Originally posted by: sharadrocks
teekh hai ..toh phir badi badi baatein karna chod dein ..I am tired of the narrative that Abhira is not doing whatever she needs to do because she knows Armaan will not stand by her, he will cry for his family or whatever ..my point is why do you even want a man who won’t stand by you .? If his family is all-important to him, shouldn’t your self-respect be all important to you ? Self-respecting, strong ITV FLs my foot 😡
Achha ab samjhi!! The thing is we may say whatever we want, but the show's narrative isn't that Abhira is doing this only for the sake of Armaan! To be fair even before Armaan came crying to her that he needs his family or that he would die without it, she did refuse his marriage ask in the hospital itself! That was all her..
And she always knew what this family meant to Armaan! In fact she knows it so much better than most others! She tho even assumed he's marrying Ruhi only for the sake of his family!! The right time to use her self respect and stay away would have been then! But chalo teekh Hai tab Nahi tho she should have atleast not forgiven him when she did! When her pyaare papa wrote her a whole list, she chose to ignore every single one of the names and what they did.. that alone should have made her say let's keep it quiet and atleast register our marriage when Armaan asked her in the hospital...
Chalo ye sab bhi nahi tho teekh hai.. but instead of making random assumptions that Armaan will blame her later and that Armaan needs his family etc, why don't you say it to his face?? I would marry you in a heartbeat but I know you will blame me if things go wrong tomorrow?? You will hold me responsible for every mess and that's why I'm not okay to marry you without family's blessings! Wo nahi bolegi!!
Armaan jo roz Bolta Hai don't do this, stay away from family issues that would make our wedding harder to get blessed wo nahi manna Hai, bas Jo wo shayad kal bol de, us dar se Aaj wo jo bol raha hai wo nahi karna hai.. this is how she's been operating! And this is the show's narrative that I see! That she is doing what she thinks is right in the name of doing it for Armaan without any consideration for whether he even wants it or not! Because she apparently knows the future him so she will do what she thinks is right for the present him! Hadd Hai!!
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