YRKKH: BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread # 21 - Page 42

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

Nope, that was not how it was shown.. If Ar need to be called out for actions during the track, it should be for ego / anger driving his stupid actions to hurt her like washing that ring, that video testimonial etc.

Next day after Ab left he is shown to have curious about her situation during that phone call and he genuinely believing what Ab told, why should anyone think Ab is lying.. He referred herb for job.. There is nothing like he forgetting insaaniyat.. His concern for Ab welfare has been a constant trait, one that even Ruhi raised several times.

Washing ring, video testimonial were also insensitive and unnecessary.

But he didn't care where she was living after she left. He was announcing shaadi insensitively as she was leaving.

First time around he did care, he tracked her down to that hostel. But this time he did nothing.

He overheard her on phonecall and believed it- fine. But very soon he realized she lied because she was interviewing for a new job. So he should have realized she could have lied about other things to because she didn't want to worry chachi, M or impose on them.

He didn't follow up regarding the job with his colleague whom he gave sifaarish to. If he did he'd know about Sanjays kartoots much earlier.

He saw her with those people on the road waiting for food and worried that she needed money but then didn't pursue it. He tried to talk to her but she left and then he did too. Thats it. He didn't check up.

He was so blinded in rage that he didn't have insaaniyat.

It wasn't deliberate maybe but he did leave her alone in dire situation when she most needed it. He was not even able to maintain some decorum in their separation .he was privy to her bank balance and her lack of stable job. Yet he just let her go without even thinking ki kaisi hogi, kahaan hogi.

So now when things are not so dire, he doesn't need to go crazy trying to help when none is needed.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

@bold exactly my point too ..if this is what you think of the man, then what are you even doing anywhere in his vicinity ..you are the one living with his father and now in the outhouse of his home .:agar woh itna neech hai and you are still so bothered about his family and his happiness, then you are making yourself the doormat and not he ..and yes, there is hardly any difference between Ruhi and she .:Ruhi jumped to conclusions, did her own drama and then finally wanted a beech ka raasta..Abhira and Armaan were in an arrangement which did not necessitate full disclosure for multiple reasons .:after drilling into his head that she wanted nothing more than a year’s refuge, she changed the goal post.:and now he is the liar, the two-timer and the cheat …this after actually working up the guts to go against his family in public and calling off a marriage right at the mantap…Armaan is guilty of many a mistake but Abhira is not some paragon of perfection .:i wish someone would record her actions and words and play it back to her sometime for her to see ..and not just what Ruhi and Armaan said or did not say ..vile and manipulative as Kaveri is, today she called it right and no two ways about that !

Bold - KP ne tho bol diya but hum maan lein tho mandir me jo naariyal phoda tha declaration ke saath uska kya hoga

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

Nope, that was not how it was shown.. If Ar need to be called out for actions during the track, it should be for ego / anger driving his stupid actions to hurt her like washing that ring, that video testimonial etc.

Next day after Ab left he is shown to have curious about her situation during that phone call and he genuinely believing what Ab told, why should anyone think Ab is lying.. He referred herb for job.. There is nothing like he forgetting insaaniyat.. His concern for Ab welfare has been a constant trait, one that even Ruhi raised several times.

This is my take.. ☺

Exactly. If she's in dire state , and he helped her , how do we read it?

First she will reject his help citing her self respect second , she will question him why does he care for her when he's marrying ruhi ..at the same time , she was expecting him to come & confess ..the same person who didn't show insaniyat. She was dreaming of him ..she was exited for his confession when she learnt he broke off the shadi with ruhi..Arman was the same person bk then...no matter how worse he behaved , all these points become moot. If she continues to love him knowing the complete truth, her current stand becomes moot.

If he didn't help her , who saved her in bachelor's party? Who fired her so that she stops getting insulted from his family ?

Abhira ka toh ..help karo aur joote khao ke mujhe help nahi chahiye , nahi toh gali khao ke help kyun nahi ki. 😐 she can take madhavs help but why ? They need to fix her big time. Else keep her away from ph.

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Bold - KP ne tho bol diya but hum maan lein tho mandir me jo naariyal phoda tha declaration ke saath uska kya hoga

Oh yeah..we'll need a "aaj khush toh bahut Hoge tum" scene later . Coz ladki ka harr raasta bas arman ki taraf jaata hai ya ph ki taraf

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

yeh panic attack hatadein please script se..Subah Subah audience ko kyun panic attack de rahe hain aise performances dikha ke ..either hire actors who can perform or write scenes that the actors you have hired can perform ..🙄

I completely agree.

If the actress was just directed to sit on the floor with her knees up and her head on her lap,

or if she just lay on the bed crying, it would've had the emotional effect they wanted

but all that extra drama make the scene less effective to clownish

Simple can be just as effective like when Ab, had her breakdown laying on the floor or

feeling chills and covering herself with multiple clothing, it's simple but yet impactful

Abhira is there in PH for Armaan as much as VM. Just that she wont accept it now.

She has never called him a playboy or characterless.

She wants to trust him, she wants to be with him. If she did not, she'd have left the city no matter what anyone said.

She never imposed her love on Armaan or guilt tripped him to love her back.

She was walking away wishing him well genuinely.

But now that he has said he does love her, obviously she feels a certain haq. So when she realizes that he was playing some ridiculous bff hai thing with his ex Ruhi and allowed her so much haq in his life, she is broken. When she realizes that he can do extreme things which are polar opposites - divorcing her for family with utter brutality vs dumping Ruhi for her - that makes him look bipolar, not a stable reliable person.

She still wants to believe that he was just pressured, he didn't do it on purpose and he also realized his true feelings quite late.

But Armaans actions are such that one cannot trust him right away about fulfilling a lifelong commitment.

But she just needs some time. It does not help that Kaveri hates her and V disapproves of her.

None of what Abhira has done can be compared to a Ruhi. Thats just ludicrous.

Abhira is not perfect but out of the 3 people in that triangle, she has been the most logical and relatable.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I completely agree.

If the actress was just directed to sit on the floor with her knees up and her head on her lap,

or if she just lay on the bed crying, it would've had the emotional effect they wanted

but all that extra drama make the scene less effective to clownish

Simple can be just as effective like when Ab, had her breakdown laying on the floor or

feeling chills and covering herself with multiple clothing, it's simple but yet impactful

Its not about helping, its about how its done

When Armaan saved her from his lewd friends in bachelors she silently accepted it and thanked him Dil seh the next day. Because she knew it was genuine.

Firing her from job when only 1 day was left in the assignment is not of any use. She's already been tortured enough. By firing her and then depositing money- he was making her feeling indebted. If he had asked her boss to settle the money aspect because she anyway deserved to be paid for her services as planner- it would have been better optics. What he did felt like bheek dena because he couldn't love her back after her confession.

She accepts Ms help because it doesn't make her feel small or indebted. He never makes her feel like its something out of the way that needs to be paid back.

She has accepted Armaans help many times in the past but she only speaks about ehsaan and self respect when he makes her feel small.

It all started in the kaveri case where he made it seem like she had no gratitude and she was a freeloader.

Sometimes its better to not help than to do it in a way that makes someone feel really small, insulted.

Abhira would rather he not care at all even if she was in dire state than do some ehsaan type thing claiming he cares while he is marrying Ruhi and in front of everyone is a jerk to her. Peeth peeche acchai ka dhong isnt needed. Ya toh sahi seh karo, ya mat karo.

She has never questioned his kind heart or protectiveness for her. But she doesn't want to be a bojh. Many times she has acknowledged him supporting her going against family and how he has been patient with her and how he fulfils her little wishes like Akshara bday celebration, or holika dahan celebration etc

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

Yup, same video, abhira ko dekhke laga ke even she got bored of that clip

Mera bhi doubt wohi hain, she knows kaveri hates her toh unke baaton mein kyun aana, dadi jo video reminder deti rehti hain, she should just tell her ke thank you for letting me know about armaan's past, ab aage kya karna hain woh mein decide karungi as ab aap mera kuch nahi lagti.

But no, inko bas meaningless dialogues dena hain, with kaveri saying madhav Vidya sirf bahana hain tum armaan ke liye aayi ho, & abhira lying she don't care about armaan. Yeh pehle bhi hum 1 baar dekh chuke hain, before they made the deal, toh ab phir se kyun repeat karna??🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

hum bhi bore Ho Gaye .. next time Abhira should KP .. chill Mam .. I get your vibe .. I am not related to you anymore.. so don’t lecture me ..

Short of Abhira or someone from the writer's team identifying themselves here, I can't see how anyone can be "sure" of what Abhira is "thinking".. we are all only mere mortals trying to either infer from the writing or the scenes being played out and trying to make sense of what can or cannot be the result of a particular dialogue or a scene! And that can only be discussed and done on forums like this by viewing the story at large from the perspective of each and every character and how they tie the threads together to form a cohesive story!! I don't see how Vidya's pain becomes less consequential because currently Madhav is pro-Abhira or how Armaan suddenly is not lonely just because there is a large family with him.. These were people who have been with him all along and he still felt alone!

Anyway.. only going by what's laid out for us to see, conversations are the need of the hour on the show! Between Madhav Vidya, Armaan Abhira, Madhav Abhira, you name it!! And until they don't address any hidden secret and every burning issue with proper logic, I suppose we can just continue having our fun at the expense of the show.. Which isn't ideal but hey, neither are any of the characters or the story or the direction on this show currently!