difficult to trust someone who have known only of a handful of months which was also laden with him not supporting her or insulting her. But still stupid, like girl. You have your mom's jewellery. Mortgage them. Go to women's shelter. Register in a LLB somewhere. Find a job. Seek police protection. But no.....Madam ko apne dimaag ka istemaal karne main tax lagte hain.

My problem is with the fandom on SM who seem to have forgotten the magnitude of what Salar did or is still doing. Saba and Junaid are definitely asking the right questions by asking why should Salar pick up her calls but on the reverse as well, let's not forget that much of what Salar did had an insanely bad effect on her even if it was unknowingly. Take what happened with Zoya. She was trying to help Sitara genuinely even if she was pissed off at Nimi. A lot of FD on SM are saying that how can Sitara accuse Salar like that but it is true that many of the things that were done by Salar with good intentions (not allowing her to marry a man who values her less than his career, not allowing her to marry the middle aged man with two kids, not allowing her to marry her worthless snake of a cousin) but the consequence is that the more he takes these actions, the more abusive the environment she is living in becomes and she is the one left to bear the brunt of the cost. A few days of heart eyes, tears, obsession, tadpaoing, a fever which happened because Salar was neglecting his health does not erase the absolute character assassination that happened to Sitara. Of course, he is a victim too here. But he had not only refused to help when she pleaded for it but actually traumatised her in public. Sitara does not want love right now. She wants her honour restored and her familial bonds to return to a semblance of normalcy. And Salar's actions are only creating upheavals in ways that she does not welcome. The worst part is she has not only been pushed to a wall but actually to a corner. She realises that she has no more space in her own home. The marriage is certain to be equally bad. She is essentially a prisoner at her own home and life. At this point, if the wedding brings this humiliation to an end for her beloved Taya and Zohaib, in Sitara's eyes, so be it. And if does not, death will be the relief. And in all of this, Salar jumps in out of nowhere and unfortunately given his track record, she has no faith in him. People forget that before he went away to Canada, it was sirf hamdardi, only platonic friendship. Randomly koi bhi agar aake bolega ki wo tumse pyar karta hai wo bhi wo jo aapko pehle dhoka aur beizzati de chuka hai aur jo jaane ae pehle bol raha tha ki sirf humdardi hai, mohababt nahi jabki wo aapki shaadi do baar tod chuka hai to use achanak se pyaar kahaan se ho gaya - ye sawaal puchhna to ladki ka banta hai aur uske baaton par yakeen na karna bhi banta hai. But FD on SM would prefer to bash Sitara while going all baby mera baccha at Salar just because he has started mooning over this girl.