Originally posted by: music_girl
the father tells the mom that he won't send her, not to Andaleeb. That being said, the parents didn't even have a conversation with her.
It's more faulty writing for shock value than actual storytelling. This show uses consent, emotional, mental and physical abuse for ratings and views or the writer is plain dumb. If you watch future episodes, you might see.
Disclaimer: not a numair hater or moiz lover, i don't ship any ship
Agreed that for PTV (and also ITV) dramas, the way to get TRPs and YouTube views is to have shock value by mostly showing insane abuse on women. The crying mazloom and physically/mentally abused aurat brings in the views every time.
all of the Geo hit shows like Shiddat , Jaan Nisar and the soaps and many others. In Shiddat - Asra goes through severe mental abuse by Sultan only to be united with him in the end. In Jaan Nisaar you see Sarfaraz push a pregnant Fiza who loses the baby - and then she is encouraged to give evidence to the police that she fell down and it was her fault. In Noorjahan there is dialogues saying " Women's fault to bear girl child" and Hunain pushing Sakina who loses her baby. And there are many more such instances like this in all the dramas.
In the case of Jafaa ( the meaning of Jafaa lis close to 'Zulm'), a teenager is forcibly married to a 35+ doctor. As a result she commits suicide and her own parents refused to have her in the house. Imagine if Numair was the regular repulsive GEO lead, who knows he might have forced himself (because it's his bloody marital right to have sex with his wife) on Deebu bringing her even more trauma. We have a doctor , successful who's is about to be abused by her husband.
Fortunately Numair turns out to be a sane and good man and that is why his basic human kindness is making all viewers to say what a great man he is. The Ptv viewers are so devoid of human kindness being shown to women that even the most basic humanity is heralded as a "Green Flag/forest".
Example - Farjaad saying to Umeed "Do you want Roti ?" , Numair saying to Deebu "Meri Biwi bahut acchi hai" or trying to get her to stop crying and eat a sandwich or a Salaar supporting Emaan ....all of these ML make viewers swoon. WHY WHY WHY ? It should be normal to care about your wife.
We Desi women (irrespective of India , Pak, Bangladesh) are so starved of human affection by society in general and even in dramas. you should see the comments section - Women say "there is no Farjaad in real life" "There is no Numair or Salaar in real life" . It brings me to tears. We are so deprived , even we are not aware of it most of the times.
So Sorry for the looong post but I am watching Jafaa because I personally want to see what happens to Deebu and Zaara . And if they even get a little happiness I will celebrate .
More power to women. and Down with all the atrocities against them.
